Oprah’s conversation continues with award-winning interior designer and best-selling author Nate Berkus. Nate describes how he picked up the pieces of his life after surviving the 2004 Indian Ocean tsunami, which claimed more than 200,000 lives in several countries. Oprah describes Nate’s harrowing story of survival as “emotional, spiritual and ……
It’s over – and it really hurts. But as unbelievable as it may seem when you are in the throes of heartache, you can move past your breakup. Forget about trying to win your ex back. Forget about losing yourself and trying to make this person love you. Forget it! Starting today, this breakup is the best time to change your life for the better, inside and out. Getting Past Your Breakup is a proven road map for overcoming the painful end of any romantic relationship, even divorce.
The most important part of this step is to clarify how you want to feel. When you get clear on how you want to feel, you can begin to access that feeling. That feeling is what makes the manifestation come into form. You can write a thousand lists and make a million vision boards, but if you don’t clearly feel what you want to experience, it will never truly manifest into form.
STEP #3 (3:24) Now, write down a list of everything you would want your ideal relationship to be like. You can write things like, “we make each other laugh. We have common interests. He exposes me to new experiences. She loves my mother. We are affectionate. We are honest and loyal.” Keep writing that list for as long as it feels good, and as long as you follow the rules step by step, you are in the process of creating.
However, I know the general frame of mind here is that you can’t manifest money into your life by using the Law of Attraction. Yet, over and over again, people use this precise technique to help them move towards greater financial prosperity. You’ve likely even heard of people “willing” themselves into winning the lottery and receiving other types of windfalls.
STEP #6 (6:05) Stop thinking in a state of lack. When we think about how we don’t have something, we’ll just get more of that lack, because you are focusing on not having it. Don’t focus on the fact that you are single, focus on everything you wrote down at the beginning, how much good you bring to the table, and how much abundance you have in your life, and more will come.
Whatever it is, make plans to do it! We can’t experience our highest level of fulfillment of love in our relationships with others until we have chosen to love ourselves 100%. Know that you deserve it — and make it happen!
Also, every time you read it, vividly visualize it and contemplate it to the tiniest details. It must become crystal clear on the screen of your mind, and don’t worry if this doesn’t happen the first week of doing this process.
After situations like that, it’s easy to focus on the negative qualities of the previous relationship. “He never wanted to try new restaurants; I won’t date a guy like that again.” Or, “She was always talking about wanting to get married and have kids, what’s the rush? I won’t date another woman who puts those at the top of her priority list!”
You could have a library stacked with Law of Attraction books. You could go to all of the big seminars. You could even spend years studying under the world’s greatest masters. But until you’re willing…
It’s fun to think of this vibe-shifting process as shifting dimensions, as if you’re tuning in to a different perceptual frequency spectrum. That other reality was there all along. You just couldn’t see it before because you were tuned in to incompatible perceptual frequencies, frequencies that made the money invisible and undetectable by your senses. Maybe you were stuck on the red part of the spectrum, while the money was hanging out in the blue part.
Think about a moment in the past when you were wealthy, and appreciate it. If you have never been truly wealthy, imagine how that would feel like and appreciate it. The goal is being grateful for money whenever you can, even if you do not yet have it. The Universe will get a positive signal from you – that you appreciate money – so it will send more your way.
Therefore, it is best to fully identify what you want so it manifests properly the first time, and you don’t have to go back to the drawing board after an “almost perfect” item has shown up in your reality.
6) Use positive affirmations every day. I use an affirmation that covers all of the bases for me! I say it to myself every day, and also have it on my office wall, where I can see it as I work. It is “Happy am I, Healthy an I, Holy am I” Use this affirmation, or come up with one that resonates with you. Let the words sink into your heart and soul – they are your natural state.
So if you come at this from a place of saying, “I really need $1000 to pay my rent next month, so I’m going to focus hard on manifesting it via the Law of Attraction,” well… good luck with that. But I’d bet against you.
Take time to get really clear on the amount you are requesting for the Universe and also the time it will take for you to receive it. The Universe LOVES specificity. If you’re not clear on what you want to attract then you will be manifesting by default and all sorts of nasty surprises can appear when you don’t pay attention to conscious awareness. Click here to get my FREE Intention Setting Worksheet. This works great on the night of a New Moon ☽.
An intention is a guiding principle for how you want to be, live, and show up in the world—during meditation, yoga or any area of your life. Ask yourself, what matters most to you? Your answer could form a powerful intention, for which you can align your thoughts for your meditation—and the intention doesn’t need to stop when the meditation ends. can then guide your actions as you move through your day.
2) Limiting beliefs and fears get in the way of conscious manifestation, and most people skip over this part of the process. I don’t. In this course, I’ll teach you how to easily overcome your low-vibes and fears about love so you manifest/create what you most desire in your life.
As you become expert in manifesting small amounts of money, it is time to go beyond your comfort zone. The only way you can create more for yourself is by the willingness to go beyond the limits of your mind.
The Universe loves specificity. The more specific you can be with your love intention, the faster they will manifest. Just thinking about “being in love” is not very specific! But thinking about the who, what and how of what you want is.
One of the most frequent reasons why people fail when manifesting money relates to the very way that we tend to perceive money. Specifically, it is an enormous source of stress and concern for many of us, and it’s really difficult to get rid of that anxiety.
If you want to manifest money, you CANNOT believe that money is a power source. Money cannot give you wealth or abundance or happiness. It really can’t give you anything. Money just sits there — all the power comes from you. If you believe that having more money will give you any additional power at all, then you’re actually holding the vibe that says, “I’m too weak to attract money.” You’ll have to get a job instead. 😉
If you’re going to manifest your soulmate, it’s vital to first understand why it is that your attempts to find love so often go awry. While everyone’s story of looking for love is slightly different, there are often common factors in play that can block you from creating the romance you deserve to have. For example, you may find the following are true of you:
Wealth can be expressed in meaningful relationships, great friendships, and having a wealthy spirit is something you must aim for. However, money is vitally important and you have to have it, if you are ever to enjoy a comfortable life, free of worry and stress, physical toil and time limitation.
Remind yourself of times like these to help you let go when you are working with your new dreams. Paradoxically, if you can make it ok for your dream not to come true, it will come true. Surrender your vision to the universe and then get back to living your life.
Arielle: I believe a soul mate is someone we feel a deep and profound connection to. Someone with whom we feel completely ourselves with. Someone that we love unconditionally and they love us unconditionally. And when we look into their eyes we feel like we are “home.”
Packed with subliminal affirmations, the audiobook shows that in order to attract opportunities that will improve your health, love life, or even wealth. Call it meditation or even self-hypnosis, but the principles stated in the audiobook actually work. It is proven that repetitive constructive affirmations attract positive energies in your life, and that desire is the first step towards achievements.
You don’t have to fear being alone and sad if you let your partner go. Learn to embrace this time you have to be yourself without the fear of judgement. Go do the things that you always wanted to do, but didn’t do out of the fear that it would affect your partner.
As surely as mountains are to be climbed and oceans sailed, your dreams are meant to come true. This is why you’re here, to live the life of your dreams. Not to be tested, challenged, and tried, but to conquer, champion, and rule. Keep going, forge ahead, press on, and the day must dawn when your thirsts shall be quenched, and you, exalted.
If your friends and family constantly complain about their lack of money, it will undoubtedly affect your money manifesting mojo. Don’t breathe in their second-hand poverty mindset, because limiting self-beliefs are socially transmitted.
Pastor A.R. Bernard is the founder of the largest church in New York City, Brooklyn’s Christian Cultural Center. In his book “Four Things Women Want from a Man,” Pastor Bernard reveals the qualities men need to have for a happy, lasting relationship. The pastor says he can help you make your relationship one that is “built to weather any storm.”…
As important as this removing past blocks process is, it’s crucial to keep coming back to your goal and mentally and emotionally going there now. Don’t spend all of your time on wiping out past negatives. Ensure you spend at least equal time associating to new positives.
I really needed this I have been a widow for 11 years now and I have been looking for love in all the wrong places and failed in all of them but hearing this now this gives me hope again that there is a Soulmate out there for me to go on with my life being loved and happy again BUT BETTER AND TRULY IN LOVE. thank you so so much and God Richly Bless you now I’m so happy to know my Soulmate is on his way to me .😂 Robin A.