If you have been using the Law of Attraction to manifest love in your life, and you’ve visualized the perfect partner for yourself, you’ve come a long way toward being successful with the act of manifesting a lifetime of happiness and contentment within a committed relationship.
BELIEFS: Be sure that your core beliefs around money are positive. You can try affirmations to manifest money, but if your internal beliefs about money are still negative, you’ve got a long haul ahead of you. One way I can help you with this is through The Effective Positive Thinking Program which is specifically geared to help you erase many of society’s “negative beliefs” around money and then inputs positive money beliefs.
It’s hard to say what happened, but more than likely, you have fears that you aren’t addressing with compassion. Simply desiring riches doesn’t manifest money into your life. Ensure your fears and doubts aren’t speaking louder than your desires.
2) To attract love, be loving. If you are seeking your one special soul-mate, be patient. The universe will send you the perfect person, but it might take a little time. In the meantime, tune into the vibration of love by sending loving energy to the world – performing small acts of kindness and compassion to friends, family, strangers and pets. The love you send out will come back to you.
This is where lots of people get stuck with the LoA. They put out conflicting vibes every day. They may visualize having more money and feeling abundant and grateful, but then they go to the grocery store, and they buy cheap, low quality food because in the back of their mind, they’re saying to themselves that they can’t afford the good stuff. And that naturally cancels out the vibe of abundance, so the result is no change.
It is very simple, but not as easy as it may sound. Faith is born out of constant repetition of thoughts. If you constantly repeat the same thing over and over again, eventually your Mind is going to start to believe it, regardless if your thoughts are good or bad.
Arielle: Living as if means stepping outside of your current reality and stepping into the reality you wish to be true. It’s when your daily actions reflect and are congruent with your belief that your soul mate exists and is already yours. The best example of this was revealed to me by a famous actress. Once she became clear that she was ready to share her life with someone, she began living as if that person were already a part of her life. She would play music she imagined he would enjoy; she wore pretty nightgowns to bed instead of her typical T-shirt and sweats. Every morning she would feel that they were waking up and starting their day together, and every night at dinner she would light candles and set a place for him at the table. According to this actress, he eventually arrived. She sent a clear message to the Universe, and the Universe delivered. Now you may not be willing to set a table for two each night when you have dinner, but start to consider what you could do to generate the feeling that you are already sharing your life with your beloved. For example, buy tickets to a concert or play that is several months away, holding the intention that you will attend it with a hot date. Or the next time you are shopping for greeting cards, pick up a couple that would be fitting to give to your beloved on a birthday or to celebrate your anniversary, knowing that sometime soon that day will be here.
Also, pay attention to your surroundings, do they reflect what you want? Take a look around yourself, are you in a place that helps to reinforce your thoughts and beliefs? Remember, this is all about you!
And it’s got to be probably the most difficult thing, too. Usually I have *some* sort of emotional attachment to manifesting a sum of money. Even though I pretend I don’t, and tell myself I don’t — down deep, I do. And it’s that tiny attachment, that wanting/needing that sets up a tiny sense of anxiety, urgency, or grasping hopefulness that somehow messes up my energy and I go from manifesting money to manifesting not-money/wanting money. And I’m not quite good enough at LOA yet to get past that consistently. (Notice that “yet”!)
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Then, last week, we took out the map book to find out how to drive to a nearby lake. We opened the map book to the page where the lake is, and there in the margin we had written the name of the street we now live on; we had circled the very area! Wow! We picked it without knowing it and then spirit manifested it for us! If we had sold our home sooner, incredible house and land would not have been available for us.
The purpose of a relationship is not to fill the holes, but to boost the full being that’s already there. Be what you want more of—if you’re the person you want to be, the relationship will just enhance your life. Be sure to write down exactly what you want in a partner—be specific, but focus less on the details and more on the end goal. When I was in the process of manifesting mine, I wrote down the following key characteristics that I wanted in a life partner (seriously, these are the real words, I kept the document so I could refer to it when I found myself in a relationship to see if this stuff actually works—it does):
What past resentments do you still need to let go and heal from? What actions can you take or plans that you can make to better love yourself? How can you start having more fun in your life today? Share your answers in the comments below!
Now that we have reflected on the year that’s past, it’s time to ponder on the year ahead. Before we do that, it’s super important to do a little ceremony to clean the slate and lay a fresh foundation for your dreams to manifest. You can do that by performing a sage smudging cleansing ritual around yourself, home and office.
Arielle: One of the most common reasons is that after a few bad relationships some people unconsciously shut down and give up. They no longer believe the right person is out there for them and while one part of them is saying “YES, I want a relationship,” the other part is saying “NO! I’m afraid to get hurt again.” A big part of manifesting love is preparing yourself by overcoming the emotional wounds and baggage that we all have.
i love the article.. i just wanted to know, i am in love with a girl and she too was in love with me. but suddenly after a year she left without explaining anything. i just know this that she is the one. i felt it the day we met. can this manifesting bring her back? please answer!.
There is a powerful Law of Attraction technique that I use in my daily life, called Dream Building. It states that the best way to make your dreams a reality is to actually experience them. Dream building is my favorite thing to do when I travel. It motivates and inspires me to raise my game and achieve my dreams by redirecting my focus towards what it is that I want most in life.
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Another important step is giving your money a purpose. You need to do this down to every last dollar. You can do this two ways. First, list all of your non-negotiables — these are the things you have to pay every single month. Then, list things you would like to do, such as put away savings, invest in stocks, put away for retirement, purchase clothing, go to a spa. Add all of these things up, and that final number is your goal for the month.
Holly is just a girl trying to make her way in this world by doing what she’s passionate about. She loves creating and knitting, helping her community and becoming a better version of herself. Holly is a Relationship Coach, knitwear designer, photographer and lover of beer. She and her pup live west of Denver and spend as much time as they can in the mountains.
Wealth can be expressed in meaningful relationships, great friendships, and having a wealthy spirit is something you must aim for. However, money is vitally important and you have to have it, if you are ever to enjoy a comfortable life, free of worry and stress, physical toil and time limitation.
MANIFESTA’TION, n. The act of disclosing what is secret, unseen or obscure; discovery to the eye or to the understanding; the exhibition of any thing by clear evidence; display; as the manifestation of God’s power in creation, or of his benevolence in redemption.
12. In your mind’s eye see yourself holding a certain amount of money, notice how this increases steadily as you hold a feeling of gratitude in your heart. Ask the Golden Light to give you a message. Listen to this message. Thank the light for showing you infinite possibilities of how you can make more money.
I went to the store and spent that money and gave love to the release of it. I actually needed that money for bus fair to pick up my check on Friday. I told myself, God will make a way for me to pick my check up.
When your belief is that you are not worthy, that is what you’re going to attract back to yourself – more situations that reinforce this feeling. The point here is, that you have to learn to love yourself and put yourself first. It may sound a bit harsh, but it’s really not. If you treat yourself with love and respect, it won’t take long for others to do it too.
“Our subconscious minds have no sense of humor, play no jokes and cannot tell the difference between reality and an imagined thought or image. What we continually think about eventually will manifest in our lives.” ~ Robert Collier
We live in an obliging universe where it is possible to experience all our dreams and desires. One of the biggest obstacles in manifesting what we desire is doubt. We want something, but we doubt that it’s possible. It is actually the doubt that keeps it from coming.
Everything in life — all that surrounds us and we deem as material or real — is in fact simply abstract and a fabrication of our minds. Our reality isn’t base reality. Seriously. There’s only a 1 in billions chance that what you’re experiencing right now is in fact real.
Money comes to you through the filters of your beliefs, but you don’t have to change your beliefs radically. You just have to open enough of a portal in your beliefs to allow different sums to come to you.
If you approach money like a power source of its own, then by trying to manifest it, you’re really trying to overpower it, and in such a contest you’ll usually lose. That contest, however, is completely internal — and pretty much insane. It’s like trying to arm wrestle yourself. How can you win? It’s a false reality you’re projecting because you aren’t ready to fully wield your own power yet.
For example, imagine a new person just started working at your office. Everyone else seems to like this person, but you still feel a strange sense of ambivalence. One night, you dream that the new co-worker hates you and is going out of her way to sabotage your efforts and work with the goal of getting you fired.
So who is your Soulmate? What does he or she look like? What are their qualities? What is it that makes them unique and attractive to you? For many of us, this journey towards our Soulmate begins by first experiencing what we do not want. Funny how life works, isn’t it? If you have been, or currently find yourself, in a relationship where you find that things are not flowing, it feels like it’s too much work, you argue and fight a lot, you don’t feel like you are compatible or complement each other, the passion is long gone, you constantly feel anxious about the relationship and you’re struggling to be happy, instead of feeling stronger, supported and inspired you feel weakened, or the person is in another relationship and not available to you, chances are that you’re not with your soulmate.