When you focus on the feelings of what you want it comes to you a billion times faster than you bossing the universe around telling it how he has to look and how he’s gonna come to you. That’s very limiting for several reasons. (Reasons I would explain if this were the chapter of the book, not a blog post.)
There’s no need to dress up extravagantly, just practice proper hygiene, keep yourself looking fresh at all times so you will always be prepared for any surprise encounter. How can you ignite a spark looking dull yourself and a lot older than your actual age?
You shouldn’t want him/her to deal with your problems. Try to solve them by yourself, and don’t transfer negativity to your mate. It is very good that you love your husband or wife for who they actually are, instead of trying to change them so that they can fit your expectations. Doing this is not love, meaning that such a relationship will never work.
Finally, start every day by tuning into your heart. Visualize being with the one you love, and let a warm, golden glow fill your chest. This is the energy that will propel you through the day on exactly the right frequency to attract love.
If you can get good at manifesting coins, you can manifest larger sums too. The process is the same. Only some limiting beliefs of yours may stand in the way. But as you gradually upgrade to larger sums, you can collapse those false beliefs.
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It’s ironic how I’ve already been doing these steps without knowing i was doing it..well i met my soulmate we are going through our challeging times. at first it was me i stop talking to him for six months gave no explanation i was healing from an abusive marriage had so many insecurities i began healing became whole. I was at a party had no idea i would ever see or talk to him again because i changed my number yes i saw him there i went to say something he was gone I was trying to think how will i talk or see him again I found his number we started talking again we have a deep connection but since i’ve healed i notice he has some healing to do from past marriage he was in yes 10 yrs ago he has not let go of what happened. Anyway we had a brief discussion he is holding on why i stop talking to him said when he wanted relationship i didn’t I explained it wasn’t I didn’t want one i had just gotten out of an abusive marriage i was in for 12 years he was shocked said i should have told him now he’s saying he’s not ready for a relationship right now his career i transitioning he’s deciding if he’s going to retire after 25 yrs of serving in military relationship too much. I expressed i understand since that conversation we have seen each other twice in unexpected places to see each other. I’m sharing this because i know without a doubt he’s my soulmate & i’m his soulmate actually when we first met he told me I was the one. I’m trust & believe in this love journey!! Thank you so much this is confirmation for me!!! Much love for you Gabriel
Since we now have a toddler and I’m working on my own new business, I haven’t been as big a part of the business as I used to. Right now, I’m actually in the (very deep) process of transitioning my own business from live workshops/private sessions to online courses! (I recently took all the old services off of my site, which felt sooo damn good.)
Consider this. The human mind has upwards of 60,000 to 70,000 thoughts in a given day. Yes, every single day. Granted, many of those thoughts are repeated thoughts. But, it’s also important to note that many of those thoughts are negative thoughts based in fear, creating undue anxiety, stress and reluctance for the future.
When you’re happy with yourself, you can enjoy what you already have and live for the moment. You send out positive vibrations, which are attracted back to you. You might not discover how to manifest love with a specific person, but if you’re sending out the right vibrations, who knows what’ll come back to you? Using the Law of Attraction for love with a specific person might happen, but if not, refocus and move on!
When it comes to romance, you can also practice sending love towards a particular person or crush. But there’s a catch. Love must always be given freely! If you start to send your love their way with the strong intention that this person is going to fall in love with you in return, you’re essentially casting a love spell. (Which can be a violation of free will and might open up a host of other issues. Be careful what you wish for, basically.)
If this is you, take heart; love could be just around the corner. I know this is true because I experienced this myself in my mid 40’s. I had to take a step back and take a good look at how I had been approaching my search for love.
It was a stressful time in my life. I felt like I couldn’t trust my boyfriend, I was bored out of my mind living in a tiny city with no inspiration and very few things to do, I was working retail and my musical endeavors were trucking along at an agonizingly slow pace. I wanted to flee. All I could think about was moving to a brand new city, making new and inspiring friends and rebuilding my work with music from the ground up. I wanted to travel the world and experience new parts of myself that I felt were being held hostage somewhere far away from my boring city. My life had become one big nap, alone in my bedroom, broken like a dying bird in a beautiful but monotonous domestic cage.
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The more stressed and fearful you feel, the less money you will allow! Why? Because in a stressful or fearful state you are not aligned vibrationally with the essence of your soul, which is always abundant.
Giving gratitude is one of the easiest and simplest ways to manifest your dreams. When you adopt an attitude of gratitude, you are sending a powerful message to the Universe about what it is that you want in your life. Giving thanks for all of the blessings in your life helps transform negative attitudes into positive ones. In turn, this raises your vibration and attracts positive experiences into your life. In the words of Walt Disney, “The more that you are in a state of gratitude, the more that you will attract things to be grateful for.”
If something like the paragraph written above is what goes through your mind when you’re trying to attract a mate, then it’s no wonder you haven’t manifested a relationship. That kind of thinking is a mentality of lack. No matter what you’re thinking about, you won’t attract anything with a mindset like that.
A key component in the manifesting process is “being present.” When your energy is anchored in the present moment, you aren’t offering any resistance, and when you don’t resist what you are wanting to manifest, it can find you quickly.
Your imagination will work out the means to realize your dream while your conscious mind sleeps. Bring your five senses into play as you perform your imaginal activity. Actually hear a friend’s voice congratulating you or feel yourself hugging that person. If you wanted a new piano, run your hand over the smooth wood, touch the keys, and listen to the sound. If you want to receive a dozen roses, actually smell the fragrance and touch their velvety petals.
Step 2: There’s an old cliché that claims you can’t love others unless you love yourself. However, there is truth in this saying and it can have a major impact on whether you’re able to successfully manifest love. Specifically, you attract love with people who are aligned with your vibrational state. So if you are down on yourself or lack confidence, you often find love only with people who treat you poorly and fail to recognize your worth. Therefore, looking for love with real intention requires you to form a deeper, more profound and accepting connection with yourself.
Try this exercise with anything, and once you’ve mastered it, Step 1 of the Law of Attraction techniques becomes much easier. Improve visualization by recording your voice reading the exercise out loud and then playing it back with your eyes closed and concentrating on the techniques.
While sitting in a circle, you will visualize the power of the mothers, daughters, sisters, wives, grandmothers, lovers and friends. You will connect with the cycles of nature and the moon to remember our inner wisdom.
For example, if you dreamed that you were being chased by an ominous creature through the dark streets of a strange city, that would be the manifest content of the dream. What that dream might actually mean, or the interpretation of its symbolic meaning, would be considered the latent content.
This meditation will help you if you feel like you need additional help and energy to take an important decision or if you get stuck on a project and need hep figuring out how to improve your situation. Use this meditation with any type of manifesting.
Everything you need to attract your soul mate is in this book! It’s clear, to the point, and very practical. It includes 250 wonderful affirmations and it explains how to use visualization to attract the love of your life.
5. Be ENERGY efficient – be conscious of your “energy.” Keep in mind that like energy attracts like energy – therefore “what you sow you shall reap.” Feeling the lack of something only attracts more “lack of that something.” On the other hand, deliberately choosing positive feelings and focal points will keep you in alignment with your desires.
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If you really want to attract a specific person, then ironically it would probably be best to let go of the need to be with them. Dating other people will make you more attractive to them anyway, and you might actually end up together.
I’ve had many amazing things happen in my life that solidified my belief in the law of attraction. I’ve also come to understand exactly what we need to do to make the law of attraction work for us — and it’s way more than visualizing what you want and saying positive affirmations.