This is not to be rushed so please take your time with this. Once you have finished pop it in an envelope, seal it, write your name on it and put it somewhere you won’t lose it. My hubby and I do this every year and love reading what we wrote out to each other on the 1st of January. It’s so insightful, heartwarming and actually quite mind blowing!
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Live in the knowingness that you are in a loving, committed relationship. This wonderful Universe of ours is set up to deliver the people and things we draw to us that our consistent with our personal belief system. If you don’t believe you will ever find the one, then, guess what… you probably won’t. So, believing and knowing that your soul mate is out there is the most important part of the formula. Big love is possible for any one of any age if you are willing to become a magnet for love. Continue to live each day in the knowingness that you already are in a loving, committed relationship as you savor the waiting for your beloved to arrive.
“In the past, in the midst of some-sort-of relationship struggle (or struggle with the lack of a relationship) I would always look at the outside circumstances and try to analyze what I was doing wrong. Now, as soon as a struggle or challenge comes up for me, I’m learning to go inside first to see how I’m feeling about me. And almost magically (although it’s not always easy), it affects the outside situation. This has changed everything.”
I did go there again, several times in fact. Each time it wasn’t so bad and it built strength and reverence for the power of uncertainty. I now look back on these times as such a beautiful blessing because I can truly appreciate the abundance today (and it’s not just money) I have created in my own life.
For example, if you dreamed that you were being chased by an ominous creature through the dark streets of a strange city, that would be the manifest content of the dream. What that dream might actually mean, or the interpretation of its symbolic meaning, would be considered the latent content.
You’ve unconsciously shut down. After being hurt and disappointed, a part of you may be trying to protect your heart from future pain. Unfortunately, this also shuts you off from the potential to find love as well.
Repeat this meditation daily for 21 days straight. If you miss one day, start over. After your meditation, write down any ideas or visions that you were able to receive from your inner divine guidance.
Since the brain is Velcro for negative experiences, it is natural that we worry so much. It’s just the brain’s tendency. Keep a worry list for 2 weeks. The minute you start worry write it down. This not only helps release the heavy energy that often keeps us stuck, but at the end of 2 weeks you will notice none of the worries were warranted. Your brain will have proof that worry is a waste of energy.
The most important thing about manifesting your ideal life is to know what you want. It’s also the hardest part, isn’t it? What DO you want? The true you, not the socially conformed you? What does your heart desire? Where do you want to go? Who do you want to be?
In recent times, I’ve discovered some other related beliefs, and tapping on these has created a further shift. Do this process yourself for every negative belief you can identify and be prepared to persist in treating them. Some beliefs are much tougher to shift than others, but each round of tapping you do will move you closer to releasing the emotional attachment.
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Don’t be one of those people that see public displays of affection or people blissfully in love and allow it to activate your crabby/skeptical mind. You can only attract success when you are genuinely happy for others and their success. Allow yourself to be energized by the love that others share and affirm to yourself that your time is on its way very soon.
Normally, a person approaches such an action on autopilot, but stepping back, you’ll notice the entirety of the series of decisions and actions that make up your very, full day when you move with intention.
Good point, Maria. And you know what helps that? Telling those real life happy stories. Like, I already know the words and the feelings of those stories because I make a point of telling them often. So it’s very familiar territory – just switching up the “reasons” for it.
Secondly, it’s critical to realize that your beliefs literally create the world you live in. So do you want to live in a world where no one can commit or great partners are scarce? If not, then it’s time to stop thinking and saying those very things! Remember that a handful of lacklustre dating experiences are not a good barometer for the entire population. Take a deep breath and try to have a little perspective about yourself and the dating experience as a whole.
STEP #6 (6:05) Stop thinking in a state of lack. When we think about how we don’t have something, we’ll just get more of that lack, because you are focusing on not having it. Don’t focus on the fact that you are single, focus on everything you wrote down at the beginning, how much good you bring to the table, and how much abundance you have in your life, and more will come.
Money is great! You can buy all kinds of great things to the people you love, you can take your spouse to some of the best places on the planet, you wear the finest clothes, you can eat healthy and organic food every day, you can help your friends and relatives, you can do all kinds of great things when you are rich!
Many people find a spiritual awakening in those possibilities. Connecting with the rhythms of the universe and opening up to new potentials, awakens the spiritual force inside you that is connected to everything around you. The Law of Attraction demonstrates that you are connected to everything and everything is connected to you.
Why are you really here? What is your personal purpose on earth? In an extraordinarily rare interview from his home in Switzerland, Paulo Coelho, the author of The Alchemist, one of the best-selling books of all time, answers life’s biggest questions. He teaches us about dreams, destiny and the one thing he believes will make us happy. Oprah sa ……
It is really easy to focus on all that is wrong with our lives, especially when it comes to our money issues. Our negative feelings are strong, and have a lot of pull behind them..we can get sucked in deep the second we start feeling them. But, you have to realize you have a choice regarding where you put your focus. You get to decide how you feel about your life. You get to decide whether you will keep telling yourself the same story or be willing to craft a new one.
Sadly, every adventure must come to an end. After breakfast, disembark SIlver Explorer. It is time to say goodbye to the crew and all your new friends when we reach Ushuaia. We transfer you to the airport for your flight back to Buenos Aires.
Repeat this exercise in your mind with no doubt whatsoever. I am sure the repetition, intensity and expectancy will do their job of sending out the message to the Universe which will oblige you with providing you with the right opportunities.
And Katy, I’m glad you appreciated the how to part. I think it would have been misleading if I hadn’t included the steps on my first attempt, since that definitely helped me get lined up, and I think it’s good for everyone to know that sometimes it takes a couple approaches before we strike gold.
Prior to meeting Brian, I had a daily ritual in which I would light several candles at sunset, put on my favorite CD of Gregorian chants and sit in my big, cozy chair. With my eyes closed I would drop into the feeling of remembering the joy of having my soul mate in my life. I would experience these wonderful feelings in every part of my body KNOWING that he was on the way. There were days when the thought that he was very late did cross my mind but I would just let those thoughts go and get back into a state of grace….feeling and knowing that his arrival was assured.
One of the best ways to keep your dreams in your awareness is to create triggers in your daily life. Listen to music that reminds you of your dream to move to NYC. Change your passwords to reflect your new income goal. Use a photo of the destination of your dreams as your screensaver. Change your commute to drive by the house that looks similar to the one you desire. Read the poem that reminds you of the way you want to feel every day.