I’d also like to mention and encourage you that, finding the true love, is one of the most, if not, THE MOST exhilarating and rewarding facets of all human experiences. When you find the right “one“, everything in your life is affected and made better – your viewpoint on life, your relationships, your obstacles and problems just seem to be so much easier to deal with and solve.
I started with manifesting pennies in the Summer of 2006. Then I graduated to nickels, dimes, and quarters. I focused on quarters for several weeks. Then I progressed to dollars to $100 to $1000 to $10K to $50K. Overall it took less than a year to go from manifesting pennies to manifesting $50K. After that point I become more interested in non-monetary manifesting and had some especially fun times with manifesting in my social life — friends, mentors, and other yumminess. In fact, I honestly feel that manifesting money is a bit boring compared to all the other cool stuff you can manifest. It’s like playing a video game and obsessing over the score. That can be fun for a while, but eventually you want to focus on more interesting aspects of the game world.
Write a clear list of all of the things you would like to do with your soul mate. List out the dates, tourist attractions, events and fun things you can do together. Feel excited about sharing these experiences with someone. Remember, it’s ALL ABOUT THE FEELING SPACE.
Once you have that ideal image in your mind, replay it over and over, until one day you will find yourself actually living it. The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can transform your love life.
Absolute detachment. This step is one where most people stumble. We like to control things in our life because we’re afraid that if we wouldn’t control them then they would not happen. And this is exactly the reason why we need to let them go. If we’re attached to what we want and we obsess about having it NOW then we’re simultaneously saying that we don’t believe that we can have it. Which undermines principle number 4 — creating an unflappable belief. By letting go of when and how, you show that you believe that it is already yours. Because only he who is certain of the outcome can afford to wait.
Create systems that work for you. Being organized helps you define your goals and set methods in how to achieve them. Set up a system that works for you. Manage your life effectively by organizing your dreams into bite-size chunks and letting systems guide you toward achieving your goals.
In order to be filled with love, you need to be able to connect with your source of love. As you learn to love yourself, you become able to access your personal source of spiritual guidance — which can guide you in your highest good and support your power of manifestation.
We often associate blame and fault to negative situations. It is the burning desire in us to assign a reason for everything. It also reaffirms our fears, doubts and insecurities. The Law of Attraction doesn’t mean that you are solely responsible for every little thing that happens to you. It simply means that ‘like’ attracts ‘like.’
Once I reprogrammed the unconscious beliefs that were keeping me in the same attraction pattern and reprogrammed them, He walked into my life exactly as I had scripted it. Now me and my children are graced with the presence of an amazing man who lifts us up and loves us all unconditionally.
The only failure comes in not attempting. There is no actual failure in giving your all whatever the results. Just be sure to learn from so-called failures, as usually they contain the greatest lessons.
You will not proceed to the checkout, though – this is only an exercise to help you experience the joy of being a wealthy person, and also to determine the Universe to attract this wealth in your life.
Arielle: Big Love is when soul mates come together and the world is a better place because of the love they share and generate. it’s when you and your soul mate have chemistry, a shared vision and spiritual path all at once. When you’ve got it, you know it.
It is also one of the most challenging because we are instantly confronted by our limitations. If we don’t treat ourselves for these limitations, I believe we risk remaining prisoners of our own version of “what is,” or our current reality. I’m particularly interested in those wild ideas about “what could be” that leap into our minds and crash up against our beliefs about what is possible for us. These are the big, hairy audacious goals that excite and scare us at the same time. If you have one of those goals in your heart, I am talking to you today.
If you are living a life that you love, then people will naturally be attracted to you in droves. Someone who genuinely feels the joy of being alive on a daily basis are so uncommon that it will spark people’s curiosity. It will attract a good partner as well.
Live in the knowingness that you are in a loving, committed relationship. This wonderful Universe of ours is set up to deliver the people and things we draw to us that our consistent with our personal belief system. If you don’t believe you will ever find the one, then, guess what… you probably won’t. So, believing and knowing that your soul mate is out there is the most important part of the formula. Big love is possible for any one of any age if you are willing to become a magnet for love. Continue to live each day in the knowingness that you already are in a loving, committed relationship as you savor the waiting for your beloved to arrive.
People who are using the Law of Attraction correctly to manifest love are open to a relationship with anyone who is a good match. If you are overly focused on one person, that means you are rejecting people left and right who might give you same joy and happiness as the one you’re hung up on.
So if you come at this from a place of saying, “I really need $1000 to pay my rent next month, so I’m going to focus hard on manifesting it via the Law of Attraction,” well… good luck with that. But I’d bet against you.
So take care of yourself, and try to always look presentable, even if it’s just going to the local supermarket! It’s the feelings you’ll get from this kind of attitude that counts, not your outfit. You will feel good in your skin and your vibration will radiate around you. When you don’t feel good, even if you’re the most attractive human being (physically) you will repel others from you.
Approaching your fears and doubts with love and compassion is very difficult. Negative emotions are quite overpowering and limiting, and as a result, are hard to feel a lot of love for. Have patience with yourself and try out a loving kindness meditation.
Instead of saying that you do not have money, say “It is so good that I am rich. I love Money and Money loves me. I am magnet to Money!” It will not be long until you will eventually become rich indeed.