I wish to let the guy I see on the bus every day to work that I know that he is my soulmate. Everytime I look at him, he turns away, probably thinking I am not interested. I am as shy as he is and he is just looking and too shy to say hi to me. I have noticed him looking my way since April 2016. Please attract the guy I see every day on the bus. Help me find a way to smile and to say hi to me or to send me a message – We work right across each other’s jobs Please send me a sign. Amen
Can you see how these sentences are specific but not overbearing with details? I found key things that are important to me—wanting to try new things and travel, being respectful and courteous to me and others, certain forms of love expression—and wrote them down. I let the Universe take it from there, because it’s not my job to figure out the how, when or where. It’s just my job to be ready when my soulmate comes along.
What follows is simply a preparation for entering into that realm wherein you have much more say over what comes into your life than you might have envisioned. Read and apply these 13 habits into your own life, and you will soon be well on your way to creating your own destiny.
The journey of welcoming your Soulmate is a journey towards your authentic nature. It’s not a journey of finding somebody who is going to love you, make you happy, or give you something that you don’t already have, but rather it is a journey of growing yourself and your own capacity to love yourself first before you can love others or welcome and recognize their love. It is about becoming more yourself, doing all the necessary clearing out, and embracing all the darker, subtle, shadow aspects of yourself that you’ve been unwilling to look at.
Get your conscious and subconscious minds on the same page. This step requires that you explore and unearth your underlying beliefs about men and relationships. This isn’t always easy; it’s called the subconscious for a reason. I didn’t know I had a subconscious belief that I was destined to be an old maid like my Aunt Betsey. But as soon as I became conscious of this belief, and that it was sabotaging my relationships, it disappeared. No matter how much we might think we want a relationship, if our inner beliefs don’t agree it will keep love away.
If you’ve already learned some of the basics of the Law of Attraction, you’ll know that creative visualization is a real cornerstone of the process of manifestation. However, your visualizations can always be more powerful and influential!
According to the Law of Attraction, you can attract whatever you consistently and coherently try to manifest. So, in a certain sense, trying to manifest money isn’t any different from trying to use the Law of Attraction in any other way. However, there are plenty of things that might hold you back from successfully manifesting more money into your life. Let’s take a look at some of the reasons why it can be difficult for some people to manifest money, and explore some of the most effective techniques.
Create systems that work for you. Being organized helps you define your goals and set methods in how to achieve them. Set up a system that works for you. Manage your life effectively by organizing your dreams into bite-size chunks and letting systems guide you toward achieving your goals.
While these examples are quite general, they illustrate the importance of acting on the little nudges you receive from the Universe. Maybe you’ll meet the mate of your dreams at a wedding or at some other function you’re on the fence about attending.
It’s really important to know how good (or not so good) your levels of self-esteem are. You really need to love yourself in order to attract a relationship that is sustainable. The truth? Otherwise you’ll be attracting someone that will want to fix you or will magnify your need to take care of yourself better. This can be a good thing, but unless you shine light on the need for self-love and self-care then it can turn ugly very fast. So this is why it’s so important to treat yourself well and show yourself the love you think you deserve.
The next step is crucial to the manifestation process. In order to truly manifest your desires into form, you gotta chill out! A Course in Miracles teaches: “Those who are certain of the outcome can afford to wait and wait without anxiety.” Take this message with you and allow your faithfulness to guide you into the belief that what you desire is on the way. Also trust that the universe has a much better plan than you do. Though you are clear about what you want, you cannot control the timing or the form in which it comes. Stay calm, relax and trust that the universe has your back!
Seriously – as counter-intuitive as it seems, don’t think about the stuff. Focus instead on the end result of the money: visualize yourself not with “a” roof over your head, but “the roof you want.” Visualize yourself not with the basic necessities (or that’s all you’ll ever attract) but in the IDEAL situation. Be open to opportunities and ACT on them immediately! The less you think about money and the more you focus on the things and experiences and situations you want, the more you’ll detach from money and then it will come quite easily to you (as you act on those inspired opportunities).
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This was by far the best book that I’ve ever read on manifestation and I have been an advocate for and a student of the secret since maybe I was 13. literally every single word hit the core of my being I think a lot of it has to do with Elizabeth riding but I also think that my vibrational frequency Aligned so well what I needed to hear. I think it’s great because not only does she talk about the fantasticness of you know attracting your other one but also learning how to forgive yourself and that other POS you know what I mean by piece of shiitake mushrooms that either you broke up with because they were cheating or they broke up with you because they didn’t know your value… let me tell you something you’re the most valuable person on this planet and also if everyone had the mentality that they are the best person I’ve ever met just imagine how amazing this planet would be. All of those innate inklings that you think and you read about on Tony Robbins or whatever she is outlined in this book flat-out literally line after line. Elizabeth i inspire also to be an author and if I can be like you to just one person like me one day then I’ll know that my hard work and time paid off. When I volunteer with kids I don’t care if I affect a thousand as long as I just have one that truly knows that I love them unconditionally and Elizabeth I was that broken child and you mended me up with some freaking Gorilla Glue you’re amazing thanks again. Apologies about the typos I did voice to text because I wanted to get all that
I wasn’t as successful as I am right now. I have seen my share of bad days, and the reason I am flourishing today is because of inspiration and motivation from a great man who believed in giving as much as he gets. He pulled me out of deep waters and showed me a better way of life. And that is what I want to do for others too. So, here I am trying to give as much as I am capable of. I hope what you receive will change your life as it did mine.
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