These seven steps will help you find the love of your life, your soul mate, get back your ex, find someone new, or remind you that you should be the love of your life. And a note, this process can be done to an existing relationship as well. I used it in my current relationship, and I tell you how at the end of the video.
You’re not just close to having abundance in all areas of your life: you’re already there. In fact, the things you desire most – love, prosperity and health, are part of your natural state of being. When you accept that YOU ARE love, prosperity and health with all of your heart, you will behave in a way that allows them to flow into your life.
The most important thing about manifesting your ideal life is to know what you want. It’s also the hardest part, isn’t it? What DO you want? The true you, not the socially conformed you? What does your heart desire? Where do you want to go? Who do you want to be?
The next step is crucial to the manifestation process. In order to truly manifest your desires into form, you gotta chill out! A Course in Miracles teaches: “Those who are certain of the outcome can afford to wait and wait without anxiety.” Take this message with you and allow your faithfulness to guide you into the belief that what you desire is on the way. Also trust that the universe has a much better plan than you do. Though you are clear about what you want, you cannot control the timing or the form in which it comes. Stay calm, relax and trust that the universe has your back!
Now that you understand what the Law of Attraction really is and how it works, let’s talk about the ways you can use it to improve your life. The Law of Attraction is a universal principle that is already working in your life. Start intentionally thinking and feeling what it is you want to attract into your life — such as money, love and relationships, health and spirituality — to make the Law of Attraction work for you.
Breathe from the belly, not the chest. This type of breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system (rest-and-digest), which helps produce a sense of relaxation and contentment and allows us to be calm and clear when taking inspired action.
That means getting clear on what you want, being a vibrational match and using advanced Law of Attraction techniques, like oneness and heart energy, to attract the specific person you want. My step-by-step system works for everyone. You can use it for the man you have a crush on at the local drugstore or for the “one that got away.”
Some people in therapy believe that they are a product of everything that has happened to them. This is called an external locus of control because these people believe they are not in control of their lives. The goal of therapy is for patients to realize that they actually have an internal locus of control.
Although this might sound ridiculous at first, it’s a bit like the visualization tip above. It helps you really tune into the reality of money and send out more effective, coherent signals to the Universe about what you want.
When you understand the answers to these types of questions about manifesting your soulmate, your mind and heart begin to focus on trying to find love that is based on true mutual understanding and excitement. You can do all kinds of creative techniques to bolster the designing of your life partner. For example, Law of Attraction experts recommend daily visualization exercises in which you conjure up a vivid sense of what your life partner would be like. Meanwhile, you can also create a dream board that represents all the traits you’re looking for and your image of how this relationship will improve your life.
Think of it like this. If you want to manifest money, but you believe that money is its own power source, then deep down you’re giving money the power to say no to you. If money has power, then it can refuse to show most important thing that you have to understand is that your belief and hope should never vanish! You must always believe in yourself and the power of the Universe (God, super-conscious mind, source – whatever name you choose).
Attracting wealth in your life is a matter of vision – how you envision money, and how you envision yourself having it. Exercising visualizations can help you bring money in your life, especially if you make sure that they are entirely positive.
It’s not just about “loving yourself” on the surface. It’s about having CORE beliefs aligned with the truth of who you are. A beautiful Soul that is a gift to this world. Most times we don’t truly allow ourselves to know this truth, out of fear, traumas, and early conditioning, and so our untruth shows up in our relationships.
If you’re practicing these techniques with something simple, it’s time to take action and expect your results. If you’re using the system to find great parking, get in your car and drive to that parking spot with the full intention and expectation of finding it clear for you. Announce it out loud. “That parking spot is clear for me. I am parking in the spot that is open for me.” Again, we are fully aware that this seems really silly, but it’s a critical step.
If you’re going to manifest your soulmate, it’s vital to first understand why it is that your attempts to find love so often go awry. While everyone’s story of looking for love is slightly different, there are often common factors in play that can block you from creating the romance you deserve to have. For example, you may find the following are true of you:
In other words, you must be a different person to receive something different from the Universe. This is why most people get it wrong. They don’t want to change. They think they can stay the same and get different results somehow.
It’s hard to say what happened, but more than likely, you have fears that you aren’t addressing with compassion. Simply desiring riches doesn’t manifest money into your life. Ensure your fears and doubts aren’t speaking louder than your desires.