You’ve lost faith. When you’ve been looking for love for a long time, you may stop believing that there’s such a thing as a soul mate and may be tempted to settle for an “okay” relationship rather than committing to a mission to find love.
Arielle: Living as if means stepping outside of your current reality and stepping into the reality you wish to be true. It’s when your daily actions reflect and are congruent with your belief that your soul mate exists and is already yours. The best example of this was revealed to me by a famous actress. Once she became clear that she was ready to share her life with someone, she began living as if that person were already a part of her life. She would play music she imagined he would enjoy; she wore pretty nightgowns to bed instead of her typical T-shirt and sweats. Every morning she would feel that they were waking up and starting their day together, and every night at dinner she would light candles and set a place for him at the table. According to this actress, he eventually arrived. She sent a clear message to the Universe, and the Universe delivered. Now you may not be willing to set a table for two each night when you have dinner, but start to consider what you could do to generate the feeling that you are already sharing your life with your beloved. For example, buy tickets to a concert or play that is several months away, holding the intention that you will attend it with a hot date. Or the next time you are shopping for greeting cards, pick up a couple that would be fitting to give to your beloved on a birthday or to celebrate your anniversary, knowing that sometime soon that day will be here.
Attracting a good relationship doesn’t mean that the relationship is going to be perfect or even permanent. Remember that you will attract someone who matches who you are in a given moment. If you or your partner change, the relationship may no longer be compatible. Sometimes we’re meant to learn something from a relationship, and then move on when we’re done.
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Your intention should be closely tied to your personal thoughts, values, and perspective on life. Intentions can be a clear and specific wish, or as simple as a word or phrase you’d like to align yourself with, like “open your mind and heart,” “love,” “softness,” “strength,” “compassion for myself and others,” “peace,” or “freedom.” Try to keep the intention positive, so instead of saying “stop being a coward,” or “spend less time alone,” choose the intentions, “be courageous” or simply, “community”.
While it’s true that the first step to using the law of attraction is shifting to more positive way of thinking, the reason people give up working with LOA is that they believe that if they start thinking positive thoughts, then all their dreams will manifest.
Similarly, if you’re expecting to have more money arrive into your life, you have to plan for that occasion. Go tour open houses in your dream neighborhood. Go test drive your dream car. Start planning that dream vacation online that you’ve always been wanting to take. Plan it. When you plan it, it becomes more real and slowly manifests into your life.
While the dream is obviously stressful, it does not really reflect the actions of this co-worker. The events of the dream represent the manifest content, but there is clearly something else behind this strange and rather frightening dream.
If you can get good at manifesting coins, you can manifest larger sums too. The process is the same. Only some limiting beliefs of yours may stand in the way. But as you gradually upgrade to larger sums, you can collapse those false beliefs.
In order to manifest wealth in your life, you’ve got to first change your belief system, your paradigm that’s stopping you from attracting that green energy in your life. And to be straightforward, wealth is not synonymous to money. It’s not only the houses, the cars, the boats, or the material possessions that you have in life.
I really needed this I have been a widow for 11 years now and I have been looking for love in all the wrong places and failed in all of them but hearing this now this gives me hope again that there is a Soulmate out there for me to go on with my life being loved and happy again BUT BETTER AND TRULY IN LOVE. thank you so so much and God Richly Bless you now I’m so happy to know my Soulmate is on his way to me .😂 Robin A.
Instead of staring into the void of your loneliness and hoping someone will show up, the best way to manifest a relationship with a good partner is to fill that void yourself first. Happy, self-sufficient people are attracted to the same kind of people after all.
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A crucial step in this process is to begin to put it outside yourself, begin to bring a representation of it into the world. There are many ways of doing this, all of which work differently for different individuals. (First thing to treat yourself for is the belief that you need to set goals according to someone else’s formula—even mine!) Some examples are writing it down, drawing or painting a picture of it, saying you will do it or have it, making a three-dimensional representation of it like a sculpture, and so on. Or taking some physical action toward it.
It is a journey of ‘working on yourself’ so that you can arrive at a place of deeper intimacy as you open your heart, and share your unique gifts with your One. It is, in essence, a journey of transformation and growth where you become One – in consciousness – with the Love that you want to attract. Along this journey, you will find a new loving relationship with the person that you are becoming.
That is why many self-help teachers tell us that we need to feel good to manifest what we want, but it is my experience that many people find this extremely hard to do because it is too much of a “stretch.”
Paychecks make you happy, while bills made you put on your cranky pants with annoyance and anxiety. You need to rewire this in order to get out of your own way. Each time you feel pissed off when a bill gets sent to you then you actively choose to block the flow of abundance and you’re inviting MORE BILLS and more expenses. Nothing is as expensive as an attitude that blocks the flow of prosperity. Learn to LOVE your money. After all, it’s just energy.
You have unfinished business. It’s hard to attract love if you still have one foot in the past. Perhaps you’ve never quite processed a particularly rough relationship. Or maybe there’s an old partner you find it hard to let go.
Make room for their folks in your life, share time together as a couple, always tell the truth and move on to share a life that is full of happiness and fulfillment. Introverted conceitedness won’t improve your relationship an inch, it will instead destroy it.
Finally, make the final decision what this person is like, and decide that from now on, you’ll do everything you can to be with this wonderful soul mate of yours. It all starts without a decision – without it, you’re lost in life and you’ll give up on the first obstacle! But once you make a firm decision that YES, this is what I want and I am going to GET IT, then you set the most powerful forces in the Universe to do your bidding – even though you’re not aware of what you’re actually doing!
Get this – You can read 5 thousand books on love and the law of attraction, but if you don’t experiment with the techniques and exercises you will NEVER have any results! You have to take action and DO the exercises!
Thanks again for such great advice. I am already using a Wealth and Prosperity area and am now inspired to use the Feng Shui techniques to assist with even greater success. Changing my core beliefs and thought processes has been hard work yet I have persevered, studied hard and can see for myself actual manifestation results.
Each dream has it’s own timing, which may in reality have nothing to do with your personal timing. Trying to force anything will typically only create stress in your life. Allow things to unfold naturally ‘through you,’ rather than ‘by you.’
3) Releasing the Past. Is there someone you’re still in love with? Are there any past relationships in your life that are still unresolved? Almost every person that comes to see me with hopes of finding love is holding onto a past love or relationship, either consciously or unconsciously. I call this person the passenger in their car.
This is where lots of people get stuck with the LoA. They put out conflicting vibes every day. They visualize having more money and feeling abundant and grateful, but then they go to the grocery store, and they buy cheap, low quality food because in the back of their mind, they’re saying to themselves that they can’t afford the good stuff. And that naturally cancels out the vibe of abundance, so the result is no change.
Knowing is a positve energy and opens the door for attraction. Doubt is a negative energy and closes that same door. When you are in alignment with attracting your perfect mate, there is a sense of knowing he/she is on their way.