A group of 4,000 meditators volunteered to meditate on peace and love to reduce the amount of crime in the high-crime Washington, DC area. A team of scientists and researchers approached the project without bias and tested for every variable imaginable.
It’s fun to think of this vibe-shifting process as shifting dimensions, as if you’re tuning in to a different perceptual frequency spectrum. That other reality was there all along. You just couldn’t see it before because you were tuned in to incompatible perceptual frequencies, frequencies that made the money invisible and undetectable by your senses. Maybe you were stuck on the red part of the spectrum, while the money was hanging out in the blue part.
This plan should be like one A4 page and that’s it. Make sure that you read it every day and remind yourself where you are going. This will decrease your procrastination and you can use it like a blueprint, a map that leads to your goal.
So do the things that you love to do. Do things that brighten up your being. Do things that give you joy. if it is just the little things like going to a cafe that you really enjoy or dancing more because it makes you feel alive. Find ways to more enjoy your life and then do it!
How does soulmate love feel to you? What goes on in your brain or your chest or your belly when you see that person? Joyful, excited, relieved, secure, happy, anticipatory or content? Feel the feelings, imagine the conversations you’ll have and fake it till you make it. It’s better to ‘live as if’ rather than focus on the lack of the relationship. “It’s been x months/years and it still hasn’t happened” is living in insufficiency and that’s hardly what you want. Don’t live in the reality of what’s missing, you don’t get love by focusing on the love you don’t have—live as if you’ve already found your soulmate and share the love you have in your soul with everyone!
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After situations like that, it’s easy to focus on the negative qualities of the previous relationship. “He never wanted to try new restaurants; I won’t date a guy like that again.” Or, “She was always talking about wanting to get married and have kids, what’s the rush? I won’t date another woman who puts those at the top of her priority list!”
Once you have your list, it’s time to amplify your signal to the universe by asking for what you want. When the universe is clear on what you want to manifest, then it can help you. If you don’t ask, it will still try to help you, but it guesses as to what you truly desire.
Forget, or at least do not think about problems and things that you cannot change, and focus on the love that awaits you and believe that it’s happening. Stay positive and you will be surrounded with positivity, good things will naturally come your way. Make positivity your preferred way of living!
I dare say she’s probably better at finding coins than I am now. She now knows there are coins everywhere, but she also really gets into the playful and competitive spirit of the game, which is much more exciting for her than it is for me. I think partly she likes knowing that it’s a fair game that either of us can win, and there’s no reason she can’t be at least as skillful as I am.
Affirmations and visualization support and inspire you on your journey. You can order your thoughts via a mind-map. Get plenty of sleep to align your mind and clear away clutter. Still the mind through cleansing meditation and quiet time. Nurture a restful and clear mind through caring for your mind like you would a beautiful garden.
In the same way, if you are trying to manifest “financial freedom” make sure you know what that means to you. How much money is that a month/a year? What will you spend it on? So take some time to think about it, make a spreadsheet if you need to, come up with a specific number and write it down.
Next, you want to do things that speak symbolically to your subconscious. To do this, you want to think “in pictures” (like having a vision board, which is a well known Law of Attraction technique.)
For years I had success using the Law of Attraction in every area, except my love life. I never seemed to attract the specific person I wanted. Then I developed my strategies for using the Law of Attraction for love on a specific person and had immediate success. It happened so fast that I practiced it on multiple people just to see if it was a fluke. Within days, I would receive a phone call or email from the person I focused on.
After playing this game for a number of months, one day while cleaning up the toys I realized that the very same toys they had bought with their pretend money actually manifested into their lives as present by friends and family. They got all the toys they wanted!
I’ve had many amazing things happen in my life that solidified my belief in the law of attraction. I’ve also come to understand exactly what we need to do to make the law of attraction work for us — and it’s way more than visualizing what you want and saying positive affirmations.
This is the power of surrender. Sometimes wanting something “too hard” just leads to focusing on lack. You end up getting desperate. The moment you let it go and say, “Bah! I am fine with you or without you!” suddenly you get what you want.
So take care of yourself, and try to always look presentable, even if it’s just going to the local supermarket! It’s the feelings you’ll get from this kind of attitude that counts, not your outfit. You will feel good in your skin and your vibration will radiate around you. When you don’t feel good, even if you’re the most attractive human being (physically) you will repel others from you.
Besides that, you should wear a goal card constantly in your pocket and read it as much as you can every day. Write your goal in the present tense, empower it with some strong emotions, put the goal card in your purse or in your pocket, and read it every day, for as long as you can, and as much as you can.
So let’s do it again now. Describe the territory of success. Write it down, draw it, say it, do whatever you need to do to get that blueprint and start to lay down some new physical (neural) and emotional and energetic pathways.
At first when she would walk past a coin, and I’d pick it up and say, “Look at this, Emily. There was a nickel there, and you walked right past it! Your eyes definitely saw it because you were looking in that direction, but the coin didn’t register in your mind. You still need to adjust yourself to the right vibe. Remember — the coins are everywhere! You just have to command your eyes to notice them.”