#4 Take moments to connect to and visualize what you really want to experience. What kind of partner do you want to have in your life? What is it that you want to feel while in your relationship? Whatever it is that you want to experience, close your eyes and take the time visualize it in your mind’s eye for short periods of time throughout your day.
Because you’ve now set a firm intention to manifest your soulmate, and you’re now on your way to welcoming him or her into your heart, it is very important that you continue to trust this process and always remember that nothing, absolutely nothing can keep your soulmate away from you.
Approaching your fears and doubts with love and compassion is very difficult. Negative emotions are quite overpowering and limiting, and as a result, are hard to feel a lot of love for. Have patience with yourself and try out a loving kindness meditation.
To suddenly feel beautiful, light and vital when you most of your life you’ve been overweight and felt unattractive, heavy and sluggish, is extremely challenging for most people. And, if you’ve lived from paycheck to paycheck most of your life, it is almost impossible to believe you are abundant, happy and free.
So what does that tell you? Well, when I asked myself the same question years ago before I started doing this work, what I realized was that in order for me to attract and manifest my Soulmate, I must somehow develop and grow myself into the kind of person that I myself want to be with. In other words, if you haven’t found the right person it’s probably because you are not being the right person! As Marianne Williamson says, “We must become the person we want to attract.”
Don’t worry about whether or not he/she is interested in you or out with someone else. When you do so, you’re observing the absence of the love relationship. You’re so aware of your current relationship and lack thereof, that you’re keeping yourself separate from the relationship you do want.
If you have been using the Law of Attraction to manifest love in your life, and you’ve visualized the perfect partner for yourself, you’ve come a long way toward being successful with the act of manifesting a lifetime of happiness and contentment within a committed relationship.
Much of Freud’s psychoanalytic theory centered on helping people bring these hidden, unconscious thoughts and feelings into awareness. Freud believed that the latent content of dreams is suppressed and hidden by the subconscious mind to protect the individual from thoughts and feelings that are hard to cope with. While the mind hides these feelings in the unconscious and subconscious mind, such thoughts, fears, and desires still have a way of influencing conscious thoughts and behaviors.
Although this might sound ridiculous at first, it’s a bit like the visualization tip above. It helps you really tune into the reality of money and send out more effective, coherent signals to the Universe about what you want.
It’s not enough to wish. The Law of Attraction is not magic, it’s just a way to train your subconscious mind; you must still take action to reach your goal. You are the one who must change before you circumstances do. The road to what desire is through personal transformation. If this means that you have to learn a whole new style of relating to people to have the relationship that you want, then so be it.
It’s really that simple when a person has true faith in something! Consider what faith has done for some great visionaries throughout the history. Let’s start with Jesus. The most fundamental characteristic of the Christianity and almost every other religion is having “Faith”. All the miracles of Jesus were nothing else but the power of “Super-strong and Unwavering Faith”!
In noveldom woman still sets the moral standard, and to her the males, who are in full revolt against the acceptance of the infatuation of a pair of lovers as the highest manifestation of the social instinct, and against the restriction of the affections within the narrow circle of blood relationship, and of the political sympathies within frontiers, are to her what she calls heartless brutes.
Becoming Magic is book one of a complete course in becoming creator of your own exceptional life. In this book, I outline the exact steps which enabled me to move my own life from one of poverty and drudgery, to one of previously unimaginable wealth, purpose and joy. But Magic? I do hope you are joking! That’s what I would have said, five or ten years ago. I once despised all things ‘New-Age’; all these spiritual types and their airy-fairy views, their bad science and their irrational beliefs.
I used to believe there were no good men left and that I was doomed to be a single mother without a partner for the rest of my life. I had taken all the soulmate courses I could get my hands on and I still couldn’t figure out where my Mr. Right was, if he even existed.
“Manifest the Life of Your Dreams” Seminar: This course will teach you how to release old traumas and blocks, so your energy flows and you feel that you are “High on Life” or in a zone. EFT or the Tapping Technique has shown results that are often seen in a very short time, even with traumas or pain that have resisted years of therapy or energy work. Simply put, this technique has the potential to revolutionize the way that we can achieve unlimited growth.
Obviously your senses pick up a lot as you go about your day, but you only notice a puny fraction of all that input. In order to manifest money, you need to tune your senses to bring to your attention useful input that you’ve been subconsciously dismissing as irrelevant background noise. This tuning process takes some time, but you can definitely do it.
Here’s an exercise: Whenever you’re experience negative thoughts and emotions, take a VERY DEEP BREATH and imagine good positive emotions filling your entire being. On the exhale, imagine how all negative thoughts and emotions are going out along with the air you exhale. This is a very powerful technique!
According to the Law of Attraction, you attract what you are sending out. To attract more of what you want, you have to raise your vibration. Vibrations are like little radio signals you are continuously sending out to the universe. You must tune your signal to a vibration worthy of receiving it (read: stay positive and thankful).
That being said, if you are not completely sure as to what kind of partner you’d like or how you’d want to feel, this simple meditation can certainly do the trick: Close your eyes and take deep breaths. In your mind’s eye visualize your partner or your future partner and yourself. Visualize this person coming from a distance as a bright being of light. As this person comes closer to you, you recognize that you yourself are a strong being of bright light as well. When this person comes close to you you realize that you are both two whole beings. Complete in yourselves and equal to one another. There is a mutual sense of balance, love, and light between the two of you.
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People who accomplish great goals are fierce. They set their sights on something and move toward it, no matter what. They fall; they get back up.They keep moving forward. This mentality is important if you want to make changes in relationships, too.
In this article, I will share with you a step-by-step process I put together for myself several years ago when I made the decision to open my heart and welcome love into my life. In my opinion, these steps make up what I believe is the most comprehensive, practical, spiritually based ‘how to’ advice on how to Manifest Love using the Law of Attraction and the Intelligence of your Heart.
It’s not just about “loving yourself” on the surface. It’s about having CORE beliefs aligned with the truth of who you are. A beautiful Soul that is a gift to this world. Most times we don’t truly allow ourselves to know this truth, out of fear, traumas, and early conditioning, and so our untruth shows up in our relationships.
When you know your highest self, you are on your way to becoming a co-creator of your entire world, learning to manage the circumstances of your life and participating with assurance in the act of creation. You literally become a manifester.
Displacement involves replacing one thing with something else. In a dream, you might find yourself irrationally upset with a relatively trivial or seemingly harmless object or person. Freud would suggest that this object is simply a stand-in for the thing that is truly bothering you.
These last few minutes before you sleep, the time where you are in between being awake and asleep, it is the most important time for you to focus on the positive and focus on what you want in your life. Your subconscious mind will take this information and use it for the next 8 hours of sleep. You will be focusing your powerful subconscious on finding ways to attract the perfect loving relationship for you.
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