You CAN and WILL find someone that’s a better match. Have you been told limiting things like, “You will never find anyone better than that”, or “Most people would kill for a partner like the one you have/had already”?
Don’t wait for love to find you in order to start living. You will attract what you are: if you are a couch potato, you will attract a coach potato. If you desire a mate who is active, goes skiing and likes to read, you better start jogging, getting on the slopes and hanging out in Barnes & Noble.
According to the psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud, the manifest content of a dream includes the actual images, thoughts, and content contained within the dream. The manifest content is the elements of the dream that you remember upon awakening.
Know it’s going to happen. You have to come to the decision that you won’t take “no” for an answer. You have to recognize that your deep desire for a loving partner is proof that you are not meant to be alone. You have to feel in your bones that you are meant for true love and stand in that knowing no matter what the outside world shows you.
I have developed several powerful techniques that can be used to do exactly that. For example, the Financial Faucet, that teaches you to love money (without thinking it’s evil) and the Positivity Autopilot program which melts away negative programming about money like an ice cube in the sun.
But here’s an interesting point for you before we go any further: the starting point of all creation, the starting point of any change that you wish to manifest, is to picture your desired outcome in your mind.
Money comes to you through the filters of your beliefs, but you don’t have to change your beliefs radically. You just have to open enough of a portal in your beliefs to allow different sums to come to you.
At this point, you may still remain unconvinced that this universal principle — which attracts like to like — still seems interwoven in magic and, therefore, unreal. Perhaps it’s because we’re talking about intangible concepts like thoughts and feelings. At least with gravity, an apple thrown up into the air falls onto the ground. You may not understand it, but you can visibly and immediately experience the effects.
Your job this step is to pray for guidance to clear all that blocks you from believing in your greatness. Then allow the universe to help guide you to whatever assignments you need to aid in the healing process. Show up for the assignments, and trust that the more you clean your thoughts and energy, the more positive experiences you will attract into your life.
Now on each line list those things that you already have brought into being: your relationship, your children, your marriage, your successes… And, if you care to, the failures you have created in your life through the decisions and choices you’ve made.
Eventually, the world always becomes “as you see it.” As you treat yourself for seeing the world anew, and as you start to live in that place, the world will quite literally transform before your eyes.