If you don’t have clarity on what you do want, you’ll likely end up repeating the same relationships with the same personalities and the same faults. What do you miss most about your past partners? Surely there were some traits you found attractive, take those bits from each person and put them together. And don’t forget to read my previous article about preparing yourself for your next relationship along the way!
This can be really hard in our society because we’re programmed to complain about what is wrong with our lives. Often, we may not even realize that solutions exist for our problems, and we might just accept them as a fact of life.
Do you feel that the person you’ve been with is already very close to what you want, but not quite “The One”? I understand that other people may be telling you to stop seeking “perfection”. You may even be judging yourself.
The key is having clarity, and knowing what it is that you want. Why? So that you can identify it when you see it, feel it and hear it, and – most importantly – so that you won’t be sidetracked into a relationship with a person who is not the highest possibility for you. A person who is not your soulmate. Remember, there’s no need to settle for less than what you want. It’s like going to a supermarket without a grocery list when you’re feeling very hungry. If you’re anything like me, you may have bought a whole bunch of stuff you did not need, but may have forgotten to buy something as basic as milk and sugar, which you really needed.
One of the most common things people want to manifest is money. This is understandable. After all, money does make the world go ‘round. And, with this shift towards spiritual growth, being an entrepreneur, online businesses and getting away from the 9–5 because of how unhealthy and all-consumingit can be, money is a huge focus.
When you imagine your partner, make it as real as you can in your mind. Imagine yourself walking up to this person and starting a conversations. Rehearse it many times in your mind so that when the time comes to make the connection, you will be prepared.
Please make a note of the underlying rule of the game that if you need to attract something in your life then you have to have high level of belief that you can manifest it, or you can achieve your goal.
Arielle Ford is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a love and relationship expert, and the author of 10 books including her newest, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate (Harper One). Buy it now and receive many amazing bonuses, including a free 5-part video series featuring Iyanla Van Zant, Dr. John Gray. Dr. Pepper Schwartz Dr. Laura Berman and Drs. Gay and Katy Hendricks.
Many people learn about the law of attraction and then focus on what they want their desired manifestation to look like, and how it is going to come to them. But this approach never works because it’s not on the feeling of what the desired manifestation will bring them. And capturing the feeling is everything!
With all of this differentiation comes a wide-ranging approach to one common theme that binds us all: money. Money, in fact, is simply a story. It’s the most successful story that humanity has ever created. Beyond the invention of language, which enabled communication, money has enabled commerce, and has moved us beyond merely bartering for, and exchanging goods and services as we once solely did ages ago.
If you approach money like a power source of its own, then by trying to manifest it, you’re really trying to overpower it, and in such a contest you’ll usually lose. That contest, however, is completely internal — and pretty much insane. It’s like trying to arm wrestle yourself. How can you win? It’s a false reality you’re projecting because you aren’t ready to fully wield your own power yet.
Finally, start every day by tuning into your heart. Visualize being with the one you love, and let a warm, golden glow fill your chest. This is the energy that will propel you through the day on exactly the right frequency to attract love.
Below are my five key principles for genuine manifesting. When practicing these steps, make sure to stay committed to the goal of feeling good first and attracting stuff second. Continue to remind yourself that when you feel good, you energetically attract goodness into your life. When your primary function is to be happy, then whatever comes to you is irrelevant. Happiness is your true manifestation.
I️ meet this man 4 years ago and as soon as I️ saw him a still voice said you will marry him one day. He had gotten married last October but the wife ask for a divorce three weeks after and they have filed for divorce and He and I started txt n and talking in April and grew closer the last 7 months and I️ thought things was going good but after he had gotten sick a month ago and spent 6 days in the hospital he ended it outta the blue . It really sent me for a loop we had talked about the future and made plans and I’ve tried giving him his space because I know he loves me and I’m trying to stay positive that when he gets his head clear he will come back … but all my positive thinking is fading … any advice of what to do ?
An even stronger vibe is to generate feelings of playfulness and excitement. This is a great vibe for manifesting money. In the next section, I’ll share a story to illustrate how I do this with my daughter.
Now it’s important to note that I wasn’t exactly financially prosperous at the time. I’d been going through some challenges and “learning experiences” regarding money. And through it all, I learned something really important: Money is simply energy. It comes, it goes, it ebbs, it flows. So like a river that flows, I decided to let go, surrender, and trust that the Universe was going to take care of me. And miracles happened. Everything I needed began to show up just at the right time. I was manifesting things, people, and experiences into my life.