With this train of thought, you’re undoubtedly going to end up with a partner who carries traits you do not find attractive and the relationship is doomed to fail. You can’t put all of your energy into weeding out the things you find undesirable while ignoring the qualities you find important and then expect to wind up with the love of your life.
Everybody deserves to be loved, that’s our birthright. However, this step at the very least, will boost your self-confidence and your self-esteem, which is always welcomed and cannot hurt you in any way, it can only help you.
He hosts full weekend seminars with thousands of attendees, and he facilitates the entire thing with no script, no PowerPoint presentation and no plan! This allows him to operate from the heart and connect from a heart-based space to facilitate the highest level of transformation in the audience.
Do you want to travel this year? If yes, where do you want to go? Be as specific as possible. For example, I would love to travel to the Greek islands in June 2017 for 3 weeks with my husband to experience all the magic that place has to offer.
Having conversations or writing letters isn’t crazy. It’s actually just a powerful visualization exercise. It’s envisioning yourself in that happy fictional future and it’s by far one of the best ways I’ve found to feel those loving feelings before the event actually happens.
But you DO need to CLEAR your mind of any blocks, get CRYSTAL clear on your goals, infuse every part of your day with positivity, take inspired ACTION and learn to RECEIVE (yes, it’s a learned process – women really struggle with that part).
If you’ve read that book, you’ll know that in the chapter on relationships it explains that in order to attract someone who likes you, first of all you have to like yourself. This is very important, because if you don’t like yourself, you’ll be sending out the wrong kind of vibes (vibrations) to a potential partner.
Money is something that we could all do with more of. It’s a gateway to abundance in every sense of the word. Money which is the energy of love manifest is a good thing and an important aspect of resolving in our lives. If you think you hate money, just get over it or as I have said before give up on it and let me know how it goes.
Of course this is optional step. Some people believe that it works, so why not to try it… I personally have never used Fang in my life, and I’ve still successfully manifested everything that I’ve desired..
However, I know the general frame of mind here is that you can’t manifest money into your life by using the Law of Attraction. Yet, over and over again, people use this precise technique to help them move towards greater financial prosperity. You’ve likely even heard of people “willing” themselves into winning the lottery and receiving other types of windfalls.
The law of attraction is not a magic wand. Because the brain preferentially scans and stores negative experiences, we have to consciously, habitually build the positive mental muscle. We all have layers and layers of stories, limiting beliefs, fears and blocks that have become the interior landscape of our minds and cannot be changed overnight just by thinking positive thoughts.
It’s really important to know how good (or not so good) your levels of self-esteem are. You really need to love yourself in order to attract a relationship that is sustainable. The truth? Otherwise you’ll be attracting someone that will want to fix you or will magnify your need to take care of yourself better. This can be a good thing, but unless you shine light on the need for self-love and self-care then it can turn ugly very fast. So this is why it’s so important to treat yourself well and show yourself the love you think you deserve.
Be as clear as a laser beam. The ‘’ideal’’ effortless and conscious manifestation should look like a laser beam. Laser beam is 100% focused on one goal with all its energy and purity. We have to be certain and focused just as the laser beam is. If there is anything holding you back from believing or focusing on your goal then this something will be stopping your from manifesting your desire. I know that it’s very difficult to be crystal clear and focused but also shorter periods of time can do the magic because it brings up back to what I wrote earlier — conscious decision can create miracles. If we decide with all our will and focus then we can change an unwanted outcome into something what we want instead.
#3 Have fun! When we are having fun and enjoy the things we do, we not only make ourselves feel better but we also brighten other people’s day as well. And, as a result, we end up attracting more people to us!