The first time I did this, she was really bad at it. I found several coins during our walk together, often coins that she walked right past without even noticing. Instead of finding coins, she didn’t notice anything. The coins didn’t register within her perceptual reality.
Step into action, don’t wait somebody to knock on your door! Explore life and meet new people. This increases the likelihood and chances of finding the right person. Sitting around and doing nothing never does any good.
Step 1 is important because it prepares your mind and body to receive whatever you’re asking for. Our brains don’t know the difference between reality and imagination. When you engage in full, sensory imagination, your brain fires up your body to move forward. Muscles, blood flow, heart, lungs and every part of your body gear up to take part in whatever you’re imagining.
As long as you think you’ll be happier somewhere other than where you are now, you won’t be able to get to where you want to be. When you’re happy being “here,” you will find yourself “over there” with your specific person.
A crucial step in this process is to begin to put it outside yourself, begin to bring a representation of it into the world. There are many ways of doing this, all of which work differently for different individuals. (First thing to treat yourself for is the belief that you need to set goals according to someone else’s formula—even mine!) Some examples are writing it down, drawing or painting a picture of it, saying you will do it or have it, making a three-dimensional representation of it like a sculpture, and so on. Or taking some physical action toward it.
Being able to deliberately craft and sculpt your own reality is a skill that comes in handy quite frequently in life. You can literally use it to be, do, or have anything your heart desires. And I can tell you from experience that it is freakin’ fun!
Your imagination will work out the means to realize your dream while your conscious mind sleeps. Bring your five senses into play as you perform your imaginal activity. Actually hear a friend’s voice congratulating you or feel yourself hugging that person. If you wanted a new piano, run your hand over the smooth wood, touch the keys, and listen to the sound. If you want to receive a dozen roses, actually smell the fragrance and touch their velvety petals.
Since that time, scarcely a week has passed during seven whole years, without his hearing from me a repetition of the part I played in that manifestation, together with ample descriptions of all the phenomena in Spaceland, and the arguments for the existence of Solid things derivable from Analogy.
Don’t be one of those people that see public displays of affection or people blissfully in love and allow it to activate your crabby/skeptical mind. You can only attract success when you are genuinely happy for others and their success. Allow yourself to be energized by the love that others share and affirm to yourself that your time is on its way very soon.
You can probably already see how this applies to relationships. How many desperate people do you see in good relationships? What did focusing on their own lack and loneliness and emptiness do for them? Are other people attracted to them?
7) Enjoy the time that you’re single. One day you’ll look back upon these days and you’ll cherish them. Live it up! Enjoy sleeping alone, the pleasure of doing what you want and when you want it, of spending your money on yourself and, most importantly, being grateful for where you are RIGHT now on your journey.
Now, suppose that you begin to get clear about the kind of person that your soulmate is. And you decide he or she is Abundant, Affectionate, Ambitious, Beautiful, Caring, Charismatic, Considerate, Creative, and so forth. Now, imagine that this person – who possess all of these wonderful qualities – was simultaneously looking back at you and secretly seeing you the way that you are right now, do you think that they would be proud of what they were seeing? Would they be interested in hanging out with you, in dating you? Chances are, the answer is no.
Once I reprogrammed the unconscious beliefs that were keeping me in the same attraction pattern and reprogrammed them, He walked into my life exactly as I had scripted it. Now me and my children are graced with the presence of an amazing man who lifts us up and loves us all unconditionally.
Look in the mirror and appreciate what you see. Be thankful for your life. How can you really love somebody, if you do not love yourself, if you think lowly of your appearance, qualities and abilities? Accept yourself the way you are and learn to love yourself – our spiritual DNA is PERFECT!
Having conversations or writing letters isn’t crazy. It’s actually just a powerful visualization exercise. It’s envisioning yourself in that happy fictional future and it’s by far one of the best ways I’ve found to feel those loving feelings before the event actually happens.
The Law of Attraction means putting your attention squarely on where you want to go. Forget the fact that you’re not there yet. Don’t let the problems you encountered along the way linger in your mind. Keep your gaze on the target, like you’re already there, and move forward.
For example, if you dreamed that you were being chased by an ominous creature through the dark streets of a strange city, that would be the manifest content of the dream. What that dream might actually mean, or the interpretation of its symbolic meaning, would be considered the latent content.
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Finally, make the final decision what this person is like, and decide that from now on, you’ll do everything you can to be with this wonderful soul mate of yours. It all starts without a decision – without it, you’re lost in life and you’ll give up on the first obstacle! But once you make a firm decision that YES, this is what I want and I am going to GET IT, then you set the most powerful forces in the Universe to do your bidding – even though you’re not aware of what you’re actually doing!
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For the next several nights I tried to pray, but didn’t really know what I was asking for nor did I feel much gratitude. Yes, I wanted to go to someplace “better” and of course I wanted to be happier, but what did that look like? I soon realized the first step in escaping my uninteresting, midwestern existence was having enough money to facilitate leaving. The sure-fire thing to ask for, I thought, was abundance. So at 4:30 AM on one desperate morning I searched my iPhone for abundance prayers. I found one within seconds, tucked away in some cluttered and clunky forum long forgotten by its original moderators.
Once you have that ideal image in your mind, replay it over and over, until one day you will find yourself actually living it. The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can transform your love life.
Seriously – as counter-intuitive as it seems, don’t think about the stuff. Focus instead on the end result of the money: visualize yourself not with “a” roof over your head, but “the roof you want.” Visualize yourself not with the basic necessities (or that’s all you’ll ever attract) but in the IDEAL situation. Be open to opportunities and ACT on them immediately! The less you think about money and the more you focus on the things and experiences and situations you want, the more you’ll detach from money and then it will come quite easily to you (as you act on those inspired opportunities).
So, that’s why I’ve included in The Effective Positive Thinking silent subliminal affirmations that directly target a lot of the “poverty-mindedness of society beliefs” we unconsciously absorb.
This book also includes 250 affirmations for manifesting love and it includes a number of detailed visualization scripts and success stories that will inspire you to use your imagination to create the life of your dreams!
You don’t have to go out on dates with people you’re not interested in, nor try to do something that goes against your own values. Notice what things or people you are consciously or unconsciously drawn to. You might be lead into amazing, rewarding, or at the very least a growing experience! Be willing to trust that inner voice and be open to the mystery that comes from there.
I’m so on a roll right now…LOVE IT! Took my little guy to another appointment today. Although I brought snacks with me, I did’t eat them. I was too busy carrying little man in his car seat and wishing I had brought his stroller instead. I was so hungry! I kept thinking about other snacks but I had no money. I would walk by a little stand and think about what I could get from there if I had some change on me.
Step 2 is important because it brings awareness of our thoughts and feelings. The only effective method for combating fears and doubts is to become aware of them, acknowledge them and approach them with love and compassion.
3) Follow your heart. If there’s something you feel inspired to do, do it. If there’s something you don’t want to do, don’t do it. You don’t have to kiss 100 frogs; you don’t have to go out to meet people, go on online dating sites, or do anything that does not feel right. If you are the kind of person who likes to stay at home, your soulmate could literally have a crash on your yard! It’s happened before. Only do what you want to do and feels right!
I wrote these principles for myself back then when I was living in China and they’ve always worked miracles. I’ve been experiencing such an odd and absurd situations that it was more than clear that I’ve created them as the probability of these events happening was pretty close to zero.
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Instead of staring into the void of your loneliness and hoping someone will show up, the best way to manifest a relationship with a good partner is to fill that void yourself first. Happy, self-sufficient people are attracted to the same kind of people after all.
The results were clear: during the month of meditation, crime dropped by 25%, definitively and scientifically proving that the positive thoughts of a group of people can affect and change the behavior of ill-intentioned individuals.
Vision boards are ‘visual representations’ of how we want our life to be, expand, transform etc. A little bit like a collage you may have made at school but of course a totally different energy to what you were doing back then. Although a vision board is a ‘spiritual tool’ for manifesting a life you want!