So you instead project these feelings onto the co-worker, dreaming that she hates you when it is actually the other way around. By doing this, you can explore your unconscious feelings in a way that seems more acceptable.
So to be clear: step one is to define what you want to manifest. And, as explained elsewhere, you must have a strong desire for that outcome to happen, resolute belief that it will happen, a high level of expectation or expectancy that it is possible for it to happen. There are many techniques to do that.
Set a clear intention. First, write something down until you get the words right. Then when you’re happy, say them out loud as you look at yourself in the mirror. Some examples include “I am ready to manifest love and I open my heart to my one true soulmate” and “My mind is clear, my heart is open, and I am ready to welcome my soulmate in.”
If you’ve read that book, you’ll know that in the chapter on relationships it explains that in order to attract someone who likes you, first of all you have to like yourself. This is very important, because if you don’t like yourself, you’ll be sending out the wrong kind of vibes (vibrations) to a potential partner.
The truth is you might not even know what will make you happy. Loosen up a bit. Stop focusing so hard on things being perfect, and welcome what comes with happiness. That will signal the world to send more of it.
What I love about this book is that it is practical and insightful. He not only explains what the Law of Attraction is, but he explains how you can use it for results. The affirmations in this book are the best I have heard, and the question and answer section is a great, insightful addition. I highly recommend this book.
Instead, you will meet him or her in a way that could seem magical, or which might even seem completely mundane. You might be actively manifesting your story right now, or you could be leaving things up to the Universe – either way, you are receiving important messages, whether you are aware of it or not.
It is possible to put yourself in the frame of mind to attract a relationship, it might not be the particular person you want it to be, but then it could happen. It’s all about your attitude towards yourself, creating the right mindset and being open to it happening.
Practice any and all of the exercises you want to. Try every exercise at least once. There are no hard and fast rules, so feel free to tweak these exercises and make them your own. These are aids to help you overcome any challenges you might face while attempting to work with the Law of Attraction.
If you think that once you have money, you will become stronger, you’re crazy. Absolutely deluded! More likely — if you actually did manifest money from that kind of vibe — you’d grow even weaker. This would be a bad outcome for you, even though it seems like what you want. You’d be a weak-minded, weak-hearted person with more money, and you’d still see the money as more powerful than you, even while it’s in your possession. You’d then become attached to it and afraid of losing it because you’d still mistakenly see it as a power source. It would become a source of security for you, a constantly vulnerable one. The more money you had, the more paranoid you’d become about losing it. This would really mess you up big time. So be very, very glad that you naturally attract less money when you think of money as a power source. If you invite money into your life from that crazy frame of giving away your power, then money will become your Master, and you will be forever its slave. Don’t even go there!
When you place an intention in your imagination, do not allow a question mark at the end of your pronouncement. See your statement ending in a grammatical exclamation point. “I bring this into my reality!” is easy to say if you’re already living from that declaration in your imagination and have assumed the feeling in your body of that wish being fulfilled.
Decide exactly what you want, and if it is money, be concrete and decide on the exact sum. This is vital part of the process and it’s crucial for your success. Spend some decent time, and decide EXACTLY what you want to manifest.