Just as it’s a fool’s errand to expect your partner to fulfill your every whim and desire, you shouldn’t settle for something way below reasonable standards just because you think you “can’t do better.”
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This step is important because those competing signals can be quite strong. Weaken the signal or change the direction of those thoughts like this: Approach those feelings with the love and compassion that you would feel towards a lonely, small child or a hurt animal. When you love yourself, you open up the possibility to receive your greatest desires, and you begin to only desire the things that are best for you.
Also, every time you read it, vividly visualize it and contemplate it to the tiniest details. It must become crystal clear on the screen of your mind, and don’t worry if this doesn’t happen the first week of doing this process.
Read your Goal Card every day for as much, and for as many times as you can. Do this especially before sleeping and immediately after you wake up in the morning. Read it both out loud and in silence. Put REAL Emotions in it, and believe that this is true.
Again, rather than experiencing pride or feeling boastful, this is about understanding and seeing how the Law of Attraction is already a part of your life. It’s always existed, but now you are of it.
This next part is important. The second step I take is letting it go. This is crucial. The more you dwell on your intention, the more the Universe feels this energy of desperation, and the more your co-creation will be pushed out in time. Letting go shows the Universe trust.
12. Shift all of your attitudes towards safety/security. Don’t treat money as if it is the thing separating you from disaster or not being safe. Instead, treat thoughts of lack of safety like they are the things separating you from disaster and not being safe. You want to focus on visualizing what safety and security would feel like and also on shifting your beliefs about all aspects of your life where you feel powerless. This will ensure that money will not be influenced by your focus on fear, disaster or powerlessness.
Now that we have reflected on the year that’s past, it’s time to ponder on the year ahead. Before we do that, it’s super important to do a little ceremony to clean the slate and lay a fresh foundation for your dreams to manifest. You can do that by performing a sage smudging cleansing ritual around yourself, home and office.
When manifesting money, it’s especially important that you don’t give your power away to money. This negates your creative ability, and the money probably won’t arrive if you do that. This is a VERY common mistake.
So, in sum: for most people who want to manifest money, the reason why success doesn’t immediately arrive is simple. The concept of money comes with a lot of baggage, and that baggage can block your positive intentions!
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Last week, we manifested that dream. We used the space to create a short yoga promo (for the upcoming MindBody Weight Loss Summit that I am participating in). It was it was so exciting to have it come to life!
STEP #3 (3:24) Now, write down a list of everything you would want your ideal relationship to be like. You can write things like, “we make each other laugh. We have common interests. He exposes me to new experiences. She loves my mother. We are affectionate. We are honest and loyal.” Keep writing that list for as long as it feels good, and as long as you follow the rules step by step, you are in the process of creating.
the act of manifesting or disclosing, or the state of being manifested; discovery to the eye or to the understanding; also, that which manifests; exhibition; display; revelation; as, the manifestation of God’s power in creation
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Never give up! Be patient in your love quest, and know that you deserve only the best! Avoid the traps like being discouraged or looking for the right love in the wrong places, or perhaps settling for the first opportunity that you see…
STEP #6 (6:05) Stop thinking in a state of lack. When we think about how we don’t have something, we’ll just get more of that lack, because you are focusing on not having it. Don’t focus on the fact that you are single, focus on everything you wrote down at the beginning, how much good you bring to the table, and how much abundance you have in your life, and more will come.
One way I suggest letting go is by having something called a “God box.” You can name it whatever you want, but have a box where you take a piece of paper, write your intention, then place it in the box and forget about it. Make sure you don’t write the same intention twice. Doing so will further show the Universe you aren’t trusting that your intention is on its way. You can also write your intention down and burn it (if you can do so safely), or write it down and rip it up — either than throwing the paper our or flushing it down the toilet. This signifies the act of “letting go” of the intention.
Step 4 is important for two reasons. The first is that it aligns you with your desires. The entire concept behind the Law of Attraction is that like attracts like. When you take action as if you’ve already gotten what you desire, you are sending a huge, loud and clear message to the universe that you’re serious. Actions speak louder than words, right?
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What is admired now is a person who seems to know a lot of stuff, a person who makes sense when they talk, someone successful in their own field, a person with a purpose in life, some who can listen and understand others, show compassion and GIVE before trying to TAKE.
Ok, so I bought this book after rehashing old, painful memories of a past relationship. I was feeling lonely and wanted to meet someone new who would be good to me, was genuine with his intentions, etc…you know how it goes. So, I downloaded this book to my kindle, read it the same day, did exactly what she said in the book about being specific and writing a list of what you want, and I did all the other exercises she tells you to do in the book. *POOF!* the SAME DAY a guy who fit the criteria exactly appeared in my life, I am so NOT kidding. I didn’t even pay much attention to him at first, because I was still hung up on my ex. Well, this new guy and I have been talking and going out for about two weeks now, and I started to think “Wow, this guy is actually pretty cool” the past few days but I didn’t want to get too excited, because you know how men can be…they love you one day, ignore you the next, lol.
Your intention should be closely tied to your personal thoughts, values, and perspective on life. Intentions can be a clear and specific wish, or as simple as a word or phrase you’d like to align yourself with, like “open your mind and heart,” “love,” “softness,” “strength,” “compassion for myself and others,” “peace,” or “freedom.” Try to keep the intention positive, so instead of saying “stop being a coward,” or “spend less time alone,” choose the intentions, “be courageous” or simply, “community”.
Imagine waking up every morning and reading a list of the great things in your life right now. It would definitely put you in a better mood and shift your perspective to find other things that make you happy. Like attracts like.
It doesn’t matter how unattractive you think you are, no one deserves a partner who abuses or disrespects them. Pay attention to the signs of someone who mistreats you and know when to walk away–even if it means being alone.
Ask for all that you desire (in alignment with your values) and have the faith to relax and enjoy the journey. “I tell you the Truth, If ye have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, move from here to there: And it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” Matthew 17:20