When you hear someone talk about their success with the Law of Attraction (LoA) or The Secret, you’ve likely witnessed a passionate, excited person describe what seems like impossible magic. Read on to get answers to all your questions about this seemingly magical system, and how well it really works.
For me, I found ways to make myself feel more loved by taking the time to work on self love. I found the places in my life where I already felt supported and taken care of. I started taking myself out to artsy shows and museums. I ate a lot of Thai food. I practiced staying true to myself. Well, I sure didn’t wrestle myself, but I did imagine wrestling him from time to time. I took the time to practice more self compassion and understand myself. I found lots of ways to laugh more.
This is the most important step and the one most people get stuck on. After you’ve properly defined what you want and immersed yourself in the vision, you must let go in order for manifestation to occur!
You are something of real value and you have something unique to offer the world. Have faith that you will be supported the more you authentically reveal yourself. The whole universe conspired to create you so there is a good reason you’re here. If you’re struggling to find it, keep looking, it may be hidden. Yet, don’t get stuck on searching. Too many spiritual seekers think that they have some unique destiny to contribute to civilization (which they haven’t discovered yet), when they would be more productive in choosing a path and sticking to it and seeing the meaning in small acts of kindness. Whether you’re the Prime Minister or a street sweeper, there is meaning in your being here.
When you notice that you’re getting frustrated, pause, breathe, and go back to the desire side. Hold that vision of the creation you wish to experience, and wallow in the positive sensations of being there in your heart, mind, and spirit. Know that physical reality will soon catch up, as long as you keep holding the right vibe.
Yet, things might take longer than you expect for them to occur, and that’s quite alright. Not everything will happen within the timeframe that we decide for them to happen. In fact, it’s often far-removed from that. But as long as we don’t waver in our expectations and don’t falter in our persistence, they always come to pass. Always.
It has been said that giving is receiving – and that works well for attracting wealth in your life, too. Rich people donate money to charities all the time, and that is exactly what you should be doing as well.
If you want to manifest money, you CANNOT believe that money is a power source. Money cannot give you wealth or abundance or happiness. It really can’t give you anything. Money just sits there — all the power comes from you. If you believe that having more money will give you any additional power at all, then you’re actually holding the vibe that says, “I’m too weak to attract money.” You’ll have to get a job instead. 😉
Your mind is going to fight you on feeling better now, even though you still don’t have what you want. It will come up with plenty of compelling reasons why you should feel like crap; it will remind you to look at your immediate reality, badlyand convince you that all you should be doing now is worrying, obsessing, and finding ways to ‘fix’ the problem.
Coins may be found on the ground while you’re walking around. Bills will sometimes be found on the ground too. Larger sums may manifest in the form of exchanges, business deals, inheritances, inspired action, and other ways. Assume that those larger sums are right in front of your face, staring at you and screaming at you to notice them. You just have to tune your vibe to the right frequency to pick them up.
It is merely not sufficient to know exactly what you want and to wish for it. It is like calling a fine dining restaurant and just telling them to book a table for you. You have to tell the restaurant clerk that you need a table for 2 for the specific day (say tomorrow) for dinner at 7.30 pm and you want this table to be near the window so that you can have the view of the city.
While the complexities of life after billions of years of evolution have created a diverse set of organisms here on earth, we still all stem from the same, single source, which can be traced back not only to the very beginnings of the earth’s existence, but also to the start of the universe itself, and time as we now know it today.
Do you feel that the person you’ve been with is already very close to what you want, but not quite “The One”? I understand that other people may be telling you to stop seeking “perfection”. You may even be judging yourself.
Jeanna Gabellini is an Extreme Abundance Coach, author, speaker, trainer, and radio show host who blends strategies and fun with the Law of Attraction. She coaches individuals and teams to go BIG… effortlessly! Her new book, “Life Lessons on Mastering the Law of Attraction,” is co-authored with Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen and Eva Gregory. Email Jeanna@MasterPeaceCoaching.com or call (707) 747-0447. Also visit: www.MasterPeaceCoaching.com
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If you want to know what it’s like to go throughout your days without hearing the voice of fear or criticism, and have the voice of encouragement and love be the only voice (and attract a wonderful Loving Man) listen in:
Just saw your website. Is it geared only towards women or can men take advantage of your expertise and tools that you give. I really want to manifest a lot of money, because I believe that I am entitled to.
You want her to be fit because you are attracted to health and vitality. You like brunettes because you find them sexy. You want her to be maternal because you would like a family. And you would love someone sporty who you can do lots of fun activities with.
You’re also competing with other people’s intentions – both good and bad. So, be aware that if your desire is in direct conflict with someone else’s stronger desire, the universe will respond accordingly. The Law of Attraction does not give you full and total control of your life, it simply states that like will attract like. You can use this to your advantage by being intentional with your desires, but this isn’t magic.
Do not let your imagination be restricted to the current conditions of your life, or what I call “being obsessed with what is.” Keep reminding yourself that everything that you’ve believed has gotten you to precisely the point where you are now.
The videos, audios, and writing in this course were created in complete-alignment with the frequency of Love, devotion, presence, connection, and Truth. As you’re exposed to the material in this course, your frequency of Love will naturally rise to match what’s being delivered to you. You’ll feel more connected to Love within yourself, and you’ll experience the difference in how others respond to this energy within you.
Whether or not you believe that is immaterial. What’s important to note about that is that anything can be manifested into your life, including money, relationships and specific situations, as long as the energy is directed towards a particular end. And, to help that energy along, you need to plan around your expected outcome.
You really can’t blame them, though. All of the propaganda surrounding “the secret” is easily misunderstood because it is a very shallow depiction of what the Law of Attraction entails. If you have no further exposure to the concept, you might end up thinking that it is basically the same as wishful thinking or magic. It’s not.