When you attempt to manifest from a place of selfishness or potential harm to anyone else, you invoke the ego. The ego is always about winning, overpowering, being better than others, accumulating for the sake of feeling superior, achieving adulation or recognition, improving your status, and so on. So the secret is to feel yourself as already being and having what your desire, and to keep the entirety of it all wrapped up in a spirit of love. Always weigh your choices on the scales of love.
Has your man gotten complacent with you? Are you tired of chasing cheap losers that won’t commit? Are you dating emotionally unavailable men? Do guys break up with you? Or do you simply want to learn how to get a boyfriend? What if I show you how to attract a man with 5 lethal steps? 5 simple steps that will make him commit and beg to be your boyfriend? Relationship advice that you can start tonight and see results in the morning.
People who accomplish great goals are fierce. They set their sights on something and move toward it, no matter what. They fall; they get back up.They keep moving forward. This mentality is important if you want to make changes in relationships, too.
Some of you will notice that at the most parts, these steps are included in Think & Grow Rich from Napoleon Hill, and that’s true. I sincerely recommend them here, because they are so vital for your success.
Another cool manifestation happened! I’ve been playing phone tag with the owner of this company I felt I really wanted to work for. Since I’m a new mom, I decided that its best for me to stay home with my little guy for a while but I need an income.
Does your current career path stand in the way of building a deeply passionate and romantic long-term relationship? If that kind relationship feels authentic to what you want, you may need to reconsider your career. At the very least, you may need to look into reducing the hours you work.
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What is admired now is a person who seems to know a lot of stuff, a person who makes sense when they talk, someone successful in their own field, a person with a purpose in life, some who can listen and understand others, show compassion and GIVE before trying to TAKE.
When you are present and not thinking about that life situation that is causing you struggle and heartache, you stop mentally generating thoughts about it. When this happens, you no longer bring past or future to your present moment, and, you are then able to feel peace and joy.
When you’re flat broke and don’t know where you’re going to get the money to pay the bills…when the creditors keep calling…when you don’t know if you’re going to lose the roof over your head or the shirt on your back…you need to manifest money today.
But when you aren’t present and are in your mind, you’re thinking about what went wrong in your past and how long you’ve been wishing for what you want to manifest. You’re also hoping your future will be different and fearing that you wish will never come true.
Don’t be one of those people that see public displays of affection or people blissfully in love and allow it to activate your crabby/skeptical mind. You can only attract success when you are genuinely happy for others and their success. Allow yourself to be energized by the love that others share and affirm to yourself that your time is on its way very soon.
I’m so on a roll right now…LOVE IT! Took my little guy to another appointment today. Although I brought snacks with me, I did’t eat them. I was too busy carrying little man in his car seat and wishing I had brought his stroller instead. I was so hungry! I kept thinking about other snacks but I had no money. I would walk by a little stand and think about what I could get from there if I had some change on me.
If you’ve read that book, you’ll know that in the chapter on relationships it explains that in order to attract someone who likes you, first of all you have to like yourself. This is very important, because if you don’t like yourself, you’ll be sending out the wrong kind of vibes (vibrations) to a potential partner.
I learnt this one from ‘The Game of Life and How to Play It’ where Florence Scovel Shinn writes about the importance of demonstrating something called ‘active faith’. It’s where you create space for whatever it is that you wish to welcome in your life. By creating space in your bedroom for your lover you are letting the Universe know that you’re ready. You can do this by just sleeping on one side of the bed, making drawer space available for his or her clothes.
Henry David Thoreau said: “[You] will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” Thoreau suggests that the universe will begin to conspire with you to fulfill your wishes. This is the law of co-creation.