To suddenly feel beautiful, light and vital when you most of your life you’ve been overweight and felt unattractive, heavy and sluggish, is extremely challenging for most people. And, if you’ve lived from paycheck to paycheck most of your life, it is almost impossible to believe you are abundant, happy and free.
Affirm your belief in your soulmate. While you’ve already worked hard to combat limiting beliefs and create a clear image of the person you want to be with, you make it easier for the Universe to send that person your way if you constantly stay connected to your belief that they exist. Try daily affirmations (written or spoken) like “I am looking for love, and my soulmate is on their way to me” or “Nothing will stop me from receiving the love of my soulmate.”
Addressing your fears and doubts is important, but after a brief acknowledgement, replace those fears and doubts with appreciation and gratitude. These new, positive feelings change your perspective and expectations, opening up to the possibility that more great things are on your horizon.
Once I reprogrammed the unconscious beliefs that were keeping me in the same attraction pattern and reprogrammed them, He walked into my life exactly as I had scripted it. Now me and my children are graced with the presence of an amazing man who lifts us up and loves us all unconditionally.
Everybody deserves to be loved, that’s our birthright. However, this step at the very least, will boost your self-confidence and your self-esteem, which is always welcomed and cannot hurt you in any way, it can only help you.
While the complexities of life after billions of years of evolution have created a diverse set of organisms here on earth, we still all stem from the same, single source, which can be traced back not only to the very beginnings of the earth’s existence, but also to the start of the universe itself, and time as we now know it today.
A lot of what closes us off to connections is being overly judgmental of the people who show up in our lives. Having a strict “must have” list a mile long for our prospective partner is often just a form of self-sabotage.
We are always manifesting. Each thought we have creates an energy flow within and around our physical beings. This energy attracts its likeness. So if you’re thinking, “I suck,” then your energy kinda, well, sucks — and you attract sucky experiences.
Arielle Ford is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of She is a love and relationship expert, and the author of 10 books including her newest, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate (Harper One). Buy it now and receive many amazing bonuses, including a free 5-part video series featuring Iyanla Van Zant, Dr. John Gray. Dr. Pepper Schwartz Dr. Laura Berman and Drs. Gay and Katy Hendricks.
I recently just downloaded ‘The Glow Kitchen which I LOVE! The slow cooked lamb is my favourite! Just wondering if you can recommend any other recipe books or websites where you draw inspiration from for cooking? I struggle with finding good recipes and I have leaky gut so am limited to what I can and cannot eat!
Thank you so much for your kind words Nina. You can order it from where ever you wish darling, it’s totally up to you. There are two versions, the Aussie version, and the US version. The Aussie version has pretty photos all the way through it and the US version doesn’t which makes it cheaper. Make sure you get your desired version 😉
As I mentioned earlier, the process of spiritual growth and development is one of releasing and letting go of old ways of being, and embracing the new aspects of ourselves that are wanting to emerge. And welcoming your Soulmate into your life, as an expression of this growth, requires that you now begin by clearing the decks. This means beginning to remove all of the obstacles that are stopping, hindering, delaying or even distracting you from having the relationship that you truly want to have. How? By Healing your heart, De-Cluttering your Mind, Releasing the past, and Making Room for Love.
It is merely not sufficient to know exactly what you want and to wish for it. It is like calling a fine dining restaurant and just telling them to book a table for you. You have to tell the restaurant clerk that you need a table for 2 for the specific day (say tomorrow) for dinner at 7.30 pm and you want this table to be near the window so that you can have the view of the city.
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