Focus on understanding your part in this overall process, rather than feeling guilty or ashamed. Recognizing how your fears have manifested in your life does not mean that the bad things in your life are your fault. It simply means that the Law of Attraction has responded to the signal you sent out. Just acknowledge that the system works and your new awareness will guide you. No need to shame yourself or even feel responsible.
As the Sufi poet Rumi once said, in the journey towards opening your heart to Love, “your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
As with all Law of Attraction work, trying to manifest love requires you look at the underlying assumption that holds you back. In this case, limiting beliefs that might block you from finding love. Try to write them down, then identify where they came from and (most importantly) write down a contradictory belief that you can then turn into a daily affirmation. Here is an article to get you started with three tips for creating powerful affirmations.
Do this meditation periodically. It is meant to help you enter into any of your romantic encounters with a sense of equality, strength, and genuine love, which has a tendency to become hindered and distorted by our egos.
I saw a universal manifestation of discontent when the fumes of the repast met the nostrils of those destined to swallow it; from the van of the procession, the tall girls of the first class, rose the whispered words –
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If you want to know what it’s like to go throughout your days without hearing the voice of fear or criticism, and have the voice of encouragement and love be the only voice (and attract a wonderful Loving Man) listen in:
1: Go through your magazines and tear the images from them. No gluing yet! Just let yourself have lots of fun looking through magazines and pulling out pictures or words or headlines that strike your fancy. Have fun with it. Make a big pile of images and phrases and words.
Your job in this step is to pray for guidance to clear all that blocks you from believing in your greatness. Then allow the universe to help guide you to whatever assignments you need to aid in the healing process. Show up for the assignments, and trust that the more you clean your thoughts and energy, the more positive experiences you will attract into your life.
The more stressed and fearful you feel, the less money you will allow! Why? Because in a stressful or fearful state you are not aligned vibrationally with the essence of your soul, which is always abundant.
1. WRITE WHAT YOU DESIRE DOWN IN THE FORM OF “I AM.” Writing down what you desire in the form of “I am” brings it to the present time, as if it’s already happening NOW. This is important because you don’t want to keep your desire out in the future, you want it here now. So by saying “I am” you’re acting as if you already have what you desire. An example might be: I am walking through the beautiful cobblestone streets of Paris with the love of my life.
Learning about the Law of Attraction helps you see that your thoughts are having a direct effect on your entire world — including the vessel you’re traveling in. A good attitude goes a long way to improving your health, and the Law of Attraction can help you take that even further.
If you can get good at manifesting coins, you can manifest larger sums too. The process is the same. Only some limiting beliefs of yours may stand in the way. But as you gradually upgrade to larger sums, you can collapse those false beliefs.
Money comes to you through the filters of your beliefs, but you don’t have to change your beliefs radically. You just have to open enough of a portal in your beliefs to allow different sums to come to you.
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Emily has a competitive side, so I played to that by challenging her to find more coins than me, which boosted her motivation and desire to get good at it. She knows that technically it’s a fair game, and she even gave herself an advantage by walking in front of me, so she could be the first to spot new coins. And since she’s only 4’9″ inches tall, she’s a lot closer to the ground than I am.
Now, suppose that you begin to get clear about the kind of person that your soulmate is. And you decide he or she is Abundant, Affectionate, Ambitious, Beautiful, Caring, Charismatic, Considerate, Creative, and so forth. Now, imagine that this person – who possess all of these wonderful qualities – was simultaneously looking back at you and secretly seeing you the way that you are right now, do you think that they would be proud of what they were seeing? Would they be interested in hanging out with you, in dating you? Chances are, the answer is no.
I started with manifesting pennies in the Summer of 2006. Then I graduated to nickels, dimes, and quarters. I focused on quarters for several weeks. Then I progressed to dollars to $100 to $1000 to $10K to $50K. Overall it took less than a year to go from manifesting pennies to manifesting $50K. After that point I become more interested in non-monetary manifesting and had some especially times with manifesting in my social life — friends, mentors, and other yumminess. In fact, I honestly feel that manifesting money is a bit boring compared to all the other cool stuff you can manifest. It’s like playing a video game and obsessing over the score. That can be fun for a while, but eventually you want to focus on more interesting aspects of the game world.
By following these steps, I have no doubt you will be able to co-create the income of your dreams. I’ve followed them myself and created massive amounts of money — more than I made during my corporate gig as an attorney.
Remember that you are meant to have love in your life. You are meant to have your needs met. You are meant to have a healthy mind, body, and spirit. The natural is that you will contribute to life, to be happy, and finish any unfinished business before you reach the time when you step through the threshold of light and return home.
This book is amazing! Just after reading it and applying it my life, ACTING AS IF MY EX WAS ALREADY THERE, I was able to completely let go of the how and the when. I knew that this relationship with him was already there. I knew that we were already one. Soon after, he contacted ME! We are now back together. Use the steps in this book but don’t get super frustrated and hung up on the whole process, relax and have fun knowing that you are creating your own reality. Your success is certain. Know that you and your specific person are already together. The law of attraction is not limited. It is unlimited! You can get whatever and WHOEVER you want. Apply these techniques but most importantly- HAVE FUN. Make feeling good your number one priority. Now I’m in a happy, healthy, committed relationship, it is like a dream! But first, i had to feel like it was already so. Now it is physically so, but it was vibrationally so all along. So much gratitude pours from my heart. I am living in abundance in all areas! I am so thankful and so grateful and so happy to have this beautiful relationship. You can do it! Believe in yourself and your ability to be in a loving relationship with your specific person. Your dreams are coming true! Everything is falling into place.
Think what you want to accomplish for the day, like “Today I will find my true love.” Create notes for your thoughts of the day, or write inspirational and motivational quotes that strike you and follow the beat of your heart. Read them often and on a regular basis.
Spiritual teacher/author/life coach Iyanla Vanzant sifts through the tragedies, misfortune and abuse she suffered in her early life. Iyanla opens up about how she was able to reinvent herself and claim the life she knew she was destined to live.
Faith along with love, are the most powerful forces in the Universe! Don’t forget the famous saying from Dr. Norman Vincent Peale: The whole formula for success can be summed up into 3 words – “Believe and Succeed”
This is when we begin to loathe relations. We begin to be skeptical, and sometimes, we may even question ourselves whether there is such a thing as “true love”. Of course, there may be problems that may have led to these failed relationships. They may be issuing from both the world within and the world without.
Do you feel that the person you’ve been with is already very close to what you want, but not quite “The One”? I understand that other people may be telling you to stop seeking “perfection”. You may even be judging yourself.
Complete several rounds of tapping on the idea and feeling of being there, doing that, having that, being that kind of person (“Even though I have this ___”, “Even though I am this kind of person…”, “Even though I have achieved ___”).
When you feel good and certain, then you will get amazing ideas, and positive motivation to take efficient actions, call the right person, and bump into the exact thing/person you need to get manifest your desires into reality.
The degree of your self-acceptance will dictate the quality of your relationship. If you try to manifest a relationship when you’re full of desperation and you have low self-esteem, you may indeed succeed, but the relationship will almost certainly be sub-par. You might drive your partner away, unconsciously cause drama in your relationship, or–more likely–attract a partner who is not good for you.
When manifesting money, it’s especially important that you don’t give your power away to money. This negates your creative ability, and the money probably won’t arrive if you do that. This is a VERY common mistake.
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4. ASK FOR ASSISTANCE. Ask your Angels, your Spirit Guides, and your Higher Self for assistance and pay attention to the signs. I know this seems crazy, but if you want something, you have to ask for it. Silly concept! If you don’t ask, your divine guidance can’t help you. They’re just hanging out, waiting for you to put them to work, so ask them for help!
Prior to meeting Brian, I had a daily ritual in which I would light several candles at sunset, put on my favorite CD of Gregorian chants and sit in my big, cozy chair. With my eyes closed I would drop into the feeling of remembering the joy of having my soul mate in my life. I would experience these wonderful feelings in every part of my body KNOWING that he was on the way. There were days when the thought that he was very late did cross my mind but I would just let those thoughts go and get back into a state of grace….feeling and knowing that his arrival was assured.
Whatever it is, make plans to do it! We can’t experience our highest level of fulfillment of love in our relationships with others until we have chosen to love ourselves 100%. Know that you deserve it — and make it happen!
Of course it isn’t possible to make someone fall for you, that would mean you’re controlling them, making them succumb to your wishes. That wouldn’t be right and is certainly not how the universe works. But can you use The Secret to attract a specific person?