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The purpose of a relationship is to share your life with another person, to learn about yourself and others, and to grow even more than you could on your own. This will only happen in a satisfying way if you feel whole and happy before your partner arrives.
The sages of India observed thousands of years ago that our destiny is ultimately shaped by our deepest intentions and desires. The classic Vedic text known as the Upanishads declares, “You are what your deepest desire is. As your desire is, so is your intention. As your intention is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.”
Don’t be one of those people that see public displays of affection or people blissfully in love and allow it to activate your crabby/skeptical mind. You can only attract success when you are genuinely happy for others and their success. Allow yourself to be energized by the love that others share and affirm to yourself that your time is on its way very soon.
Eighteen months ago, Damien (my husband) and I bought a very unloved English Victorian terraced house, with a small ‘greasy spoon’ café underneath it. Since buying the property, we have been dreaming about the day that we would be able to use the space in a creative way.
This sort of input can be terrifying at first. It can make you judge yourself for wanting anything else. I get it – I was with a nice man. Everybody knew it, and I knew it. A “Nice” man alone is something that I realized a lot of women didn’t have the luxury of. Finding contentment with what you have is only good if you also open yourself up to the possibility of something more.
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I Decree–I dwell in the midst of Infinite Abundance. The Abundance of God is my Infinite Source. The River of Life never stops flowing. It flows through me into lavish expression. Good comes to me through unexpected avenues and God works in a myriad of ways to bless me. I now open my mind to receive my good. Nothing is too good to be true. Nothing is too wonderful to have happen. With God as my Source, nothing amazes me. I Am not burdened by thoughts of past or future. One is gone. The other is yet to come. By the power of my belief, coupled with my purposeful fearless actions and my deep rapport with God, my future is created and my abundance made manifest. I ask and accept that I am lifted in this and every moment into Higher Truth. My mind is quiet. From this day forward I give freely and fearlessly into life and Life gives back to me with magnificent increase. Blessings come in expected and unexpected ways. God provides for me in wondrous ways. I AM indeed grateful. And I let it be so.
When you feel good and certain, then you will get amazing ideas, and positive motivation to take efficient actions, call the right person, and bump into the exact thing/person you need to get manifest your desires into reality.
“Melissa is one of those honest, down to earth, larger than life, totally gorgeous human beings that absolutely walks her talk. I love the rawness of her own story and I love what she now shares with others in an authentic compassionate way.”
So, that’s why I’ve included in The Effective Positive Thinking Program silent subliminal affirmations that directly target a lot of the “poverty-mindedness of society beliefs” we unconsciously absorb.
I recently read about Steven Callahan who was lost at sea in a small raft for seventy-six days. His boat had sunk west of the Canary Islands. He was able to write his book, Adrift, only because he was committed to getting back home and living. It wasn’t a matter of “if” he got home, he always thought about what he was going to do “when” he got home. Every action he took to keep himself alive was inspired from the passion he felt about getting home. He always found a way to eat, drink and keep his body working from his belief that he could survive at sea alone. And that he did!
Limiting beliefs serve as a false sense of protection. Think for a moment that you hurt yourself trying something new and then you never tried it again. This is the start of creating a negative thought pattern, and fear based living. You become fearful of failing or chip away at your self-worth and self- acceptance. Limiting beliefs begins to rob you of reaching your full potential, and with everything, you can begin to remove the things which no longer serve or add good things to your life.
After situations like that, it’s easy to focus on the negative qualities of the previous relationship. “He never wanted to try new restaurants; I won’t date a guy like that again.” Or, “She was always talking about wanting to get married and have kids, what’s the rush? I won’t date another woman who puts those at the top of her priority list!”
We are all here to thrive in all areas of our lives. We were not put on this earth to struggle or suffer. You have to understand that you are in control of your thoughts. Therefore, you are the creator of everything that you want and desire.
Also, don’t be a cynic and don’t be jealous for other happy couples. Be happy that other people found their ideal partners and feel it from the bottom of your heart. Be really happy for them, regardless of how hard this may seem to you. What you put out it will come back! If you radiate love and happiness, that’s exactly what will come back to you!
Don’t worry about whether or not he/she is interested in you or out with someone else. When you do so, you’re observing the absence of the love relationship. You’re so aware of your current relationship and lack thereof, that you’re keeping yourself separate from the relationship you do want.
For example, if the both of you are lovers of adventure and nature, then it is advisable to go for a hike. Visit those breath-taking areas and share the awe together. It will always be memorable, and will always remind you of each other.
The Law of Attraction works the same way. The truth is, your thoughts and feelings do have an effect on the events that take place around you. A shift in your perspective and understanding of the truth about your relationship to the universe, can begin to attract better things into your life.
For example, you might include a vase of purple flowers, a green plant, or anything that has a golden color – i.e. a photo frame. It will not be long until the Universe will bring you a lot more money than ever before.
The Law of Attraction is universal and it’s going to work with or without your intention. If you keep coming up short, address those doubts and fears, because they’re likely speaking to you much louder than your desires.
From now on, every day for 2 to 3 minutes and for at least 3 times a day in your mind that you have already achieved your goal. Feel it with your 5 senses (Touch, Hear, See, Smell and Taste). For example, you are at Starbucks with someone – see the scenario, smell the coffee, feel the taste of hot coffee which you are sipping from the cup you are holding in your hand, and you can hear the sounds of footsteps and the coffee machine.
Not only should you work on your beliefs and thoughts about relationships, but also your words and actions. These are important too, as they are sent straight to your subconscious which will interpret them literally.
If you were to meet your soulmate today, and you chose to live together, would there be room in your life for them? Okay, think you know what I’m getting at? If you don’t start making actual time and space to be with your soulmate, you’re sending out a clear message to the Universe that you’re not ready to welcome him or her into your life. If what you truly want is to welcome your One into your life, and you are fully committed, then one of the best ways that you can accelerate this process is by consciously making room for them.
When manifesting money, start small and work up to larger amounts. See it as a score you’re aiming to increase, but don’t put larger amounts on a pedestal by assuming they’re more difficult to manifest.
In order to manifest wealth in your life, you’ve got to first change your belief system, your paradigm that’s stopping you from attracting that green energy in your life. And to be straightforward, wealth is not synonymous to money. It’s not only the houses, the cars, the boats, or the material possessions that you have in life.
All that was spread out over a period of five days. On day seven I was offered (out of the clear blue) $70,000 to sell my interest in a house I own. It was a more than fair deal, and solved a couple other challenges at the time, so I accepted. But the money wasn’t in hand by day ten, so I didn’t count it.
This can be really hard in our society because we’re programmed to complain about what is wrong with our lives. Often, we may not even realize that solutions exist for our problems, and we might just accept them as a fact of life.
There are literally thousands of similar examples. All the people that earned extraordinary amounts of money, people that created incredible companies. All of them believed that they can do it! The question is, how do you increase your faith? How do you make your faith so strong and so powerful, like Jesus and Gandhi did?
The degree of your self-acceptance will dictate the quality of your relationship. If you try to manifest a relationship when you’re full of desperation and you have low self-esteem, you may indeed succeed, but the relationship will almost certainly be sub-par. You might drive your partner away, unconsciously cause drama in your relationship, or–more likely–attract a partner who is not good for you.
As word of my success spread, people approached me for advice, attracted to my method. These strategies work for me. They work for others. They will work for you. Believe in the Law of Attraction. Believe in yourself. You can manifest a relationship with a specific person.