My personal favorite way to really capture and imagine the feeling of being in the perfect relationship is to journal about it. There’s something so powerful about writing by hand. It helps you really slow down and focus easily.
Of course it isn’t possible to make someone fall for you, that would mean you’re controlling them, making them succumb to your wishes. That wouldn’t be right and is certainly not how the universe works. But can you use The Secret to attract a specific person?
This was the most powerful and loving piece of advice that my mother gave me when I was on the brink of going bankrupt in 2009. She told me to just be gentle on myself and take one day at a time. This helped tremendously to keep me focussed on my power in the present moment and not sabotage my vibration with overwhelm by thinking about the uncertainty of my financial future. This is an imperative factor to energy management throughout the manifesting process.
This is a rather persistent theme in my work, so it bears repeating here: if you want to elevate your life and become a manifester, then you have to change what you’ve believed to be true about yourself that has landed you where you are. The sentiments of This is reality, This is just the way things are, There is nothing that I can do to change what is, and the like are pernicious thoughts that will taint and defile your great gift of I am that I am, which is your Divine inheritance from your creator.
You may glean some insights from my experience, or feel your own inner nudges about how to put this to work yourself. I hope it inspires you to your own deliberate creation success – whatever you might choose.
How does soulmate love feel to you? What goes on in your brain or your chest or your belly when you see that person? Joyful, excited, relieved, secure, happy, anticipatory or content? Feel the feelings, imagine the conversations you’ll have and fake it till you make it. It’s better to ‘live as if’ rather than focus on the lack of the relationship. “It’s been x months/years and it still hasn’t happened” is living in insufficiency and that’s hardly what you want. Don’t live in the reality of what’s missing, you don’t get love by focusing on the love you don’t have—live as if you’ve already found your soulmate and share the love you have in your soul with everyone!
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The Law of Attraction works the same way. The truth is, your thoughts and feelings do have an effect on the events that take place around you. A shift in your perspective and understanding of the truth about your relationship to the universe, can begin to attract better things into your life.
Everything in life is comprised of energy; your thoughts are what begins it and your emotions are what amplifies those thoughts. If you believe that your dreams can become your reality, you are halfway there. Take a moment and imagine that you already had what it is that you desire. Create a new identity. How would you feel? How would you move throughout your day? Live your dreams as if they already are your current reality.
When your belief is that you are not worthy, that is what you’re going to attract back to yourself – more situations that reinforce this feeling. The point here is, that you have to learn to love yourself and put yourself first. It may sound a bit harsh, but it’s really not. If you treat yourself with love and respect, it won’t take long for others to do it too.
Once again, it is a level of belief 8 or above which will manifest for you what you want in life. So if your belief level is not very high for a particular goal or desire, don’t bother to apply of Attraction at this stage. You may re-adjust your goal using the SMART goal setting technique.
Life is not a fairy tale and “he” is not just going to show up and whisk you away. That only happens in reality about 1% of the time. You are free to wait, but if you are anything like me, that isn’t your style. Fortunately, that isn’t necessary either. How long are you going to keep yourself from experiencing bliss in all areas of your life? How long will you keep yourself from truly having it all?
STEP #2 (2:10) Raise your vibration by closing your eyes and feeling the way you want to feel when you have that person in your life – confident, secure, steady, happy, comfortable, content, accomplished, harmonious.
It’s a powerful thought, isn’t it? That we are responsible in some way for creating the reality around us. Sometimes it seems impossible to believe such a thing, particularly when things are not going well for us. We need to examine this in more detail!
Omg Elizabeth. It works! I have no words to describe. I am so grateful. Thank you so much. This is powerful. I tried this blindly for a week and I see money pouring over me. Thanks a lot. To newbies I highly recommend to blindly believe it and do it. Most importantly be at present and feel the smell….good luck to all. Thanks again.
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While sitting in a circle, you will visualize the power of the mothers, daughters, sisters, wives, grandmothers, lovers and friends. You will connect with the cycles of nature and the moon to remember our inner wisdom.
I’m so on a roll right now…LOVE IT! Took my little guy to another appointment today. Although I brought snacks with me, I did’t eat them. I was too busy carrying little man in his car seat and wishing I had brought his stroller instead. I was so hungry! I kept thinking about other snacks but I had no money. I would walk by a little stand and think about what I could get from there if I had some change on me.
After situations like that, it’s easy to focus on the negative qualities of the previous relationship. “He never wanted to try new restaurants; I won’t date a guy like that again.” Or, “She was always talking about wanting to get married and have kids, what’s the rush? I won’t date another woman who puts those at the top of her priority list!”
Having conversations or writing letters isn’t crazy. It’s actually just a powerful visualization exercise. It’s envisioning yourself in that happy fictional future and it’s by far one of the best ways I’ve found to feel those loving feelings before the event actually happens.
I love this post, and I’m back to it because I want to manifest something big. my husband and i have a goal for manifesting $40,000 in two years and being self-employed and able to travel. we’re working with a business coach on our business ideas and she’s saying 5-10 years. But I know this is possible. i already have my 100,000 check i wrote to myself for 2016, the year we earn 100,000. i set that intention 2 years ago. I know this can happen and I want to ask all of you to believe with me. thanks so much!!
Make a simple plan for the next 5 years, for the next year, for the next months and for the upcoming weeks. This will remind you what you need to do and it will motivate you to step into action without procrastinating.
For me, what is missing here is the ethical and moral framework. I see this video and I think “greed”. For me, if you manifest wealth, there needs to be a purpose behind it. One that serves you (by providing satisfaction and fulfillment) and serves the world (it makes a difference).