How does soulmate love feel to you? What goes on in your brain or your chest or your belly when you see that person? Joyful, excited, relieved, secure, happy, anticipatory or content? Feel the feelings, imagine the conversations you’ll have and fake it till you make it. It’s better to ‘live as if’ rather than focus on the lack of the relationship. “It’s been x months/years and it still hasn’t happened” is living in insufficiency and that’s hardly what you want. Don’t live in the reality of what’s missing, you don’t get love by focusing on the love you don’t have—live as if you’ve already found your soulmate and share the love you have in your soul with everyone!
This step is important because those competing signals can be quite strong. Weaken the signal or change the direction of those thoughts like this: Approach those feelings with the love and compassion that you would feel towards a lonely, small child or a hurt animal. When you love yourself, you open up the possibility to receive your greatest desires, and you begin to only desire the things that are best for you.
How about people with confidence who radiate a sense of wholeness? You’ve probably met someone before who seemed oddly content to be single if they needed to be, and yet they were never short of prospects.
What are the things that make you feel loved and light up your day? Is it the little things, like if he or she would write “I love you” on a sticky note and leave it in your lunchbox? Is it the silly, small compliments? Like how you style your hair, or about how the color you’re wearing today looks good on you?
The truth is you might not even know what will make you happy. Loosen up a bit. Stop focusing so hard on things being perfect, and welcome what comes with happiness. That will signal the world to send more of it.
Finally, and this is the part most people forget, take action. You can’t say you want $50,000 one month and then expect it just show up in your bank account if you aren’t working or taking the steps to build your business and sell your products or services. Take action that feels good to you — aligned action, if you will. While you are taking action, the Universe is seeing that you are doing your part to create your intention, and she, in turn, will do her part in bringing your intention to you.
I was once asking myself these questions… I had a downswing in my romantic life and for a longer period (few years…) I was literally repelled towards women. That happened after my heart was broken and I was really lost – I didn’t know what to do. However, there was one very important thing that was probably the #1 reason why today I’m living the life of my dreams when it comes to my romantic relationships – and that is – I NEVER for a second lost my hope and belief that true love indeed exists and that I WILL find my soul mate!
Once you see that the Law of Attraction works without you knowing, it will reinforce your understanding that this is simply a universal law. Work with your awareness of the law and understand how it works. Then you can work with the law and align yourself with it.
If you want a house, what would it look like? Would it be in the center of your city or on the periphery? Would be it 2 or 3 floors? What’s your living room going to be like? Decide on all details and form the complete picture.
If something like the paragraph written above is what goes through your mind when you’re trying to attract a mate, then it’s no wonder you haven’t manifested a relationship. That kind of thinking is a mentality of lack. No matter what you’re thinking about, you won’t attract anything with a mindset like that.
He considered the incarnation of Christ as the necessary manifestation to man of an eternal sonship in the divine nature, apart from which those filial qualities which God demands from man could have no sanction; by faith as used in Scripture he understood to be meant a certain moral or spiritual activity or energy which virtually implied salvation, because it implied the existence of a principle of spiritual life possessed of an immortal power.