Still, there’s a difference between wishing for something to come to pass and in expecting it to come to pass. When you expect something to come to pass, you’ve already made up your mind about it, and all of your resultant thoughts, emotions and behaviors revolve around that You’ve decided. That’s it.
Don’t wait for the relationship to manifest; you must first become the person who already has these qualities. This includes preparing your space for the partner of your dreams: Clean out your closet, empty a draw or replace that worn-out wallpaper. Think of all the ways in which you can prepare yourself and your life to be in perfect alignment with your perfect mate.
“She radiates health and vitality (fit). I love looking at and playing with her hair, It’s so sexy to me (brunette). She makes me feel like starting a family together (maternal). We love spending quality time in the outdoors (sporty).”
Your job in this step is to pray for guidance to clear all that blocks you from believing in your greatness. Then allow the universe to help guide you to whatever assignments you need to aid in the healing process. Show up for the assignments, and trust that the more you clean your thoughts and energy, the more positive experiences you will attract into your life.
2. IDENTIFY what you want. The number one rule to Manifesting your Dreams is to “keep your eye on the ball.” The Universe does not process negatives – only energy. Therefore the question to ponder is what do you want? The question is NOT “what do I not want” except to identify more of what you DO want.
This can be anything you want and is best to be something that you love doing. Maybe you love to write? Perhaps you want to design? How about traditional commerce? Maybe you want to have a local store for organic fruits and vegetables?
This went on for several days, I was upset yet determined to obtain this job. It got me nowhere. A part of me decided that I might need to let it go. Instead, I visualized seeing his name come up on my phone and me having the job. I called him one more time. He answered, we spoke for a bit, he said he’d call back. I thought Yeah, heard that before.
For example, if the both of you are lovers of adventure and nature, then it is advisable to go for a hike. Visit those breath-taking areas and share the awe together. It will always be memorable, and will always remind you of each other.
Instead of staring into the void of your loneliness and hoping someone will show up, the best way to manifest a relationship with a good partner is to fill that void yourself first. Happy, self-sufficient people are attracted to the same kind of people after all.
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