In this case, your answer would be something along the lines of… “Being with the love of my life would make me feel ________. I want a relationship because it will make me feel ________, ________, and ________…”
Believing it’s true or untrue doesn’t change anything. It’s a simple universal principle. However, if you believe it and get in tune with it, you can start predicting and expecting what happens to you, for you. Your awareness of the Law of Attraction can affect your life.
Learning how to manifest love isn’t out of your reach. You need to understand a few basic concepts and learn to give way to the law of resistance first. This is the law which states you get the very thing that you’re resisting because of the energy that is expended on the thought.
Just like the good old tracks that the sled follows down the mountain. And so we tell the same old story, over and over, about why we have our childhood wounds, and about how bad our previous relationship was, how we got dumped, how we’re not being loved the way we want to be, how unequal this relationship how we have these abandonment issues, how they cheated on us, how we’re too old to find love, too fat, too skinny, too white, too black, too gay, too straight, too poor, too rich, too unstable, too unreliable, afraid of commitment, too demanding… Blah, blah, blah. PLEASE STOP! The more you tell the same old story, the more you’re perpetuating it in your experience and the more you’re blocking love from coming into your life. Why? Because you keep focusing on it.
I came across Nodreen on YouTube while searching for LOA videos. What I love about her is that she is in the midst of manifesting big things RIGHT NOW, so she is a great example of LOA in action. This book is short and concise, giving the reader the “meat” of how to manifest. Do yourself a favor, read this book and follow Nodreen wherever you can… she’s the real deal!
The great thing is that this action will seem easier than before as you are aligned and clear about what you want. Every day, take at least one step in the direction of your dreams, whether that is de-cluttering your home to get ready to simplify, taking an online course to learn more about marketing your business, going on a date or taking a spinning class.
Learning how to connect with yourself has a lot to do with tuning into your own needs and then meeting those needs. When you make a habit of this, you’re much more able to attract love with someone who will nurture you. One way to ensure you take better care of yourself while you’re looking for love is to set aside an hour a day where you commit to pursuing a hobby you love, no matter what other, more “productive” things you could be doing.
However, an important cautionary note is that you absolutely must set realistic expectations. It’s not possible to manifest love with a “perfect” person because there is no such thing as a perfect person. You have to be willing to find love with someone who is perfect for you but who has some flaws and difficulties nonetheless.
For example, if you’re looking to create more income or manifest a big payday, you need to plan around that expectation. Imagine when someone tells you that they’re coming to visit and they’ll be staying at your house in the guest bedroom. You plan your life in accordance with that expected outcome. You prepare the bedroom, clean the house, wash the sheets, and so on.
We create our reality whether consciously or not constantly. Have you ever missed a bus or subway when you woke up in a hurry and was worrying of coming late? Or has it ever happened to you that you wanted something so much but deep inside you didn’t believe that it could be yours and it hasn’t happened?
The starting point has to with you. Why would you want to use the Law of Attraction to marry a specific person? It doesn’t make any sense, how could that be a happy relationship? Most people have been brought up to put others first, which means you’re putting yourself last. It’s easy to see why your subconscious mind has taught you that you don’t deserve what you want.
Yes, really. I haven’t posted fake comments. I don’t need to. I also don’t know any of the people who have commented. All of the comments are 100% real and unsolicited. Why don’t you try the manifesting techniques in this article? Surely you aren’t afraid you might actually manifest money today? If you are, there are articles on this site that can help you overcome your resistance and limiting beliefs around money and the Law of Attraction. Apply the tips in them and then come back and do the techniques listed here. You just might surprise yourself by how well they work.
In late 2012, I listened to the song “Good Life” by OneRepublic over and over again and in February 2013 I was accepted into Jonathan Field’s Good Life Project spending 10 months with Jonathan and 20 incredible human beings.