Don’t wait for the relationship to manifest; you must first become the person who already has these qualities. This includes preparing your space for the partner of your dreams: Clean out your closet, empty a draw or replace that worn-out wallpaper. Think of all the ways in which you can prepare yourself and your life to be in perfect alignment with your perfect mate.
3. What is it exactly that you want to be different? If you want more money to come in the door, how much and how often? Do you want an extra $10,000 this year or every month? Do you want your business to gross an extra million or net an extra million? When? This month? This year? By next year’s end? You have to choose, or it becomes one of those “someday” goals (aka as a wish!).
Hi Melissa, thankyou always for your inspiring posts and your beautiful book. Just wondering what kind of Yoga you do and which type do you recommend? I know there are so many styles and types but I’m unsure of where to begin with yoga/meditation. Also wanted to know how you went about clearing your Candida and Heavy metals? Currently working on healing my gut and have been for about 6 months now. Thank you xx
The next thing to do is to think about your goal from the perspective of being in it, having already achieved it. Inside the picture—being it, having it, doing it. It isn’t necessary to have an actual mental picture here. If you’re good at visualizing, however, this step is about seeing what you desire to achieve as you would if you were there now having already achieved it.
Approaching money from a point of neediness or scarcity will prevent you from manifesting money. You’re much better off approaching it from a point of curiosity and excitement. Think of how a child views the world – everything is new and fun. The world is filled with possibilities. Embrace that state of childlike wonder. The results are pretty spectacular!
What I love about this book is that it is practical and insightful. He not only explains what the Law of Attraction is, but he explains how you can use it for results. The affirmations in this book are the best I have heard, and the question and answer section is a great, insightful addition. I highly recommend this book.
Most people live in this negative realm, so it’s considerably difficult to manifest money, or anything else for that matter, when this is the case. However, when you know that something will happen, your faith helps you to transcend that fear. This won’t work in the short term. The Law of Attraction takes considerable energy produced over an elongated period. Not days or weeks. Think months and years.
Money is energy and to the universe one thousand and one million is the same, but you can break down one million dollars in such a way that your energy and vibration at this point in time is in tune with it. This allows you to bypass any resistance your belief system may bring to the table.
Be sure to start this list by stating whether if your Soulmate is single, straight/gay (yes, you must be that specific) and available for a healthy, loving, committed, long-term relationship (or marriage if that is what you want.) Also, be sure to include that he or she lives close enough to you, and/or is willing to relocate if necessary for the two of you to be together. It is very important that you do not get too attached to this list, but rather release it by saying to yourself, “I welcome this, or something better!”
Everything in life is comprised of energy; your thoughts are what begins it and your emotions are what amplifies those thoughts. If you believe that your dreams can become your reality, you are halfway there. Take a moment and imagine that you already had what it is that you desire. Create a new identity. How would you feel? How would you move throughout your day? Live your dreams as if they already are your current reality.
By writing your soul mate a really heartfelt letter you are opening up the vibration of vulnerability. Tell your soul mate how much you need him or her right now and the ways in which you will show and express your love to them.
So take a few moments now to think yourself into this new future where you have already achieved your goal. Here’s where you will almost certainly need to do several rounds of tapping to assist your visualization and affirmation processes. This is something that, for really big goals, I recommend you repeat daily.
Imagine waking up every morning and reading a list of the great things in your life right now. It would definitely put you in a better mood and shift your perspective to find other things that make you happy. Like attracts like.
It may still seem too difficult to see this exercise as something that will help bring your soulmate to you. Still, these can be excellent habits to make that will prepare you for living with someone else.
Hi Toni! Tough question! Focus on holding that feeling of love in your heart. (Because it always starts inside of you, not with the other person!) Then keep on striving to become the kind of person you think you’d be if you were still in that relationship. (It’s all about attracting them back, not chasing them down!) But of course, we can only ever control our own energy and vibration (not the other person) so just focus on doing what you can! Good luck! 💜
Having just started to read about the law of attraction, I realized that I was already putting some of the practices to use. I just finished reading the Secret and this book is pretty much the same thing but more focused on love. By reading these books I realized that I originally attracted my love because I was shearing emiting love and radiance. I was in a great place and felt very confident. As the relationship grew, we allowed negativity in and I quickly lost focus on the positive as did he and then poof, it was gone. I was devastated because I know this is my soul mate and even though I have this gut feeling we WILL get back together, I was left with my head spinning. This book really helped put things into perspective and has made me realize, I need to get back to that old me. The woman that was already confident, joyful, loving and radiant. I am confident that I will attract my ideal relationship back, whether with its with my ex or someone better. This a great book to read to shift the focus back on to YOU.