And Katy, I’m glad you appreciated the how to part. I think it would have been misleading if I hadn’t included the steps on my first attempt, since that definitely helped me get lined up, and I think it’s good for everyone to know that sometimes it takes a couple approaches before we strike gold.
When you start thinking about how you’re not with your specific person, stop and focus instead on feeling good. Release all thoughts of the other person. This will allow things to flow again and begin to move you towards the relationship you desire.
Lately I’ve been teaching my daughter Emily (age 10) how to manifest coins. I do this by turning it into a game. When we’re out walking together, I challenge her to see if she can find more coins than I can.
And for those of you that find it hard to change your thoughts in regards to money. You can always just take your attention away from subject of money. Because once you ask, the universe now knows what you want.
Finally, and this is the part most people forget, take action. You can’t say you want $50,000 one month and then expect it to just show up in your bank account if you aren’t working or taking the steps to build your business and sell your products or services. Take action that feels good to you — aligned action, if you will. While you are taking action, the Universe is seeing that you are doing your part to create your intention, and she, in turn, will do her part in bringing your intention to you.
Instead of saying that you do not have money, say “It is so good that I am rich. I love Money and Money loves me. I am magnet to Money!” It will not be long until you will eventually become rich indeed.
Don’t worry about whether or not he/she is interested in you or out with someone else. When you do so, you’re observing the absence of the love relationship. You’re so aware of your current relationship and lack thereof, that you’re keeping yourself separate from the relationship you do want.
Nataly Salazar is an Oida dance therapist from Colombia. She is trained in Movement Therapy, Yoga, Zumba and Ayurveda. She has worked with differently-abled children and elderly people for the last 11 years. She also works with expectant mothers to help them in the physical and emotional preparation towards motherhood. Nataly is also a trained Odissi Dancer.
For example, imagine a new person just started working at your office. Everyone else seems to like this person, but you still feel a strange sense of ambivalence. One night, you dream that the new co-worker hates you and is going out of her way sabotage your efforts and work with the goal of getting you fired.
For example, you might try keeping a gratitude journal and regularly jotting down benefits you’ve enjoyed because of money you’ve had. You could write “I’m grateful for the money that allowed me to grow up without worrying about whether food would be on the table” or “I’m always grateful for the money that let me have the amazing experience of _____” and “I feel grateful when I think about the money that has permitted me to sleep safely and comfortably each night.”
But suddenly a life threatening event came to my family life and I lost all hopes and felt negative in everything, So ‘n him too’. Circumstances made me think, its false love and I warned him to stop hoping for me.
If you want to manifest your dreams, you must become a master at monitoring the thoughts and feelings you are aligning yourself with. Your thoughts and feelings become your reality, so become adept at observing the thoughts and feelings you are creating for yourself.
Focus on understanding your part in this overall process, rather than feeling guilty or ashamed. Recognizing how your fears have manifested in your life does not mean that the bad things in your life are your fault. It simply means that the Law of Attraction has responded to the signal you sent out. Just acknowledge that the system works and your new awareness will guide you. No need to shame yourself or even feel responsible.
Allow the universe to handle the details, and don’t be concerned with how the money will manifest. Just focus on the intention by taking guided action. When you receive small amounts of money, do not try to justify it rationally, just be thankful and believe that your intention of manifesting money is finally happening. Slowing in time, you will manifest larger and larger amounts.
Limiting beliefs run rampant, especially when it comes to finding true love and romantic relationships. There’s a million lame excuses I’ve heard from people looking for partners! But it’s important to realize that those excuses are usually just a defence mechanism. When we feel rejected or unlovable, we want to point the blame elsewhere.
Continuing with the same example of you wanting to have money, you may rather say “I want to be in a job that pays me 10,000 dollars per month”. Another example could be “I want a 5 bedroom house, with a garage, kitchen garden, heated swimming pool, front lawn and beautiful drive way in this city (name of city)”.
2. IDENTIFY what you want. The number one rule to Manifesting your Dreams is to “keep your eye on the ball.” The Universe does not process negatives – only energy. Therefore the question to ponder is what do you want? The question is NOT “what do I not want” except to identify more of what you DO want.
As long as you think you’ll be happier somewhere other than where you are now, you won’t be able to get to where you want to be. When you’re happy being “here,” you will find yourself “over there” with your specific person.
When you notice conflict coming up, acknowledge it and remind yourself to breath and relax. It might sound something like, “I’m frustrated again. I’m resisting again. I get it. All I have to do now is breath, relax, and let it come. “
So think about your desires and expectations and write them all down. Go beyond physical looks and occupation. What are your must-have’s? Your nice-to-have’s? What activities are important to share? And most importantly, how do you want this person to make you feel?
Pay attention to how you treat your relationship with the money. Do you speak to it kindly? Do you think of it appreciatively? Improve your relationship with money, and you will soon start to attract it in your life.