Then treat yourself for these beliefs by inserting the belief statements into the Setup and also repeating the belief statement at each tapping point. For example, in my case, the statement was something like “Even though if I become rich, I will be less spiritual…”
You can tell if your affirmation is positive or negative by the way it makes you feel. If it makes you feel great, it is positive. If it makes you feel bad, it is negative. It’s that simple. If you find yourself thinking negative thoughts, simply turn them around and start focusing on the positive. You will immediately feel better and you will be in alignment with love.
It’s difficult to free yourself completely from doubt, fear or feeling as though you don’t deserve something. Your instinct might try to combat those feelings using negative thoughts like, “Don’t be afraid” or even direct conflicts like, “You deserve this.” Unfortunately, such methods are ineffective and simply don’t work because they reinforce negative thoughts and feelings.
Accessing the wisdom, peace and guidance that is available from the “inter life” (spiritual realms between lifetimes) where our higher mind and/or guiding ones can assess our progress and give direction to us for our current lifetimes.
1) Your words and thoughts are REAL. The life you are living right now is the result of your thoughts. If you focus on FEAR, dwelling on the “what ifs” then you’ll attract the things that you are trying so hard to avoid. To bypass fear, focus on the present moment – there’s no point rehashing the past or worrying about the future. To manifest what you desire, you must be mindful and joyful in the present moment.
What follows is simply a preparation for entering into that realm wherein you have much more say over what comes into your life than you might have envisioned. Read and apply these 13 habits into your own life, and you will soon be well on your way to creating your own destiny.
Sometimes you are going to give in, but you must be willing to at least try to let go of the story you keep telling yourself, of the justifications for feebad. If you are not willing to do that, this work is going to be frustrating as hell. Progress will be slow and painful.
Arielle: Her name is Gayle and many years ago she was advised by her astrologer to put her intentions for a soul mate into the world by coloring a mandala. She took a black and white mandala and a rainbow of multi-colored pencils and began declaring her intentions while she colored in a space on the mandala. She asked for things like: finding the perfect spiritual friend and lover to go through life with; a man who is kind to animals; who would appreciate her sense of humor; a man who would be accepting and open to her spiritual quest. For each intention she used a different color until the entire mandala became a multi-hued Technicolor testimony to the qualities she desired in her future partner. Within weeks of doing this she met her soul mate and they have now been married for more than twenty years.
How can you achieve something if you yourself have doubts whether you can do it or not? This seems like a problem for many people…However, “believing in yourself” is a skill that can be mastered by anyone. Nothing is impossible when you believe, right?
Eliminating physical clutter from your life is one of the fastest ways to increase the inflow of new positive energy. At the same time, you also want to create physical space for your soon-to-arrive beloved. Make sure to clear some space in your closet and keep the nightstand on your soulmate’s side of the bed empty so that when they arrive they can fill it with their own personal items. Remember the old saying “nature abhors a vacuum” – it applies here. Create space so the Universe can deliver your soulmate into a home that welcomes him or her. (even if you never plan to have your soulmate live with you in your space its essential to do this)
Yes, you may dread a couple of things on your list, but will you be happy once you do it? If the answer is yes, keep it on your list. Break down big actions into small steps so they are digestible. Consistency is key.
There are two great results from making vision boards. First, the act of spending time finding images and words and attaching them to a board is a personal commitment to your desires. It helps you clarify what you really want, visualize it and put energy toward making it real.