6) Use this time to grow in your ability to be more patient, more loving, more giving, more forgiving and more gentle and kind with yourself. Get your ducks in a row, explore new hobbies and interests and keep on growing your current friendships. Continue to work on all your mental and emotional blocks to love and, most importantly, continue to have faith that he or she is out there, and that you can’t miss each other.
For some reason I’m rummaging around in Mum’s old white bookshelf. I’m unsure why I got the sudden urge to pull books out, quickly scan their covers, and shove them back into the shelf. But then it catches my eye— a small, old, tattered blue-coloured book with a lily flower on the front. It’s my Grandmother Jean’s book; the book she wrote while she was dying of cancer in 1978, when she was only fifty-five years of age with two of her seven children still in their teens and living at home.
If this sounds like what you’re then you are walking down the wrong path! Take steps to transform aspects of yourself that seem less than desirable if you like, but don’t get caught up in negative thinking. Instead, act on the nudges you get. Some examples:
This is a bit of an acting exercise, so let go of your inhibitions to make this exercise really effective. Rather than just visualizing the reality in your mind, live it as much as possible. This may feel silly or strange to you, but in a moment, we will explain why it’s so important.
In this one day workshop, you will learn tools and techniques that will introduce you to a space of greater possibilities. You will learn to gift and receive the Bars body process, that will start unlocking the space of you being YOU, with greater ease so you can start SHOWING UP in your life! You will receive a manual, covering everything we learn in class, and 2 head charts visually depicting how to run the bars for reference purposes.
You have to love yourself before you can love others. You need to take care of yourself, appreciate, and treat yourself with respect. This will boost your loving capability and also help you understand what the other person expects from you.
Then treat yourself for these beliefs by inserting the belief statements into the Setup and also repeating the belief statement at each tapping point. For example, in my case, the statement was something like “Even though if I become rich, I will be less spiritual…”
There is a powerful Law of Attraction technique that I use in my daily life, called Dream Building. It states that the best way to make your dreams a reality is to actually experience them. Dream building is my favorite thing to do when I travel. It motivates and inspires me to raise my game and achieve my dreams by redirecting my focus towards what it is that I want most in life.
You can probably already see how this applies to relationships. How many desperate people do you see in good relationships? What did focusing on their own lack and loneliness and emptiness do for them? Are other people attracted to them?
I also believe that out of nearly 7 billion people on this planet at this particular point and time in history, there is one person alive, living reasonably close to you – or planning to move there soon – who is the best possible match for you. In other words, out of all the people who exist, there’s one person who is exactly who you’ve been waiting for, and to that person, you are exactly what he/she has waited for, too.
When you commit to manifesting your soulmate you’re saying, in essence, that you’re ready for the next stage of your unfoldment, your evolution. That you are willing to go and discover the best gifts that are emerging from within you, and to do the same with somebody else, while you support them along their journey.