Do you feel that the person you’ve been with is already very close to what you want, but not quite “The One”? I understand that other people may be telling you to stop seeking “perfection”. You may even be judging yourself.
“All we have to do is define whatever it is we want all the changes we wish to experience in terms of the end result. Define them as if you were already there (which is what visualization is all about), and then simply begin moving in the general direction of your dreams, knocking on doors and turning over stones.”
This can be done through affirmations and surrounding yourself in the energy of abundance. You can do this by dressing up in your best clothes, daily gratitude practice to be thankful for what you do have right now also repeating mantras and affirmations that help to rewire your feelings about money. This can help so much to get you into the feeling space to welcome in prosperity. Feel worthy.
Now close your eyes and think about 2017. See it, feel it, experience it like it’s already happened. Use your imagination and let it play out. See yourself achieving your goals and manifesting your heart’s desires. What does that feel like? Who is around you? Take 10 more minutes or so to really allow yourself to future-trip here. Smile as you see yourself kicking goals, being surrounded by loved ones, and achieving what it is you want. High five yourself in your mind, and when you are finished your visualisation, move on to the next step…
I know that you, if you practice studiously, can begin to manifest for yourself virtually anything that you are capable of conceiving in your mind. You must unplug from your conditioning and know in that private space behind your eyes that you can and will take on the challenge of manifesting your destiny.
This shouts a loud message to the Universe that you are up for action! Just imagine if you all of a sudden met the love of your life, felt ready to take things to the ‘next level’ and all you have is a ratty old pair of knickers that are 5 sizes too big or too small. Great underwear is imperative to feeling abundant and manifesting love.
But you DO need to CLEAR your mind of any blocks, get CRYSTAL clear on your goals, infuse every part of your day with positivity, take inspired ACTION and learn to RECEIVE (yes, it’s a learned process – women really struggle with that part).
Imagine you hold in your hands all the money you need. Feel the bills in your hands. Bring them up to your nose and smell the money. Inhale the beautiful fragrance of money. Now count the money, laying each bill down in front of you. See in your mind’s eye each bill as you lay it down. Make the entire experience as real and vivid as possible.
Note that at this point you may not know exactly how you are going to achieve your goal. Although planning is important and necessary, it is in no way as important as gaining clarity on what you want and getting in touch with the feeling of how it will really be owning it, doing it, having it, and/or being it!
It may still seem too difficult to see this exercise as something that will help bring your soulmate to you. Still, these can be excellent habits to make that will prepare you for living with someone else.
Practice affirmations that focus only on the positive feelings you’d enjoy if you had the money you desire. For example, you might try an affirmation version of the old “living as if” trick. In other words, speak like you already have the money!
Thoughts like these will conjure an image in your mind of a lot of meetings or a controlling boss. Visions like these make it more likely that the universe will bring you a job that has these exact things that you do not want.
What is admired now is a person who seems to know a lot of stuff, a person who makes sense when they talk, someone successful in their own field, a person with a purpose in life, some who can listen and understand others, show compassion and GIVE before trying to TAKE.
To see if you’re suffering from limiting beliefs, start to notice any definitive negative statements you might be making (or thinking) about love: “There aren’t any good men left”, “I’m too old”, “I’m too unattractive” etc.
This means that you may have to wait, while the Universe engineers the perfect and ideal timing for the two of you to come together, and learn to be patient while you deepen your faith, and your ability to give and receive love. If you and your soulmate have not met yet it is very likely that one of you have unfinished business or might be completing a relationship cycle with another person.
You are something of real value and you have something unique to offer the world. Have faith that you will be supported the more you authentically reveal yourself. The whole universe conspired to create you so there is a good reason you’re here. If you’re struggling to find it, keep looking, it may be hidden. Yet, don’t get stuck on searching. Too many spiritual seekers think that they have some unique destiny to contribute to civilization (which they haven’t discovered yet), when they would be more productive in choosing a path and sticking to it and seeing the meaning in small acts of kindness. Whether you’re the Prime Minister or a street sweeper, there is meaning in your being here.
Lately I’ve been teaching my daughter Emily (age 10) how to manifest coins. I do this by turning it into a game. When we’re out walking together, I challenge her to see if she can find more coins than I can.
How to manifest money effectively? Have you asked that question? You know, manifesting money is not a rocket science… Once you understand how to do it, it’s as natural as spending the days as you currently do, it’s a habit, a way of thinking, a lifestyle…
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Step into action, don’t wait somebody to knock on your door! Explore life and meet new people. This increases the likelihood and chances of finding the right person. Sitting around and doing nothing never does any good.
Having conversations or writing letters isn’t crazy. It’s actually just a powerful visualization exercise. It’s envisioning yourself in that happy fictional future and it’s by far one of the best ways I’ve found to feel those loving feelings before the event actually happens.
Step 2: There’s an old cliché that claims you can’t love others unless you love yourself. However, there is truth in this saying and it can have a major impact on whether you’re able to successfully manifest love. Specifically, you attract love with people who are aligned with your vibrational state. So if you are down on yourself or lack confidence, you often find love only with people who treat you poorly and fail to recognize your worth. Therefore, looking for love with real intention requires you to form a deeper, more profound and accepting connection with yourself.
You really can’t blame them, though. All of the propaganda surrounding “the secret” is easily misunderstood because it is a very shallow depiction of what the Law of Attraction entails. If you have no further exposure to the concept, you might end up thinking that it is basically the same as wishful thinking or magic. It’s not.
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The Law of Attraction is universal and it’s going to work with or without your intention. If you keep coming up short, address those doubts and fears, because they’re likely speaking to you much louder than your desires.
Again, this should be a general plan like: finish my website in 3 months from now. Until the end of the year, I should have 5 Websites live, generating income. For the upcoming weeks it could be tasks like: 1th week – perform a market research, 2&3th week – write 20 articles, 4th week – buy hosting and design the website, 5th week – put the site live and so on and so on.
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It’s hard to say what happened, but more than likely, you have fears that you aren’t addressing with compassion. Simply desiring riches doesn’t manifest money into your life. Ensure your fears and doubts aren’t speaking louder than your desires.