We often associate blame and fault to negative situations. It is the burning desire in us to assign a reason for everything. It also reaffirms our fears, doubts and insecurities. The Law of Attraction doesn’t mean that you are solely responsible for every little thing that happens to you. It simply means that ‘like’ attracts ‘like.’
This is common with lonely people who badly want relationships. They can’t get the loneliness out of their minds. They ruminate on it. The anguish is even noticeable to other people and drives them away.
The most recent amazing thing occurred in this last year. Five years ago, soon after the market crash, we decided to sell our house and move closer to family. At that time, we took a trip to the area where we wanted to live and looked around. On our map book, we highlighted our driving route and circled areas that we liked, and we wrote a few notes to remind us of what we liked.
Let’s start your manifesting adventure by getting detailed about what you really want. What does being in love really look like for you? There’s no such thing as a perfect one-size-fits-all relationship. What lights you up might drive your BFF totally crazy! We all have different needs: someone to play video games with, someone to travel with, maybe even someone to build a company with.
You’re not just close to having abundance in all areas of your life: you’re already there. In fact, the things you desire most – love, prosperity, and health, are part of your natural state of being. When you accept that YOU ARE love, prosperity, and health with all of your heart, you will behave in a way that allows them to flow into your life.
According to Freud, the latent content of a dream is the hidden psychological meaning of the dream. Freud believed that the content of dreams is related to wish fulfillment and suggested that dreams have two types of content: manifest content and latent content. The manifest content is the actual literal subject matter of the dream while the latent content is the underlying meaning of these symbols.
The degree of your self-acceptance will dictate the quality of your relationship. If you try to manifest a relationship when you’re full of desperation and you have low self-esteem, you may indeed succeed, but the relationship will almost certainly be sub-par. You might drive your partner away, unconsciously cause drama in your relationship, or–more likely–attract a partner who is not good for you.
STEP#5 (5:02) If the lists aren’t compatible, for example, you wrote down that your perfect relationship is spontaneous and adventurous, but you yourself aren’t spontaneous or adventurous, it’s time to work on yourself. In essence, you should become your own soul mate.
You’ve unconsciously shut down. After being hurt and disappointed, a part of you may be trying to protect your heart from future pain. Unfortunately, this also shuts you off from the potential to find love as well.
Arielle: Big Love is when soul mates come together and the world is a better place because of the love they share and generate. it’s when you and your soul mate have chemistry, a shared vision and spiritual path all at once. When you’ve got it, you know it.
So if you come at this from a place of saying, “I really need $1000 to pay my rent next month, so I’m going to focus hard on manifesting it via the Law of Attraction,” well… good luck with that. But I’d bet against you.
Practice affirmations that focus only on the positive feelings you’d enjoy if you had the money you desire. For example, you might try an affirmation version of the old “living as if” trick. In other words, speak like you already the money!
If you approach money like a power source of its own, then by trying to manifest it, you’re really trying to overpower it, and in such a contest you’ll usually lose. That contest, however, is completely internal — and pretty much insane. It’s like trying to arm wrestle yourself. How can you win? It’s a false reality you’re projecting because you aren’t ready to fully wield your own power yet.
Consciously focus your time and energy on seeing your dream already manifested in the world. What would it look like? What would it feel like? When your dream has manifested what would you hear, taste, touch? What impact will your project have in the world?
You know I don’t share anything with you that I don’t 100% belief, but this is a cool opportunity to achieve your goals and create HAPPINESS in your life – which is what I did with this process (and tons of body-loving activities ;).
Know it’s going to happen. You have to come to the decision that you won’t take “no” for an answer. You have to recognize that your deep desire for a loving partner is proof that you are not meant to be alone. You have to feel in your bones that you are meant for true love and stand in that knowing no matter what the outside world shows you.
Things within our universe have a tendency to migrate toward other like things. We’re using the word “things” here because this law encompasses thoughts, feelings, people, objects and everything else in our universe.
I had the amazing opportunity to interview Kyle to find out how he became a master creator. Not only did I spend most of the time laughing, but I learned some incredible tips that transformed my perception of what it means to be a master of creating your life.
Once Emily gets good at manifesting coins and feels comfortable and confident with it, I’ll start challenging her to manifest larger sums. She may not find money on the ground as often, but it will show up in other ways.
An even stronger vibe is to generate feelings of playfulness and excitement. This is a great vibe for manifesting money. In the next section, I’ll share a story to illustrate how I do this with my daughter.
To prevent the collapse of your relationship, try to avoid questioning and spying on your partners as if you do not trust them. If it is painful to you, it is painful to them too. This ends up creating a rift in your relationship, and at the end, everything comes tumbling down.
You experience those feelings for a deep-seated reason. Something someone told you, or the result of something you did, made you feel unworthy. That’s painful, so, of course, you feel afraid or doubtful.
In order for it to count, the money had to be from an unexpected source. If I was already anticipating the money that showed up, it wouldn’t count, even if I’d temporarily forgotten about it. Also, I didn’t want it to be associated with work. (Meaning, an out of the blue speaking gig for $1k wouldn’t count.) Anything that I had to work for wouldn’t be included in this tally.
I have been willing to ask you this question for a while now as I feel like you might be the best person to do so. In no mean I aim to challenge you and your choices. Rather opposite I would love to understand more so I can have clearer picture on different knowledge which has been presented to us about food and health. I love your work and really respect what you do and how you inspire women, including me.
Let’s say you want to manifest a boyfriend. If you know a little bit about the law of attraction already you think you better get specific so you begin focusing… “I want him to be 6’3” with a beautiful smile, funny jokes, and lots of money. We will meet on a plane while flying and fall in love at first sight.”
We live in an obliging universe where it is possible to experience all our dreams and desires. One of the biggest obstacles in manifesting what we desire is doubt. We want something, but we doubt that it’s possible. It is actually the doubt that keeps it from coming.
Manifestation’s origins are in religion and spirituality because if something spiritual becomes real, it is said to be a manifestation. The word’s usage has spread to include all aspects of life. “The submarine is a manifestation of da Vinci’s sketches.” “The crowd’s cheering hysteria was the manifestation of years of allegiance to the now victorious soccer league.”
I wrote these principles for myself back then when I was living in China and they’ve always worked miracles. I’ve been experiencing such an odd and absurd situations that it was more than clear that I’ve created them as the probability of these events happening was pretty close to zero.
A key element in our healing and empowerment as women has to do with reconnecting with our “Inner maid”, the teenage girl we carry inside, and creating a new relationship of trust with her. When we intend to heal and awaken this part of ourselves, we will be able to accompany our daughters, nieces, friends or students with more fluency and joy, aware of not projecting in them what we lacked in this important moment of life.
If you want to manifest money, you CANNOT believe that money is a power source. Money cannot give you wealth or abundance or happiness. It really can’t give you anything. Money just sits there — all the power comes from you. If you believe that having more money will give you any additional power at all, then you’re actually holding the vibe that says, “I’m too weak to attract money.” You’ll have to get a job instead. 😉