Approaching your fears and doubts with love and compassion is very difficult. Negative emotions are quite overpowering and limiting, and as a result, are hard to feel a lot of love for. Have patience with yourself and try out a loving kindness meditation.
The most recent amazing thing occurred in this last year. Five years ago, soon after the market crash, we decided to sell our house and move closer to family. At that time, we took a trip to the area where we wanted to live and looked around. On our map book, we highlighted our driving route and circled areas that we liked, and we wrote a few notes to remind us of what we liked.
You’ve unconsciously shut down. After being hurt and disappointed, a part of you may be trying to protect your heart from future pain. Unfortunately, this also shuts you off from the potential to find love as well.
Also, pay attention to your surroundings, do they reflect what you want? Take a look around yourself, are you in a place that helps to reinforce your thoughts and beliefs? Remember, this is all about you!
Just like the good old tracks that the sled follows down the mountain. And so we tell the same old story, over and over, about why we have our childhood wounds, and about how bad our previous relationship was, how we got dumped, how we’re not being loved the way we want to be, how unequal this relationship is, how we have these abandonment issues, how they cheated on us, how we’re too old to find love, too fat, too skinny, too white, too black, too gay, too straight, too poor, too rich, too unstable, too unreliable, afraid of commitment, too demanding… Blah, blah, blah. PLEASE STOP! The more you tell the same old story, the more you’re perpetuating it in your experience and the more you’re blocking love from coming into your life. Why? Because you keep focusing on it.
Remind yourself of times like these to help you let go when you are working with your new dreams. Paradoxically, if you can make it ok for your dream not to come true, it will come true. Surrender your vision to the universe and then get back to living your life.
Henry David Thoreau said: “[You] will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” Thoreau suggests that the universe will begin to conspire with you to fulfill your wishes. This is the law of co-creation.
See how that captures all the qualities you were looking for and turned them into feelings? Focusing on and imagining the feeling of the relationship gives the universe a little more creative freedom to give you a man that will fit that description perfectly for you. Don’t limit yourself to one “type” or “look” when what you are really after is a feeling.
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You already have everything that you need for manifesting money, wealth and abundance in your life. All you have to do is train your mind to think abundantly and create a wealthy self-image that will be your core vibration.
But before we look to the year ahead and start setting heart-centered goals and manifesting for the future, it’s imperative to begin by looking behind us. Reflection is a super-important piece of the puzzle because it allows us to re-align, tune in and ponder on our truth… so let’s get to it!
I just a got a check for $11 out of the blue. We have no idea who sent it. The company as vague as can get and there is no other letter attached.But I am celebrating that $11 like no one’s business. Thank you.
During these eight weeks, you are given exercises and suggestions that shift your energy little by little while building momentum over the course of the eight weeks to change the trajectory of your financial future.
Some people in therapy believe that they are a product of everything that has happened to them. This is called an external locus of control because these people believe they are not in control of their lives. The goal of therapy is for patients to realize that they actually have an internal locus of control.
For most, many things don’t come easily, and some things seem well-nigh impossible. We are always attracting into our lives what we need for our spiritual growth. The game of life requires stealth, wisdom and staying power. Ultimately it is our habits define our destiny. To develop a soul with stamina requires focus, dedication, and never giving up!
You’re not just close to having abundance in all areas of your life: you’re already there. In fact, the things you desire most – love, prosperity and health, are part of your natural state of being. When you accept that YOU ARE love, prosperity and health with all of your heart, you will behave in a way that allows them to flow into your life.
Hi Toni! Tough question! Focus on holding that feeling of love in your heart. (Because it always starts inside of you, not with the other person!) Then keep on striving to become the kind of person you think you’d be if you were still in that relationship. (It’s all about attracting them back, not chasing them down!) But of course, we can only ever control our own energy and vibration (not the other person) so just focus on doing what you can! Good luck! 💜