So what does that tell you? Well, when I asked myself the same question years ago before I started doing this work, what I realized was that in order for me to attract and manifest my Soulmate, I must somehow develop and grow myself into the kind of person that I myself want to be with. In other words, if you haven’t found the right person it’s probably because you are not being the right person! As Marianne Williamson says, “We must become the person we want to attract.”
In Part 2 of Oprah’s conversation with India.Arie, a member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100, the Grammy winner reveals how she returned to her spiritual roots, regained her energy and rediscovered her true identity. Oprah says, “India’s honesty and openness moves me deeply.”
Imagine for a moment that it’s a beautiful winter morning and there’s fresh, pristine snow on the ground. You walk up to a hill with your sled, and slide down and take your first trip down to the bottom of the hill. This first time, your course was pretty random, right? Then, you walk back up to the top of the hill once more and you sled down again. Okay, the odds are that you’re going to hit at least some of the grooves you created the first time that you went down.
But as I lay there on a white sandy beach, with barely another soul in sight, looking out onto the clear turquoise ocean glittering under the sunshine with not a cloud in the sky, I had a crystal clear moment of realisation and reflection.
In this article, I will share with you a step-by-step process I put together for myself several years ago when I made the decision to open my heart and welcome love into my life. In my opinion, these steps make up what I believe is the most comprehensive, practical, spiritually based ‘how to’ advice on how to Manifest Love using the Law of Attraction and the Intelligence of your Heart.
You need to formulate a sentence that describes your intention of manifesting money in a very clear way. Make sure you feel energetically in tune with this sentence. If you don’t, it will be hard to manifest.
Ask yourself questions to determine how to fit your love into your life. With my current schedule, would I have time to give love to a partner? If not, how can I change that? Do I just need to work through this busy phase in my life? One especially important question to ask yourself is, “Will I be faced with busy phases in my life that may complicate the kind of relationship I want?”
Looking at matter and energy on a quantum level, where something can be in two locations at the same time, you can extrapolate the fact that our reality isn’t base reality. Couple that with the advancement of technologies over the past 4 or 5 decades, and you can simply imagine that life can be one big simulation.
Reread #3. You’re losing money because you’re doing it with the intent to create money which means you’re coming from lack and are introducing a vibration of not having money. You need to do the exercise as if you already have the money you want.
If you stay within your frame of reference, you cannot create more. Look at your life. What you see is what you can create within the frame of reference you are using right now. Be open to more possibilities by expanding your frame of reference, be willing to change and go in the direction you need to in order to manifest what you want.
Attracting wealth in your life is a matter of vision – how you envision money, and how you envision yourself having it. Exercising visualizations can help you bring money in your life, especially if you make sure that they are entirely positive.
Men give their undivided attention to those who respect them. If a man doesn’t feel respected while communicating with you, he’ll find the respect he needs elsewhere. The woman who knows how to communicate with men can influence the man she wants without resorting to “that mini-skirt he loves.” A man craves the attention of a graceful woman who knows exactly what to say to him, when to say it, and, most importantly, how to say it to get what she wants.
The universe has a way of making your beliefs true, so if a belief doesn’t support what you really want, it is time to drop it and develop beliefs that do. The universe responds to your feelings about yourself; if you are feeling unworthy or undeserving, the universe reflects this back.
This is a bit of an acting exercise, so let go of your inhibitions to make this exercise really effective. Rather than just visualizing the reality in your mind, live it as much as possible. This may feel silly or strange to you, but in a moment, we will explain why it’s so important.
If you want to leave the single life behind and Attract your man, sign up for the webinar and I will teach you all about it. Even my clients who have come to me after being single for 12 years, follow what I teach, and attract the Love they long for.
Remain independent of the good opinion of others and keep yourself fixed on your ability to attract whatever it is that you previously thought was missing in your life. When you trust yourself to decide what is to be your destiny, you don’t allow externals to discourage or influence you.
Giving gratitude is one of the easiest and simplest ways to manifest your dreams. When you adopt an attitude of gratitude, you are sending a powerful message to the Universe about what it is that you want in your life. Giving thanks for all of the blessings in your life helps transform negative attitudes into positive ones. In turn, this raises your vibration and attracts positive experiences into your life. In the words of Walt Disney, “The more that you are in a state of gratitude, the more that you will attract things to be grateful for.”
STEP #4 (4:26) Review the list of things you want in a relationship and the list of qualities you believe you bring in to the relationship. If those lists are compatible, you are ready and open for love and it is coming to find you. S
Thoughts like these will conjure an image in your mind of a lot of meetings or a controlling boss. Visions like these make it more likely that the universe will bring you a job that has these exact things that you do not want.
Actor Rainn Wilson of “The Office” fame comes with his own list of “Life’s Big Questions.” Rainn reveals his uniquely spiritual upbringing and how it has affected every aspect of his life. Rainn also discusses his meaningful digital platform, “SoulPancake,” which challenges people to be “creative, explore their souls and dig into life’s big que ……
When you attach your happiness and worth to outcomes, then you will try to control the outcome. Controlling has a low frequency, so as soon as you try to control, you stop manifestation with integrity. While some people manage to make lots of money through controlling, even though they are not in integrity, they are not happy and they don’t feel full and worthy inside.
I saw a universal manifestation of discontent when the fumes of the repast met the nostrils of those destined to swallow it; from the van of the procession, the tall girls of the first class, rose the whispered words –
For Example: You plan to help people find what they want in life over the Internet, and you will be a successful Affiliate Marketer. You will promote valuable products of various individuals and companies that will really add benefit in people’s lives to the ones that will purchase them.
“I’ve been working with other healing and therapy forms for 16 years, but when I started your eCourse something new happened. I discovered how strong self-belief is. I saw that what you focus on, you become.”
The thoughts that you dwell on determine what you will possess or not possess. What you think about is what you will become. Examine all the supposed lacks and scarcities in your life. Then say to yourself, “I created all of this with my thoughts, conditioning, beliefs and actions.”
If it is your burning desire to become a professional basketball player, ask yourself how natural it feels to you to be on the court, competing at the professional level. If this feels unnatural to you, you may eventually, with persistence, achieve this wish fulfilled, but only until you have become so aligned with that experience that it feels completely natural to dunk a basketball and sink a free-throw.
I would stay up all night anxiously thinking in the dull light of the Hello Kitty Café game on my Kindle. Some nights I would read tarot cards instead, refreshing the pages of my iPhone until they told me what I wanted to hear. Hello Kitty and electronic tarot did little to calm my nerves and they certainly failed at taking my mind to a more hopeful place, so I thought that maybe going back to my Catholic roots and focusing on prayer might help. It was truly a last resort since I rarely pray in a traditional sense.
Paychecks make you happy, while bills made you put on your cranky pants with annoyance and anxiety. You need to rewire this in order to get out of your own way. Each time you feel pissed off when a bill gets sent to you then you actively choose to block the flow of abundance and you’re inviting MORE BILLS and more expenses. Nothing is as expensive as an attitude that blocks the flow of prosperity. Learn to LOVE your money. After all, it’s just energy.
Complete several rounds of tapping on the idea and feeling of being there, doing that, having that, being that kind of person (“Even though I have this ___”, “Even though I am this kind of person…”, “Even though I have achieved ___”).
Hi Toni! Tough question! Focus on holding that feeling of love in your heart. (Because it always starts inside of you, not with the other person!) Then keep on striving to become the kind of person you think you’d be if you were still in that relationship. (It’s all about attracting them back, not chasing them down!) But of course, we can only ever control our own energy and vibration (not the other person) so just focus on doing what you can! Good luck! 💜
I heard of this law some time ago. My business was not getting the money owed in as quickly as I needed it to at this time. I went to bed imagining opening the envelopes with the cheques inside, and within one week, the monies I was particularly worried about came to me. I do not feel particularly wealthy but life does seem to send what I need. For that I am truly grateful.
For example, you might try keeping a gratitude journal and regularly jotting down benefits you’ve enjoyed because of money you’ve had. You could write “I’m grateful for the money that allowed me to grow up without worrying about whether food would be on the table” or “I’m always grateful for the money that let me have the amazing experience of _____” and “I feel grateful when I think about the money that has permitted me to sleep safely and comfortably each night.”
Yay to free money! I like to use the term “free money” vs. “out of the blue money”. The latter always makes me think of someone literally conjuring money out of thin air (like a magician pulling a rabbit out of a hat). Personally, I have no experience with that. 😄
Your thoughts shape your life, create your reality, and ultimately limit or expand your true potential. Everything from relationships and love, to health and well-being, to wealth and prosperity are directly connected to how you think and what you think about most of the time – for better or for worse.
You should have a high level of desire to attract to yourself what you want. Let us say that you want to manifest 10,000 dollars per month in the coming 12 months. So if your goal is to receive 120,000 dollars in the next 12 months, then this desire should be a strong desire and not a wishful thinking.