12. Shift all of your attitudes towards safety/security. Don’t treat money as if it is the thing separating you from disaster or not being safe. Instead, treat thoughts of lack of safety like they are the things separating you from disaster and not being safe. You want to focus on visualizing what safety and security would feel like and also on shifting your beliefs about all aspects of your life where you feel powerless. This will ensure that money will not be influenced by your focus on fear, disaster or powerlessness.
The fabulous part about manifesting your soulmate is that you can actually have all those things you crave! Want someone who will treat you with dignity and respect? Done. Is it important to you to find a partner who finds joy in scouring antique shops on Saturdays followed by cider sipping? No problem. Does your ideal partner sign up to run mud-filled obstacle races and would rather sleep on the ground under a tarp than in a 5-Star hotel? It’s a cinch.
This was the most powerful and loving piece of advice that my mother gave me when I was on the brink of going bankrupt in 2009. She told me to just be gentle on myself and take one day at a time. This helped tremendously to keep me focussed on my power in the present moment and not sabotage my vibration with overwhelm by thinking about the uncertainty of my financial future. This is an imperative factor to energy management throughout the manifesting process.
Limiting beliefs run rampant, especially when it comes to finding true love and romantic relationships. There’s a million lame excuses I’ve heard from people looking for partners! But it’s important to realize that those excuses are usually just a defence mechanism. When we feel rejected or unlovable, we want to point the blame elsewhere.
Oprah’s conversation with best-selling author Paulo Coelho continues from his home in Switzerland. In Part 2, Paulo shares his unique spiritual journey and how he never lost faith in his personal dream.
Look in the mirror and appreciate what you see. Be thankful for your life. How can you really love somebody, if you do not love yourself, if you think lowly of your appearance, qualities and abilities? Accept yourself the way you are and learn to love yourself – our spiritual DNA is PERFECT!
Meditation is extremely helpful to gather thoughts and get organized. Start to analyze yourself. What are your deepest passions? What is your mission in life, and what kind of a person can be your company on the journey of the achievement of your dreams? What are you really looking for in a partner?
This means that, after making room in your heart for love, you need to make room in your life, too. I know it can be difficult to do, but if you truly want to manifest love, then you’ll get over your hang-ups.
Repeat this meditation daily for 21 days straight. If you miss one day, start over. After your meditation, write down any ideas or visions that you were able to receive from your inner divine guidance.
It’s important to be on the lookout for synchronistic signs from the Universe or inspiring invitations that come out of the blue, that may lead you to your soulmate. Taking action may also mean joining an online dating service, enrolling in a scuba diving course or simply sharing with trusted friends your desire to meet the love of your life.
By connecting with your soulmate on the inner plane first, you will be drawing him or her towards you and ultimately propelling him or her into your arms! In order to send out a Soul Call you can follow these steps:
A key element in our healing and empowerment as women has to do with reconnecting with our “Inner maid”, the teenage girl we carry inside, and creating a new relationship of trust with her. When we intend to heal and awaken this part of ourselves, we will be able to accompany our daughters, nieces, friends or students with more fluency and joy, aware of not projecting in them what we lacked in this important moment of life.
I dare say she’s probably better at finding coins than I am now. She now knows there are coins everywhere, but she also really gets into the playful and competitive spirit of the game, which is much more exciting for her than it is for me. I think partly she likes knowing that it’s a fair game that either of us can win, and there’s no reason she can’t be at least as skillful as I am.
And again, this exercise works best when you’re not envisioning an actual person in this role. We don’t want to fuck up our magic but pulling on someone else’s energetic chain. Everyone is entitled to their own free will, which is why I advocate doing non-specific love spells instead of specific ones.
Because they have limiting beliefs about themselves and the world. It creates a self-sabotaging cycle that can result a life of regret. We all have the power to manifest our dreams, but in order to do, so we have to shift to a more positive way of thinking. Using the Law of Attraction to manifest your dreams is about actively holding yourself in the energetic space of infinite possibility.