3. You’ve opened up your heart, and now you need to open up your life. While it’s just as important to make the inner you open to receiving love, now you need to take steps toward making the outer you receptive to love.
What really matters is the understanding of consciousness. We are yet to solve the mystery of consciousness and past life therapy can unravel deeper layers of the subconscious mind. The therapy is a technique to help us move to the bottom of the ice berg.
For the next several nights I tried to pray, but didn’t really know what I was asking for nor did I feel much gratitude. Yes, I wanted to go someplace “better” and of course I wanted to be happier, but what did that look like? I soon realized the first step in escaping my uninteresting, midwestern existence was having enough money to facilitate leaving. The sure-fire thing to ask for, I thought, was abundance. So at 4:30 AM on one desperate morning I searched my iPhone for abundance prayers. I found one within seconds, tucked away in some cluttered and clunky forum long forgotten by its original moderators.
The fabulous part about manifesting your soulmate is that you can actually have all those things you crave! Want someone who will treat you with dignity and respect? Done. Is it important to you to find a partner who finds joy in scouring antique shops on Saturdays followed by cider sipping? No problem. Does your ideal partner sign up to run mud-filled obstacle races and would rather sleep on the ground under a tarp than in a 5-Star hotel? It’s a cinch.
Manifest money, abundance, a great career, good fortune, and happy relationships. Direct your amazing mind power. Set your manifestation goals effectively. Attract the right people. And become more successful. You are already good at manifesting, because your thoughts automatically attract what happens to you. So, the big issue with manifestation is the quality of what you attract and how you can achieve it.
Absolute detachment. This step is one where most people stumble. We like to control things in our life because we’re afraid that if we wouldn’t control them then they would not happen. And this is exactly the reason why we need to let them go. If we’re attached to what we want and we obsess about having it NOW then we’re simultaneously saying that we don’t believe that we can have it. Which undermines principle number 4 — creating an unflappable belief. By letting go of when and how, you show that you believe that it is already yours. Because only he who is certain of the outcome can afford to wait.
ENVIRONMENT: In addition to using manifesting money affirmations, another little known trick is to make your desires “physical.” One way to manifest money fast is to use printable fake money as I did when I manifested money in a week. Also, keeping money quotes all around yourself helps your energy figure out how to attract more money.
This is when we begin the search. Most of the times, it is intensively excruciating and disappointing. We may get in relationships that turn out not to be what we expected. We get disappointed and discouraged, and we are deeply mad not only on our partner, but to the whole opposite sex in general. Some people close themselves completely and are not able to attract ANYONE into their love – they become lonely…
5. Be ENERGY efficient – be conscious of your “energy.” Keep in mind that like energy attracts like energy – therefore “what you sow you shall reap.” Feeling the lack of something only attracts more “lack of that something.” On the other hand, deliberately choosing positive feelings and focal points will keep you in alignment with your desires.
Putting your ultimate goal out into the world—even just to acknowledge that you wish it—can itself be a scary proposition if the goal is big enough and crazy enough. We ask ourselves (a la Marianne Williamson and Nelson Mandela), “Who am I to think I can be/do/have this?” This thought and the attendant feelings and associations that come with it are what we first need to tap on.
Remember, you are ‘IT’ for your Soulmate. If you find yourself feeling competitive, or in a situation where someone else got the person you really liked, simply bless that person silently and continue to be confident that your One will not see passed you, and that you get love no matter what!
We had to find a place quickly — you can’t be homeless with two horses and two dogs! Finally, our agent said, “Well, there’s one more home available. It’s more than you wanted to pay, do you want to see it?” We felt we had no choice, so we went to see it. Actually, we had seen it on the Internet but it hadn’t looked appealing. We later found out that their agent had taken terrible photos, which was why it was still on the market.