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So what does that tell you? Well, when I asked myself the same question years ago before I started doing this work, what I realized was that in order for me to attract and manifest my Soulmate, I must somehow develop and grow myself into the kind of person that I myself want to be with. In other words, if you haven’t found the right person it’s probably because you are not being the right person! As Marianne Williamson says, “We must become the person we want to attract.”
When I first read this a few days ago, I thought what a joke! Smelling money? Like that’s going to do anything. It seemed so hokey! I thought I’d try it just to prove you wrong and come back and tell you how stupid this is. So I started smelling money every hour. I couldn’t stop laughing the first few times it I felt so stupid. I also made a list every night of all the reasons I loved money.
For me, I found ways to make myself feel more loved by taking the time to work on my self love. I found the places in my life where I already felt supported and taken care of. I started taking myself out to artsy shows and museums. I ate a lot of Thai food. I practiced staying true to myself. Well, I sure didn’t wrestle myself, but I did imagine wrestling him from time to time. I took the time to practice more self compassion and understand myself. I found lots of ways to laugh more.
This morning, I grabbed the mail & there was something from a grocery cooperative I belonged to before I moved a month ago. I figured it was my dividend cheque, usually $20. I completely forgot that when you close your account, you get a payout for your accumulated “shares”. Tore it open. And started to laugh. The amount on the cheque? $497.70
To motivate yourself, look around and you may find people whom you already know who have manifested and are regularly attracting things they want using law of attraction. They are regularly and actively putting efforts into the process.
This sort of input can be terrifying at first. It can make you judge yourself for wanting anything else. I get it – I was with a nice man. Everybody knew it, and I knew it. A “Nice” man alone is something that I realized a lot of women didn’t have the luxury of. Finding contentment with what you have is only good if you also open yourself up to the possibility of something more.
So if you come at this from a place of saying, “I really need $1000 to pay my rent next month, so I’m going to focus hard on manifesting it via the Law of Attraction,” well… good luck with that. But I’d bet against you.
By connecting with your soulmate on the inner plane first, you will be drawing him or her towards you and ultimately propelling him or her into your arms! In order to send out a Soul Call you can follow these steps:
To really understand the Law of Attraction, tune in to your perspective of your relationship with the universe. In other words, it’s important to examine how you feel about the way the universe interacts with you.
These seven steps will help you find the love of your life, your soul mate, get back your ex, find someone new, or remind you that you should be the love of your life. And a note, this process can be done to an existing relationship as well. I used it in my current relationship, and I tell you how at the end of the video.
8) Let go of all maps. Hold onto the information in this article very tightly, and re-read it when you need to, but remember that this is just a map, but not the territory. Be willing to release all of this information I’m sharing here with you, and only come back to it only when you’re feeling lost, and need to find your way again.
Or, you can set a goal for the month. Pick a number that feels scary, but not too scary. That feels doable, but not too doable. Pick something you’ll have to work for. Then, do the same steps: Add up your non-negotiables and see what you have left. Take that cushion and dedicate it to savings, retirement, stocks, clothing, spa days, etc.
If you can get good at manifesting coins, you can manifest larger sums too. The process is the same. Only some limiting beliefs yours may stand in the way. But as you gradually upgrade to larger sums, you can collapse those false beliefs.
Another cool manifestation happened! I’ve been playing phone tag with the owner of this company I felt I really wanted to work for. Since I’m a new mom, I decided that its best for me to stay home with my little guy for a while but I need an income.
You want her to be fit because you are attracted to health and vitality. You like brunettes because you find them sexy. You want her to be maternal because you would like a family. And you would love someone sporty who you can do lots of fun activities with.
Jennifer is a self and relationship coach and teacher. She helps women worldwide create fulfilling relationships with both themselves and others so they can live happy and joyful lives. Click here for her Free Self and Relationship Healing Meditation.
This self hypnosis audio has a hypnotic induction, affirmations done in “stereo confusion” and brainwave entrainment customized and synchronized to each portion of the meditation. The stereo confusion allows the affirmations to “slip” past your conscious (critical) mind and be absorbed directly by your subconscious. The brainwave entrainment takes you from waking state down to a light theta brainwave frequency which has been known to be very effective for subliminal affirmations. It then takes you deeper into the theta brainwave frequency for a few more relaxing moments before gently bringing you back to a fully awake and relaxed state of mind.
Once we finally find ourselves ready to move on, however, it’s actually one of the best pieces of advice to take to heart. Why? Because it’s absolutely true! There billions of human beings on the face of this earth, and with them, billions of possibilities exist.
Normally, a person approaches such an action on autopilot, but stepping back, you’ll notice the entirety of the series of decisions and actions that make up your very, full day when you move with intention.
Life strategist Tony Robbins will guide you through the skills needed to transform your life today. Tony’s wife, Sage, also joins the conversation to talk about the marriage-changing insights they have discovered through their journey as a couple.
Also, this step is important because it allows you to really feel the gratification of what it’s like when you’ve attracted your desire. It solidifies your belief and reinforces the visualization you worked on in the first step. Jump into this final step with joy and enthusiasm!