So what does that tell you? Well, when I asked myself the same question years ago before I started doing this work, what I realized was that in order for me to attract and manifest my Soulmate, I must somehow develop and grow myself into the kind of person that I myself want to be with. In other words, if you haven’t found the right person it’s probably because you are not being the right person! As Marianne Williamson says, “We must become the person we want to attract.”
3. What is it exactly that you want to be different? If you want more money to come in the door, how much and how often? Do you want an extra $10,000 this year or every month? Do you want your business to gross an extra million or net an extra million? When? This month? This year? By next year’s end? You have to choose, or it becomes one of those “someday” goals (aka as a wish!).
I was a first time bride at age 44. I woke up one day, at age 43, and decided to manifest my soulmate using everything I had ever learned about psychology, spirituality, and the Law of Attraction. My intentions became crystal clear while I simultaneously cleared out the clutter in my house AND in my heart.
Emily has a competitive side, so I played to that by challenging her to find more coins than me, which boosted her motivation and desire to get good at it. She knows that technically it’s a fair game, and she even gave herself an advantage by walking in front of me, so she could be the first to spot new coins. And since she’s only 4’9″ inches tall, she’s a lot closer to the ground than I am.
When you’re in the know, you’re deliberate about what you want. When you’re in the know, you no longer vibrate energy of fear or disbelief. You just know. As your disbelief wilts away, wanting is replaced by knowing. Getting into the know happens naturally. When you diligently practice steps one through four, you will clean house, get clear and feel happier. This process is healing and powerful, and it leads to a deep inner knowing that you are right where you need to be. Accepting your greatness in this moment, right now, is what manifests more greatness. Being in the know helps you accept that you already are living in your desired manifestation. When you feel it, you live it — regardless of what is happening on the outside. In time, the universe catches up with your energy and your desires come into form. This process of allowing the manifestation to follow your internal faith is the true process of co-creation.
Let me start off by acknowledging that I have been flat broke before. Not just once or twice. I have had those times where I was completely stressed to tears about how I was going to pay for the bills that were past due. I have also had times where I have had more than enough money to pay all my bills early, buy boats, cars and take big vacations.
You’re not just close to having abundance in all areas of your life: you’re already there. In fact, the things you desire most – love, prosperity, and health, are part of your natural state of being. When you accept that YOU ARE love, prosperity, and health with all of your heart, you will behave in a way that allows them to flow into your life.
I’ve been studying the law of attraction and the manifestation process for quite a while now, and I can honestly say that I don’t remember the last time I read such a powerful and comprehensive article on the topic!
Can you have it all? I believe that smart, successful women can have both a great career and a rich, warm, fulfilling love life. See – smart women like yourself were having unfulfilling love lives on an epidemic scale when I was an advisor at Harvard. They either couldn’t find the right guy, were with the wrong guy, had relationships that didn’t last, or had given up on dating entirely. So I wrote this book to remedy the situation. This is not your grandma’s dating guide.
“I am single and lonely, and it seems that there’s no one out there for me. I think about how much I want a partner every day. Aren’t I supposed to get what I think about? Why hasn’t the Universe brought me a lover yet? The Law of Attraction doesn’t work!”
I dare say she’s probably better at finding coins than I am now. She now knows there are coins everywhere, but she also really gets into the playful and competitive spirit of the game, which is much more exciting for her than it is for me. I think partly she likes knowing that it’s a fair game that either of us can win, and there’s no reason she can’t be at least as skillful as I am.
Now it’s important to note that I wasn’t exactly financially prosperous at the time. I’d been going through some challenges and “learning experiences” regarding money. And through it all, I learned something really important: Money is simply energy. It comes, it goes, it ebbs, it flows. So like a river that flows, I decided to let go, surrender, and trust that the Universe was going to take care of me. And miracles happened. Everything I needed began to show up just at the right time. I was manifesting things, people, and experiences into my life.
A very good advice here would be to take a time, each night before sleeping, place the hands on each other’s hearts, and look deeply into each other’s eyes. Try to penetrate into the soul of your partner.
The way we think about the world affects our experience in it — for good or for bad. Vishen Lakhiani’s transformational course, Consciousness Engineering, allows you to challenge any limiting beliefs you may hold. Try it out and live without limits today!
I wish I could manifest residual income that would replace the two jobs I have so I can be home. I am trying my best to do something my mom asked me to do after she passed away and it is too much to deal with now mainly because I am alone.
Eighteen months ago, Damien (my husband) and I bought a very unloved English Victorian terraced house, with a small ‘greasy spoon’ café underneath it. Since buying the property, we have been dreaming about the day that we would be able to use the space in a creative way.
On the other side, love given freely is a beautiful entity and giving that energy away feels good (for both people). And if you’re an incredibly crush-prone person (like me!), that’s an incredibly empowering thing.
Knowing is a positve energy and opens the door for attraction. Doubt is a negative energy and closes that same door. When you are in alignment with attracting your perfect mate, there is a sense of knowing he/she is on their way.
This plan should be like one A4 page and that’s it. Make sure that you read it every day and remind yourself where you are going. This will decrease your procrastination and you can use it like a blueprint, a map that leads to your goal.
If you think that once you have money, you will become stronger, you’re crazy. Absolutely deluded! More likely — if you actually did manifest money from that kind of vibe — you’d grow even weaker. This would be a bad outcome for you, even though it seems like what you want. You’d be a weak-minded, weak-hearted person with more money, and you’d still see the money as more powerful than you, even while it’s in your possession. You’d then become attached to it and afraid of losing it because you’d still mistakenly see it as a power source. It would become a source security for you, a constantly vulnerable one. The more money you had, the more paranoid you’d become about losing it. This would really mess you up big time. So be very, very glad that you naturally attract less money when you think of money as a power source. If you invite money into your life from that crazy frame of giving away your power, then money will become your Master, and you will be forever its slave. Don’t even go there!
Well, what would she be gaining by faking comments? lol. Maybe she’s selling something I don’t know, but if she’s just giving free knowledge/advice, then she really isn’t gaining anything from it and therefore it wouldn’t make any sense for her to post “fake comments” because it really wouldn’t matter if anybody did it or not to her.
Many people, when trying to manifest, focus too much on the outside form rather than the internal condition. From A Course in Miracles’ perspective, what’s important is our internal experience — whether we choose to experience love or fear. When we commit to our internal experience of love, we begin to attract more love. Many people approach manifestation from a place of “How can I get something to feel better?” Instead, the focus should be: “How can I feel better and therefore be an energetic match for attracting more greatness into my life?” The emphasis must be placed on healing the internal condition, not getting a hot new car or boyfriend.
Money is energy and to the universe one thousand and one million is the same, but you can break down one million dollars in such a way that your energy and vibration at this point in time is in tune with it. This allows you to bypass any resistance your belief system may bring to the table.