In Part 2 of Oprah’s conversation with India.Arie, a member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100, the Grammy winner reveals how she returned to her spiritual roots, regained her energy and rediscovered her true identity. Oprah says, “India’s honesty and openness moves me deeply.”
I wrote these principles for myself back then when I was living in China and they’ve always worked miracles. I’ve been experiencing such an odd and absurd situations that it was more than clear that I’ve created them as the probability of these events happening was pretty close to zero.
Decide exactly what you want, and if it is money, be concrete and decide on the exact sum. This is vital part of the process and it’s crucial for your success. Spend some decent time, and decide EXACTLY what you want to manifest.
If you have been suffering from any chronic ailment, you must have been told that the illness can’t be reversed and you need to take medicines throughout your life. You will be surprised to know that this is not entirely true. Through the techniques of a modern healing science called Psychoneurobics, many chronic and irreversible diseases can be completely cured without any kind of medication or surgical intervention.
But when was the last time you did something for yourself that was truly indulgent? You don’t have to wait for the guy to show up before you start doing the things that you truly enjoy! Think of this as self care on steroids. It might mean getting a pedicure, booking a weekend away or just going out for a nice glass of wine all on your own. Getting out there and actually doing the things you like is a great way of telling the Universe what you want more of.
So take care of yourself, and try to always look presentable, even if it’s just going to the local supermarket! It’s the feelings you’ll get from this kind of attitude that counts, not your outfit. You will feel good in your skin and your vibration will radiate around you. When you don’t feel good, even if you’re the most attractive human being (physically) you will repel others from you.
To really understand the Law of Attraction, tune in to your perspective of your relationship with the universe. In other words, it’s important to examine how you feel about the way the universe interacts with you.
The analogy is simple: if you’re carrying a passenger in your car, there won’t be room for your Soulmate to sit in it! So, if you’re still in love with this person, but you know that they are not your soul mate and/or there is no possibility of a true, loving, committed relationship with them, it’s time to let them go. This does not mean you have to stop loving them. It simply means that you have to find a new space in your heart for them, a special chamber where you will put all the people whom you have loved in the past.
Just like the good old tracks that the sled follows down the mountain. And so we tell the same old story, over and over, about why we have our childhood wounds, and about how bad our previous relationship was, how we got dumped, how we’re not being loved the way we want to be, how unequal this relationship is, how we have these abandonment issues, how they cheated on us, how we’re too old to find love, too fat, too skinny, too white, too black, too gay, too straight, too poor, too rich, too unstable, too unreliable, afraid of commitment, too demanding… Blah, blah, blah. PLEASE STOP! The more you tell the same old story, the more you’re perpetuating it in your experience and the more you’re blocking love from coming into your life. Why? Because you keep focusing on it.
When you understand the answers to these types of questions about manifesting your soulmate, your mind and heart begin to focus on trying find love that is based on true mutual understanding and excitement. You can do all kinds of creative techniques to bolster the designing of your life partner. For example, Law of Attraction experts recommend daily visualization exercises in which you conjure up a vivid sense of what your life partner would be like. Meanwhile, you can also create a dream board that represents all the traits you’re looking for and your image of how this relationship will improve your life.
When you put aside your doubts, you can begin to imagine in both mind and body what it will feel like to have your Wishes Fulfilled. Think about what you plan to manifest — then use your imagination to feel what that feels like in your body. Does it feel natural to you? Does it really feel like this is the “you” that you are deciding to be? By staying only with what your senses tell you is your reality, you place a barrier to letting your imagination create all that you wish for. Your imagination is unlimited.
1) Healing Your Heart. To be human is to risk being wounded. Whether we experienced a difficult childhood or were rejected, or abused by a previous lover, the fact is that deep down at the level of the heart, we all have emotional wounds that need healing.
It is normal at this stage that many questions will pop up in your mind, especially the “HOW” part of the equation. Remember, nobody that has ever succeeded in anything, didn’t know the exact steps required for him or her to get there.
And once those negative thoughts such as the economy being in a recession is planted in people’s minds, they panic and start to think negative things like “what if I lose my job” which leads to more negative thoughts which causes things to start to go downhill and they stop thriving financially.
Write a list of the most important qualities your soul mate will possess. Then take your list and create a “vision map,” a collage that becomes a visual representation of your romantic future. It really works! We know of one forty-something single man who quickly manifested his soulmate this way: After he created his vision map, he took a photograph of it and made it the wallpaper on his laptop and his cell phone. Dozens of times each day he focused on his “vision” and voila, within a few months he met the love of his life.
Step 4 is important for two reasons. The first is that it aligns you with your desires. The entire concept behind the Law of Attraction is that like attracts like. When you take action as if you’ve already gotten what you desire, you are sending a huge, loud and clear message to the universe that you’re serious. Actions speak louder than words, right?
This simple exercise changes your feelings about money. It quickly shifts you from pushing money away to allowing it into your life. Instead of focusing on how much money you need, you change your vibration to one of allowing yourself to manifest money today.
I’ve noticed that as I’ve shifted my vibe to manifest larger sums of money and to manifest new experiences in other parts of my life, I seem to fall out of resonance with manifesting smaller sums. I’m not as good at manifesting coins as I was in 2006. That’s because my vibe isn’t tuned in to the coin manifesting frequency as much. These days I’m spending more time using the LoA to manifest cool social connections and travel experiences. I’ve tuned my vibe to focus on that part of the perceptual frequency. I also feel more excited and playful about manifesting in these other areas as opposed to adding to my financial score.
This made me think of my money manifesting stories and how they came about. And all of them had the same type of energy behind them … a feeling of “knowing” it’s happening, really feeling how that would feel when already having it and most of all for me “letting go of the outcome and not being so attached to it happening”. I’m thinking of one in particular where I had accumulated some debt (something I never had done) and I was getting all caught up in the fact that I had never done that before and every time I looked at the debt I didn’t like it. So, I had to make peace with it, know it was just temporary and I really trusted completely and fully that it would be handled by the Universe. Without even asking, one day my parents told me to look in my back account … and there was a deposit for $25,000! I can’t even describe to you what that felt like – but you can imagine it was the most yummiest and pleasantly surprising feeling! And I know the only reason why that happened was because I let go of the attachment and lack feelings around that debt and trusted that all was well and it was just temporary. It literally came from “out of the blue” with my parents! How cool is that?!
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I also believe that out of nearly 7 billion people on this planet at this particular point and time in history, there is one person alive, living reasonably close to you – or planning to move there soon – who is the best possible match for you. In other words, out of all the people who exist, there’s one person who is exactly who you’ve been waiting for, and to that person, you are exactly what he/she has waited for, too.
As you do so, you’ll be treating your attachment to a previous reality in which this goal did not exist, and making it easier for yourself to feel comfortable in a new reality that you are consciously bringing into form.
Perhaps you are already acting on the messages you receive, or perhaps you are giving yourself a million excuses why you just “can’t” take action. You might thing you’re not attractive enough, not outgoing enough, not successful enough; the list goes on and on.
The results were always the same. Messages of hope, peace, love, joy and the like resulted in beautiful, symmetrical crystals, while messages of fear, hate, anger, sadness and the like resulted in disjointed and broken crystals. His experiments proved that our intentions can physically alter the world around us.