Finally, start every day by tuning into your heart. Visualize being with the one you love, and let a warm, golden glow fill your chest. This is the energy that will propel you through the day on exactly the right frequency to attract love.
A relationship is a platform that ensures that you share your life with someone special. Sometimes, people may get into relationships with the hope of filling the voids in their lives, or for the sake of avoiding loneliness. If this is the case, then you will always be disappointed.
“I want to give you a huge, huge thank you. I love this course and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been with myself. I have grown so much and I continue to grow. And I love myself Shelly, in a warm, compassionate way. I want to acknowledge how much you’ve shown me the path to happiness. This course is the best value for money that I’ve ever spent in my life.”
Relationships can be a struggle, and finding “the one” or rekindling that spark you once had with your partner may seem like it’s never going to happen. In this module, Melissa shares her strongest practices for manifesting the love you want and know you deserve.
Once you’ve recognized any past resentments that you have been holding on to. Make the conscious effort to forgive. Sit quietly and do a short guided visualization where you send the person some light and love. Do this periodically until you feel that there are little to no “hard feelings” left.
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Have a vision. You need to know exactly where you wish to go. There is no way around this first step. It’s like going for a trip somewhere not knowing exactly where. You might end up in your neighborhood wondering why you aren’t some better place. Well, you just wanted to get somewhere else, without a clear vision and that is what you’ve got — you’re somewhere else. Once you know that you’re heading to Hawaii, you know which plane to take. It works exactly the same with anything in your life. Once you have a direction, your mind will align your actions towards your goal.
It may sound silly to do this as an adult, but it’s a game worth playing. When you’re out with friends sometime, have a contest to see who can manifest the most money. You may not get too excited about finding coins, but you may generate some excitement about trying to best your friends in a silly contest. That silliness will actually help you get the right vibe, thereby improving your ability to manifest money.
Objections will up in your mind and your body and it is important to sort these out using EFT. Many of these objections relate to values conflicts. Frequently, we have developed false associations toward what we think we might have to do or become in order to achieve our goals. So get these doubts and apprehensions out, preferably onto paper where you can see them, and start to apply EFT to them.
Sometimes you are going to give in, but you must be willing to at least try to let go of the story you keep telling yourself, of the justifications for feebad. If you are not willing to do that, this work is going to be frustrating as hell. Progress will be slow and painful.
Just like the good old tracks that the sled follows down the mountain. And so we tell the same old story, over and over, about why we have our childhood wounds, and about how bad our previous relationship was, how we got dumped, how we’re not being loved the way we want to be, how unequal this relationship is, how we have these abandonment issues, how they cheated on us, how we’re too old to find love, too fat, too skinny, too white, too black, too gay, too straight, too poor, too rich, too unstable, too unreliable, afraid of commitment, too demanding… Blah, blah, blah. PLEASE STOP! The more you tell the same old story, the more you’re perpetuating it in your experience and the more you’re blocking love from coming into your life. Why? Because you keep focusing on it.
This can be done through affirmations and surrounding yourself with the energy of abundance. You can do this by going to expensive stores, dressing up in your best clothes, daily gratitude practice to be thankful for what you do have right now and also repeating mantras and affirmations that help to rewire your feelings about money. This can help so much to get you into the feeling space to welcome in prosperity.
The key is having clarity, and knowing what it is that you want. Why? So that you can identify it when you see it, feel it and hear it, and – most importantly – so that you won’t be sidetracked into a relationship with a person who is not the highest possibility for you. A person who is not your soulmate. Remember, there’s no need to settle for less than what you want. It’s like going to a supermarket without a grocery list when you’re feeling very hungry. If you’re anything like me, you may have bought a whole bunch of stuff you did not need, but may have forgotten to buy something as basic as milk and sugar, which you really needed.