You don’t have to fear being alone and sad if you let your partner go. Learn to embrace this time you have to be yourself without the fear of judgement. Go do the things that you always wanted to do, but didn’t do out of the fear that it would affect your partner.
Clarity is king when it comes to manifesting your desires. You must have clear intentions for what you want to call in — otherwise you can manifest a lot of what you don’t want. Focus on what you desire and then make a list of all that goes along with it. If you’re getting clear about the job you want, make a list of all the things about the job that make you happy: the office, the people, the salary, etc. Be unapologetic about what you want. This list helps you clarify your intentions and access a vibrant mental picture of what you desire.
You’re also competing with other people’s intentions – both good and bad. So, be aware that if your desire is in direct conflict with someone else’s stronger desire, the universe will respond accordingly. The Law of Attraction does not give you full and total control of your life, it simply states that like will attract like. You can use this to your advantage by being intentional with your desires, but this isn’t magic.
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It’s important to embrace the good in them, and celebrate how close you got! This IS a win, because it shows you that you brought to you exactly what you asked for. No more, and no less. Now, all that’s left to is to be more specific!
Arielle: Living as if means stepping outside of your current reality and stepping into the reality you wish to be true. It’s when your daily actions reflect and are congruent with your belief that your soul mate exists and is already yours. The best example of this was revealed to me by a famous actress. Once she became clear that she was ready to share her life with someone, she began living as if that person were already a part of her life. She would play music she imagined he would enjoy; she wore pretty nightgowns to bed instead of her typical T-shirt and sweats. Every morning she would feel that they were waking up and starting their day together, and every night at dinner she would light candles and set a place for him at the table. According to this actress, he eventually arrived. She sent a clear message to the Universe, and the Universe delivered. Now you may not be willing to set a table for two each night when you have dinner, but start to consider what you could do to generate the feeling that you are already sharing your life with your beloved. For example, buy tickets to a concert or play that is several months away, holding the intention that you will attend it with a hot date. Or the next time you are shopping for greeting cards, pick up a couple that would be fitting to give to your beloved on a birthday or to celebrate your anniversary, knowing that sometime soon that day will be here.
Manifesting money is a fun challenge. It’s definitely doable if you approach it from a place of playfulness, knowing, and power. It does involve some discipline, but the discipline is mental and emotional, not physical.
If this is you, take heart; love could be just around the corner. I know this is true because I experienced this myself in my mid 40’s. I had to take a step back and take a good look at how I had been approaching my search for love.
Once I reprogrammed the unconscious beliefs that were keeping me in the same attraction pattern and reprogrammed them, He walked into my life exactly as I had scripted it. Now me and my children are graced with the presence of an amazing man who lifts us up and loves us all unconditionally.
Luckily, the Law of Attraction is a great tool for finding love. Because the Law of Attraction means working on yourself and your desires, it inherently makes you a more attractive person with a clear vision of what you want and need in your life.
I believe that in life, we don’t get what we want or what we need. We get what we commit to. To me, the word Commitment means ‘becoming one with, in our minds’. It has nothing to do with other people, but it has everything to do with embodying an idea, a quality, so that you live from it, each and every moment.
Only focus on manifesting money directly if you’re capable of seeing the money as a plaything, like a video game score. It’s only something to manifest for fun, not something to get all worked up and stressed about.
By now, you understand what the Law of Attraction is and how it can work in your life, so now it’s time to start practicing the techniques. In this section, you’re going to learn the 4-step process to transform your dreams from mere desire to actual reality.
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So think back to the dream relationship you wrote down in the first exercise. Why not start talking to that person like they’re actually here? You totally can. What would you be saying to them right now? First thing in the morning? Last thing before bed? Have a conversation out loud with them in your car or in the shower. Or if you can’t bring yourself to actually do it out loud, write a letter, email or even a nice long text.
The key word to contemplate is “feels.” If being healthy, prosperous, happy, successful, strong, intelligent, and so on, currently feel unnatural to you, naturalness may yet be achieved by persistently using your imagination and your subjective attention to make this feeling stick.
This means that, after making room in your heart for love, you need to make room in your life, too. I know it can be difficult to do, but if you truly want to manifest love, then you’ll get over your hang-ups.
So love yourself right now at this moment – take your hand and KISS IT! I really mean it, do it right now as you read this text! Kiss your hand and shout out loud – “I LOVE MYSELF!” Every day when I wake up – I kiss myself!
#1 Release past resentments. Are you holding any grudges towards your current partner or a past one? Are you still disappointed over some actions made? Are you still bitter in any way? If so, give yourself the intention to let it go.
In recent times, I’ve discovered some other related beliefs, and tapping on these has created a further shift. Do this process yourself for every negative belief you identify and be prepared to persist in treating them. Some beliefs are much tougher to shift than others, but each round of tapping you do will move you closer to releasing the emotional attachment.
This will make you feel betrayed and unloved, therefore, to find no need to be in such a relationship. This brings out the fact that trust is one of those pillars that keep a relationship on its toes.
This next part is important. The second step I take is letting it go. This is crucial. The more you dwell on your intention, the more the Universe feels this energy of desperation, and the more your co-creation will be pushed out in time. Letting go shows the Universe trust.
Approaching money from a point of neediness or scarcity will prevent you from manifesting money. You’re much better off approaching it from a point of curiosity and excitement. Think of how a child views the world – everything is new and fun. The world is filled with possibilities. Embrace that state of childlike wonder. The results are pretty spectacular!
When manifesting money, ask yourself: “Do I deserve this money?” If you feel that you deserve it and feel no resistance when you answer, “Yes” to that question, then you’ll be able to attract money easily. If not, you have a problem! If deep inside of you do not believe that you deserve financial abundance, you will fail no matter how much work you do.
Use tools such as setting goals, writing and repeating affirmations, visualization, gratitude journalizing, creative collage, treasure mapping, creation wheels and meditation. Relax, listen to yourself, state the affirmation and visualize the accompanying action and feeling.
You can’t effectively wield the power of manifestation by believing that you can manifest something you desire (i.e. money) while simultaneously believing that something you desire has power over you (i.e. money).
Remember, you have the ability to manifest and create whatever your heart desires in the new year… but it ain’t going to happen by just sitting back and wishing it to manifest! You gotta take inspired action daily, sista!
Just like desire, you need to have a high level of faith or belief also that your goal shall be achieved. Continuing with the previous example, it is granted that you have a strong desire to make 120,000 dollars in a year or a million dollars in a year. Now check what is your level of belief that you will actually manifest this much money in a span of one year starting 30 days from now, given the situation that currently you are making about 50,000 dollars in a year. Do you doubt that you will actually make this much amount? Do you wonder that where is all that money going to come from? In such a case, your belief may be less than 4 on 10, may be 2!