Think of it like this. If you want to manifest money, but you believe that money is its own power source, then deep down you’re giving money the power to say no to you. If money has power, then it can refuse to show up.
Close your eyes, and gradually acknowledge, accept, and let go of all the thoughts your mind produces. Start by envisioning how money looks – different notes, different values, and different amounts. Envision yourself as the possessor of the money – at this point, you should visualize exactly how you see yourself as a wealthy person.
“In the past, in the midst of some-sort-of relationship struggle (or struggle with the lack of a relationship) I would always look at the outside circumstances and try to analyze what I was doing wrong. Now, as soon as a struggle or challenge comes up for me, I’m learning to go inside first to see how I’m feeling about me. And almost magically (although it’s not always easy), it affects the outside situation. This has changed everything.”
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If you’re going to manifest your soulmate, it’s vital to first understand why it is that your attempts to find love so often go awry. While everyone’s story of looking for love is slightly different, there are often common factors in play that can block you from creating the romance you deserve to have. For example, you may find the following are true of you:
Try this exercise with anything, and once you’ve mastered it, Step 1 of the Law of Attraction techniques becomes much easier. Improve visualization by recording your voice reading the exercise out loud and then playing it back with your eyes closed and concentrating on the techniques.
Have a strong desire. Now we know where we’re going and we need something that energizes the vision. If you’re flying to Hawaii, you know that plane needs fuel to get there. The same works for your vision, you need the right fuel so you can manifest it. Have a vision that moves you and each time you think about it, you feel lighter and joyful. These are the emotions that will get you where you want to go. Dare to dream and think big, it will help you to literally energize your vision.
Emily has a competitive side, so I played to that by challenging her to find more coins than me, which boosted her motivation and desire to get good at it. She knows that technically it’s a fair game, and she even gave herself an advantage by walking in front of me, so she could be the first to spot new coins. And since she’s only 4’9″ inches tall, she’s a lot closer to the ground than I am.
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If you’ve already learned some of the basics of the Law of Attraction, you’ll know that creative visualization is a real cornerstone of the process of manifestation. However, your visualizations can always be more powerful and influential!
Arielle: Living as if means stepping outside of your current reality and stepping into the reality you wish to be true. It’s when your daily actions reflect and are congruent with your belief that your soul mate exists and is already yours. The best example of this was revealed to me by a famous actress. Once she became clear that she was ready to share her life with someone, she began living as if that person were already a part of her life. She would play music she imagined he would enjoy; she wore pretty nightgowns to bed instead of her typical T-shirt and sweats. Every morning she would feel that they were waking up and starting their day together, and every night at dinner she would light candles and set a place for him at the table. According to this actress, he eventually arrived. She sent a clear message to the Universe, and the Universe delivered. Now you may not be willing to set a table for two each night when you have dinner, but start to consider what you could do to generate the feeling that you are already sharing your life with your beloved. For example, buy tickets to a concert or play that is several months away, holding the intention that you will attend it with a hot date. Or the next time you are shopping for greeting cards, pick up a couple that would be fitting to give to your beloved on a birthday or to celebrate your anniversary, knowing that sometime soon that day will be here.
If you don’t have clarity on what you do want, you’ll likely end up repeating the same relationships with the same personalities and the same faults. What do you miss most about your past partners? Surely there were some traits you found attractive, take those bits from each person and put them together. And don’t forget to read my previous article about preparing yourself for your next relationship along the way!
You have to love yourself before you can love others. You need to take care of yourself, appreciate, and treat yourself with respect. This will boost your loving capability and also help you understand what the other person expects from you.
Melissa Ambrosini is a speaker, entrepreneur, self-love teacher, and best-selling author. In this session, she shares her personal journey, from being sick and hospitalized, to the thriving woman you see today. She’ll also explain who this class is for, and what it’s all about.
In this audiobook, Law of Attraction: Manifest the Health, Wealth, Love & Life of Your Dreams, you will learn about how you can masterfully re-frame your knowledge on the law of attraction and use it to your advantage. You will be given the opportunity to learn how you can co-create the life of your dreams in all areas, including health, wealth, love, and life. This audiobook takes you beyond the basic two-step process of the law of attraction and gives you specific and direct instruction.
Note: need, not want. Because if you think about what exactly need this money for (like a new house, or a new car, or a fantastic holiday etc.), you may realize that you don’t really need “a million dollars”, you need a very specific sum of money.
Although this might sound ridiculous at first, it’s a bit like the visualization tip above. It helps you really tune into the reality of money and send out more effective, coherent signals to the Universe about what you want.
2) To attract love, be loving. If you are seeking your one special soul-mate, be patient. The universe will send you the perfect person, but it might take a little time. In the meantime, tune into the vibration of love by sending loving energy to the world – performing small acts of kindness and compassion to friends, family, strangers and pets. The love you send out will come back to you.
I would lay in the sun, getting as much sun on me as possible, thinking to myself “ahhhh THIS is the life.” I would dream of the day when I would move somewhere with year round good weather, sun most of the year, white sandy endless beaches, crystal clear oceans and palm trees all around me. I just knew this was where I was meant to be.
2. IDENTIFY what you want. The number one rule to Manifesting your Dreams is to “keep your eye on the ball.” The Universe does not process negatives – only energy. Therefore the question to ponder is what do you want? The question is NOT “what do I not want” except to identify more of what you DO want.
Knowing is a positve energy and opens the door for attraction. Doubt is a negative energy and closes that same door. When you are in alignment with attracting your perfect mate, there is a sense of knowing he/she is on their way.
While it’s true that the first step to using the law of attraction is shifting to more positive way of thinking, the reason people give up working with LOA is that they believe that if they start thinking positive thoughts, then all their dreams will manifest.
If you’ve read that book, you’ll know that in the chapter on relationships it explains that in order to attract someone who likes you, first of all you have to like yourself. This is very important, because if you don’t like yourself, you’ll be sending out the wrong kind of vibes (vibrations) to a potential partner.
If your current circumstances cause you to emit conflicting vibes, then even as you go through the motions of acting in accordance with a scarcer financial situation than you’d like, keep your vibe focused on that of abundance. The best way to do that is by holding the heartset of gratitude. So even if you buy cheap, low-quality food, hold the vibe that you’re grateful for it and that you appreciate it. Feel appreciative that such food exists and that it’s within your budget. And then look at the high quality stuff, and emotionally invite it into your life. If possible, find one way in which you can splurge for higher quality items, like buying a few organic apples, and feel grateful that you can do that. And when you eat those apples, really enjoy them, and intend to receive more of the same.
When you manifest money, you are COMMANDING it to come into your reality. You’re the CREATOR. Money has no choice but to obey you, but only if you wield your true power. If you give your power away to money, then you empower money to deny your requests. Money will say, “Well, if you’re letting me decide, then no, I’m staying over here.”
And again, this exercise works best when you’re not envisioning an actual person in this role. We don’t want to fuck up our magic but pulling on someone else’s energetic chain. Everyone is entitled to their own free will, which is why I advocate doing non-specific love spells instead of specific ones.
Gabriel Gonsalves is a leading expert in Heart Intelligence Coaching and Heart Intelligent Leadership. A licensed HeartMath™ Coach, Gabriel is the founder of Heart’n Mind Consulting, Coaching and Training and The Academy for Applied Heart Intelligence where for the past 8 years he’s been helping people from all walks of life create lifestyles, careers, and relationships they love by teaching them his wholehearted approach to personal mastery, conscious relationship building, and reality manifestation.
Soon will come the time when the universe will reward you in the exact proportion to your beliefs and emotions. Remember that you are not searching for “happiness” but a loving relationship. Happiness is a very positive and powerful energy which you already have, if you only decide to feel it and become aware of it.
Focus on understanding your part in this overall process, rather than feeling guilty or ashamed. Recognizing how your fears have manifested in your life does not mean that the bad things in your life are your fault. It simply means that the Law of Attraction has responded to the signal you sent out. Just acknowledge that the system works and your new awareness will guide you. No need to shame yourself or even feel responsible.
Just like the good old tracks that the sled follows down the mountain. And so we tell the same old story, over and over, about why we have our childhood wounds, and about how bad our previous relationship was, how we got dumped, how we’re not being loved the way we want to be, how unequal this relationship is, how we have these abandonment issues, how they cheated on us, how we’re too old to find love, too fat, too skinny, too white, too black, too gay, too straight, too poor, too rich, too unstable, too unreliable, afraid of commitment, too demanding… Blah, blah, blah. PLEASE STOP! The more you tell the same old story, the more you’re perpetuating it in your experience and the more you’re blocking love from coming into your life. Why? Because you keep focusing on it.
Once you have your list, it’s time to amplify your signal to the universe by asking for what you want. When the universe is clear on what you want to manifest, then it can help you. If you don’t ask, it will still try to help you, but it guesses as to what you truly desire.
Never give up! Be patient in your love quest, and know that you deserve only the best! Avoid the traps like being discouraged or looking for the right love in the wrong places, or perhaps settling for the first opportunity that you see…
So love yourself right now at this moment – take your hand and KISS IT! I really mean it, do it right now as you read this text! Kiss your hand and shout out loud – “I LOVE MYSELF!” Every day when I wake up – I kiss myself!
Don’t worry about whether or not he/she is interested in you or out with someone else. When you do so, you’re observing the absence of the love relationship. You’re so aware of your current relationship and lack thereof, that you’re keeping yourself separate from the relationship you do want.