List all the qualities that you desire and in some way match yours, decide how you want to be treated, and what kind of person will bring out the best in you. You are not magically showering these qualities on a person, but you are actually looking for a relationship based on mutual understanding and an exciting, loving life journey. Write down on a piece of paper or in a journal the qualities of that person.
Remember that you are meant to have love in your life. You are meant to have your needs met. You are meant to have a healthy mind, body, and spirit. The natural is that you will contribute to life, to be happy, and finish any unfinished business before you reach the time when you step through the threshold of light and return home.
As I mentioned earlier, the process of spiritual growth and development is one of releasing and letting go of old ways of being, and embracing the new aspects of ourselves that are wanting to emerge. And welcoming your Soulmate into your life, as an expression of this growth, requires that you now begin by clearing the decks. This means beginning to remove all of the obstacles that are stopping, hindering, delaying or even distracting you from having the relationship that you truly want to have. How? By your heart, De-Cluttering your Mind, Releasing the past, and Making Room for Love.
While sitting in a circle, you will visualize the power of the mothers, daughters, sisters, wives, grandmothers, lovers and friends. You will connect with the cycles of nature and the moon to remember our inner wisdom.
2) To attract love, be loving. If you are seeking your one special soul-mate, be patient. The universe will send you the perfect person, but it might take a little time. In the meantime, tune into the vibration of love by sending loving energy to the world – performing small acts of kindness and compassion to friends, family, strangers and pets. The love you send out will come back to you.
This list is about you. It’s about what you are bringing to the relationship. Here you want to list the unique gifts that you will be sharing with your soulmate who, in turn, will nurture and support them.
But conscious creators know that we can have whatever we are willing to learn the vibration of. We don’t have to figure out how or make it happen – all we have to do is offer the vibrational instruction of whatever we want. And then it must become so.
We often associate blame and fault to negative situations. It is the burning desire in us to assign a reason for everything. It also reaffirms our fears, doubts and insecurities. The Law of Attraction doesn’t mean that you are solely responsible for every little thing that happens to you. It simply means that ‘like’ attracts ‘like.’
This means not talking about ‘him or her’ as much and perhaps getting rid of old love letters or emails that keep you stuck in the past. It’s time to pave the way for a new person to step forward. They can’t arrive when you’re still pining over someone else.
STEP #3 (3:24) Now, write down a list of everything you would want your ideal relationship to be like. You can write things like, “we make each other laugh. We have common interests. He exposes me to new experiences. She loves my mother. We are affectionate. We are honest and loyal.” Keep writing that list for as long as it feels good, and as long as you follow the rules step by step, you are in the process of creating.
You will feel like this is working. You also will start to receive guidance from unexpected sources telling you to do something or go somewhere. Stay on the lookout for unusual coincidences and new opportunities that may come into your life. Be open to new possibilities.
“In the past, in the midst of some-sort-of relationship struggle (or struggle with the lack of a relationship) I would always look at the outside circumstances and try to analyze what I was doing wrong. Now, as soon as a struggle or challenge comes up for me, I’m learning to go inside first to see how I’m feeling about me. And almost magically (although it’s not always easy), it affects the outside situation. This has changed everything.”