Arielle: I believe a soul mate is someone we feel a deep and profound connection to. Someone with whom we feel completely ourselves with. Someone that we love unconditionally and they love us unconditionally. And when we look into their eyes we feel like we are “home.”
Below are my five key principles for genuine manifesting. When practicing these steps, make sure to stay committed to the goal of feeling good first and attracting stuff second. Continue to remind yourself that when you feel good, you energetically attract goodness into your life. When your primary function is to be happy, then whatever comes to you is irrelevant. Happiness is your true manifestation.
We are always manifesting. Each thought we have creates an energy flow within and around our physical beings. This energy attracts its likeness. So if you’re thinking, “I suck,” then your energy kinda, well, sucks — and you attract sucky experiences.
Stay in touch with who you are. Align yourself to your thoughts, feelings and actions. Stay fully present to who you are and what you would like to achieve. See yourself as one with your goal, and the goal as already achieved. Create the emotion of achievement, and use it to inspire you forwards.
Benedictine monk, author and scholar Brother David Steindl-Rast guides us to the source of lasting joy and the essence of grateful living. He invites listeners to exercise gratefulness as a spiritual practice and a source of well-being that can be embraced every day. He also shares lessons on love, hope and life. Brother David Steindl-Rast says ……
STEP #3 (3:24) Now, write down a list of everything you would want your ideal relationship to be like. You can write things like, “we make each other laugh. We have common interests. He exposes me to new experiences. She loves my mother. We are affectionate. We are honest and loyal.” Keep writing that list for as long as it feels good, and as long as you follow the rules step by step, you are in the process of creating.
The opposite experience occurs when you think high-level thoughts like, “I rock!” When you think and feel, “I rock,” you exude an energy of confidence and in turn attract great experiences into your life. Each thought you have informs your energy, and your energy manifests into your experiences. Your thoughts and energy create your reality.
Having just started to read about the law of attraction, I realized that I was already putting some of the practices to use. I just finished reading the Secret and this book is pretty much the same thing but more focused on love. By reading these books I realized that I originally attracted my love because I was shearing emiting love and radiance. I was in a great place and felt very confident. As the relationship grew, we allowed negativity in and I quickly lost focus on the positive as did he and then poof, it was gone. I was devastated because I know this is my soul mate and even though I have this gut feeling we WILL get back together, I was left with my head spinning. This book really helped put things into perspective and has made me realize, I need to get back to that old me. The woman that was already confident, joyful, loving and radiant. I am confident that I will attract my ideal relationship back, whether with its with my ex or someone better. This is a great book to read to shift the focus back on to YOU.
I was once asking myself these questions… I had a downswing in my romantic life and for a longer period (few years…) I was literally repelled towards women. That happened after my heart was broken and I was really lost – I didn’t know what to do. However, there was one very important thing that was probably the #1 reason why today I’m living the life of my dreams when it comes to my romantic relationships – and that is – I NEVER for a second lost my hope and belief that true love indeed exists and that I WILL find my soul mate!
And Katy, I’m glad you appreciated the how to part. I think it would have been misleading if I hadn’t included the steps on my first attempt, since that definitely helped me get lined up, and I think it’s good for everyone to know that sometimes it takes a couple approaches before we strike gold.
If exercising your imagination feels difficult to do, perhaps due to a life where the imagination has played servant to your logical faculties, be infinitely patient with your attempts at imagining your wish fulfilled. Cultivate infinite patience with yourself, never being dissatisfied with the speed or the manner in which your intentions are manifesting.
Here’s an excerpt from the journal that I used to manifest my boyfriend to give you some inspiration. (And I should say that every single one of these lines describes our relationship exactly how it is today. This shit works people. I promise.)
This means not talking about ‘him or her’ as much and perhaps getting rid of old love letters or emails that keep you stuck in the past. It’s time to pave the way for a new person to step forward. They can’t arrive when you’re still pining over someone else.
It is a journey of ‘working on yourself’ so that you can arrive at a place of deeper intimacy as you open your heart, and share your unique gifts with your One. It is, in essence, a journey of transformation and growth where you become One – in consciousness – with the Love that you want to attract. Along this journey, you will find a new loving relationship with the person that you are becoming.
Freud might suggest that you are using a psychological strategy known as a projection to disguise your true feelings about the new co-worker. This defense mechanism involves projecting your feelings onto someone else. The reality is that you deeply dislike the new co-worker, but you realize that these feelings are not shared by your officemates and would be deemed socially unacceptable.
Because you’ve now set a firm intention to manifest your soulmate, and you’re now on your way to welcoming him or her into your heart, it is very important that you continue to trust this process and always remember that nothing, absolutely nothing can keep your soulmate away from you.
Of course, if you don’t follow these steps EXACTLY how I tell you, you can forget about it — you’ll never get anything. kidding, of course!) But seriously, go within and ask your inner guidance how you can use these steps to assist yourSELF in your own life. Your higher self knows and is happy to assist you!
List all the qualities that you desire and in some way match yours, decide how you want to be treated, and what kind of person will bring out the best in you. You are not magically showering these qualities on a person, but you are actually looking for a relationship based on mutual understanding and an exciting, loving life journey. Write down on a piece of paper or in a journal the qualities of that person.
Listen, you may not fully trust in LOA in every fiber of your being…I don’t know if there is anyone who has truly made that total shift from just getting it in theory. And for this reason, it will be a challenge sometimes to shift your focus; you will get caught up in the crap. You may not always feel great. This is all normal and expected.
In Part 2 of Oprah’s conversation with India.Arie, a member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100, the Grammy winner reveals how she returned to her spiritual roots, regained her energy and rediscovered her true identity. Oprah says, “India’s honesty and openness moves me deeply.”
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This is the time to pamper yourself, to prove how valuable you are and to take the time to do something special for yourself. Maybe you have always wanted to stay at a beachfront hotel, get a massage or a pedicure, learn a new language, rent a particular movie, or have a gourmet dinner served in your home. No matter how big or small, the time to fulfill your desires is now.
The number one reason the law of attraction doesn’t appear to work is that people give up before their wish is granted. It’s like ordering a delicious meal and walking out of the diner before your order arrives. The order is on its way, but if you are no longer in alignment with it, you will miss out.
The only people who can accurately define what a soulmate is, are those people who have found their One. And what all these people have in common is the conviction that the person they’re with, for whatever reason, is the one that they are meant to be with.
Secondly, it’s critical to realize that your beliefs literally create the world you live in. So do you want to live in a world where no one can commit or great partners are scarce? If not, then it’s time to stop thinking and saying those very things! Remember that a handful of lacklustre dating experiences are not a good barometer for the entire population. Take a deep breath and try to have a little perspective about yourself and the dating experience as a whole.
You must be crystal clean and super specific. ‘Find happiness’, or ‘find love’ and not specific enough. Try something like, ‘to remember that I am love and to feel that within myself daily’. Or ‘to wake up feeling inner happiness and peace daily’.
If you’re single, you may be asking yourself: What do I need to do to a new romantic partner this year? On the other hand, if you’re already in a relationship, you may be asking yourself: What can I do to deepen my relationship in a way so that I can experience more love?