If you’re single, you may be asking yourself: What do I need to do to a new romantic partner this year? On the other hand, if you’re already in a relationship, you may be asking yourself: What can I do to deepen my relationship in a way so that I can experience more love?
The starting point has to with you. Why would you want to use the Law of Attraction to marry a specific person? It doesn’t make any sense, how could that be a happy relationship? Most people have been brought up to put others first, which means you’re putting yourself last. It’s easy to see why your subconscious mind has taught you that you don’t deserve what you want.
As you work toward your goal, it may question if manifesting actually works. You might get discouraged and frustrated. If you are sitting in the struggle and wondering when things are going to happen you aren’t trusting the process. When you question manifestation, you’re telling the universe to prove manifesting doesn’t work.
If you want a house, what would it look like? Would it be in the center of your city or on the periphery? Would be it 2 or 3 floors? What’s your living room going to be like? Decide on all details and form the complete picture.
You face loneliness, heartache, and even rejection if you don’t use the Law of Attraction for love. What are people doing to attract a specific person, like you want? As a Law of Attraction expert, I’ve helped people manifest relationships with specific men and women. I use little-known Law of Attraction techniques to help you be a vibrational match to a relationship with a specific person. I show you how to apply these techniques to manifest the relationship you want, making sure you get all of your needs and desires met.
We wanted to transform the property into a light-filled, creative space for Damien to do his work in, and also have a space large enough for me to run my ‘Yoga and Healing’ workshops and seaside detox retreats.
Arielle: In addition to healing your heart from past relationships, you need to create a clear intention. The analogy I like to use it this: When you walk into your favorite coffee hangout what is the first thing you do? Place your order. You confidently tell the barista, “I will have a tall, half-caff, low-fat mocha latte, with a splash of non-sugar vanilla syrup to go.” The barista smiles, writes your order on the side of a cup and takes your money. Within minutes you are walking out the door with the precise, delicious cup of coffee that you ordered. Ordering up a soul mate from the Universe works in a similar way. It’s not always as instantaneous but it can be just as precise. But to have the Universe to deliver your perfect soul mate, you must first clearly place your order. This isn’t quite as easy as it sounds. You must first search your heart for what you really, really desire. By now you what you don’t want but you need to ask for what you do want. In the Soulmate Kit we explain how to place your order by creating a detailed list and we then provide a variety of rituals to do to release your list to the Universe.
This is a statement that literally all philosophers have agreed upon. They almost literally disagree on everything else, but at this point, they are at an unanimous agreement! Start to monitor your thinking, and deeply believe that you do become, what you think about most of the time!
And it’s got to be probably the most difficult thing, too. Usually I have *some* sort of emotional attachment to manifesting a sum of money. Even though I pretend I don’t, and tell myself I don’t — down deep, I do. And it’s that tiny attachment, that wanting/needing that sets up a tiny sense of anxiety, urgency, or grasping hopefulness that somehow messes up my energy and I go from manifesting money to manifesting not-money/wanting money. And I’m not quite good enough at LOA yet to get past that consistently. (Notice that “yet”!)
I was a first time bride at age 44. I woke up one day, at age 43, and decided to manifest my soulmate using everything I had ever learned about psychology, spirituality, and the Law of Attraction. My intentions became crystal clear while I simultaneously cleared out the clutter in my house AND in my heart.
Arielle Ford is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a love and relationship expert, and the author of 10 books including her newest, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate (Harper One). Buy it now and receive many amazing bonuses, including a free 5-part video series featuring Iyanla Van Zant, Dr. John Gray. Dr. Pepper Schwartz Dr. Laura Berman and Drs. Gay and Katy Hendricks.
Remember, you are ‘IT’ for your Soulmate. If you find yourself feeling competitive, or in a situation where someone else got the person you really liked, simply bless that person silently and continue to be confident that your One will not see passed you, and that you get love no matter what!
So, if you want to manifest an incredible relationship, then you have to take the same steps. You have to believe you can have an incredible relationship, and you must align your energy toward making it happen. While, yes, there’s a little more to it than that, if you follow these steps, you will definitely be closer to finding the love you want.
Now, it’s time to live the reality of your desires. You’ve imagined what you want, cleared away your doubts and fears and realized how the law has already worked for you in the past. You practiced this type of imagination exercise in Step 1, but now it’s time to live out that imagination.
He hosts full weekend seminars with thousands of attendees, and he facilitates the entire thing with no script, no PowerPoint presentation and no plan! This allows him to operate from the heart and connect from a heart-based space to facilitate the highest level of transformation in the audience.
4) Stop hanging onto other people’s attitudes about money. Your money energy can be inherited. Think carefully how you feel about money. Do you feel guilty about the idea of having or wanting it because that might be seen as a sign of greed? Did your parents say “money is the root of all evil” until you believed it? Let go of the past, it’s blocking you from experiencing abundance today.
When you’re feeling lonely or unlovable, it’s easy to get excited by anyone who shows you a teeny bit of attention. But when you’re clear about your own needs, it’s much easier to determine whether the relationship is actually a good fit or just “good enough”.
Can you see how these sentences are specific but not overbearing with details? I found key things that are important to me—wanting to try new things and travel, being respectful and courteous to me and others, certain forms of love expression—and wrote them down. I let the Universe take it from there, because it’s not my job to figure out the how, when or where. It’s just my job to be ready when my soulmate comes along.
How does soulmate love feel to you? What goes on in your brain or your chest or your belly when you see that person? Joyful, excited, relieved, secure, happy, anticipatory or content? Feel the feelings, imagine the conversations you’ll have and fake it till you make it. It’s better to ‘live as if’ rather than focus on the lack of the relationship. “It’s been x months/years and it still hasn’t happened” is living in insufficiency and that’s hardly what you want. Don’t live in the reality of what’s missing, you don’t get love by focusing on the love you don’t have—live as if you’ve already found your soulmate and share the love you have in your soul with everyone!