It doesn’t matter how unattractive you think you are, no one deserves a partner who abuses or disrespects them. Pay attention to the signs of someone who mistreats you and know when to walk away–even if it means being alone.
The Law of Attraction works the same way. The truth is, your thoughts and feelings do have an effect on the events that take place around you. A shift in your perspective and of the truth about your relationship to the universe, can begin to attract better things into your life.
For example, if your job sucks and doesn’t pay you very well, and you try to manifest money on the side, that probably won’t work so well because each time you go to work at your job, you risk re-triggering the vibe of feeling financially under-appreciated.
Wow, Maria, that is a terrific — and inspiring — story of financial manifesting at its best. That whole “letting go” thing is crucial, isn’t it. The only times I’ve has success with this is when I am able to completely let go of it emotionally.
Bottom line is that manifesting money for nothing is a simple matter of feeling it into being. Practice feeling what it’s like to receive money out of the blue, and then let it go. Universe will put it together for you when you give the instruction and then get out of the way.
From now on, everyday for 2 to 3 minutes and for at least 3 times a day feel in your mind that you have already achieved your goal. Feel it with your 5 senses (Touch, Hear, See, Smell and Taste). For example, you are at Starbucks with someone – see the scenario, smell the coffee, feel the taste of hot coffee which you are sipping from the cup you are holding in your hand, and you can hear the sounds of footsteps and the coffee machine.
STEP#7 (7:41) Don’t wait for it or look for it, go out and live your life and believe that it’s on its way to you. Don’t wait on anyone. You want to be interesting once that person comes along, don’t you?! Open yourself up wide for new opportunities and new people.
Think about it – did your great-great-grandparents use a specific manifestation process to find one another and fall in love? Probably not! However, they believed that love was possible, and this simple belief, along with an absence of doubt about whether or not they would ever find “the one” went a long way to shape their love lives.
8. Go on an APPRECIATION RAMPAGE and preserve an ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE. Relish the moment and be appreciative of all that you have. Be aware of every opportunity that comes your way and honor where you are on your path. Look at each experience as neither good nor bad, but as an opportunity to learn and grow. Don’t scold yourself when you make a mistake.
Now on each line list those things that you already have brought into being: your relationship, your children, your marriage, your successes… And, if you care to, the failures you have created in your life through the decisions and choices you’ve made.
You don’t have to fear being alone and sad if you let your partner go. Learn to embrace this time you have to be yourself without the fear of judgement. Go do the things that you always wanted to do, but didn’t do out of the fear that it would affect your partner.