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Have a clear intention. Conscious manifestation is all about intention. Intend that your vision happens at your will. Manifestation doesn’t require an effort but being focused on what you want. Intention gives a clear direction to your desire. By being focused, you say to the energy where it should go. Imagine that you’d like to start a yoga studio but your energy and focus would go on being on Facebook and chatting with your friends. While there is nothing inherently bad about that, the thing is that you lack energy that you need to support your dream. Every dream needs a certain amount of energy to manifest in a physical reality. This is where focus and intention play a major role.
If you approach money like a power source of its own, then by trying to manifest it, you’re really trying to overpower it, and in such a contest you’ll usually lose. That contest, however, is completely internal — and pretty much insane. It’s like trying to arm wrestle yourself. How can you win? It’s a false reality you’re projecting because you aren’t ready to fully wield your own power yet.
A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.”
Why are you really here? What is your personal purpose on earth? In an extraordinarily rare interview from his home in Switzerland, Paulo Coelho, the author of The Alchemist, one of the best-selling books of all time, answers life’s biggest questions. He teaches us about dreams, destiny and the one thing he believes will make us happy. Oprah sa ……
I started to recite the prayer that night. I think I read it 3 times. First, I read it silently. Then, I mouthed it to myself until tears filled my eyes- my boyfriend innocently unaware lying asleep next to me. Afterwards, the prayer filled my mind as I drifted off into the best anxiety-less sleep I had experienced in a long time.
You’ve got to put a roadblock on the sled path. Stop telling the OLD story and start telling the NEW story! The NEW story of how you want it to be. The story of what it’s like to be in the most magical, loving relationship with your Soulmate. Starting now. You’re going to start catching yourself when you’re chatting with friends and the OLD story starts to creep out. Notice it. Then shift to the NEW story.
Only focus on manifesting money directly if you’re capable of seeing the money as a plaything, like a video game score. It’s only something to manifest for fun, not something to get all worked up and stressed about.
This next part is important. The second step I take is letting it go. This is crucial. The more you dwell on your intention, the more the Universe feels this energy of desperation, and the more your co-creation will be pushed out in time. Letting go shows the Universe trust.
I did your guided meditation last night. It was an intense experience for me. By the end I was crying but it helped me stop caring about the outcome which i think was the one thing I was having trouble with.
Repeat this exercise in your mind with no doubt whatsoever. I am sure the repetition, intensity and expectancy will do their job of sending out the message to the Universe which will oblige you with providing you with the right opportunities.
The most important aspect of manifesting money is to approach it from the right heartset. Think of your heartset as the overall vibe of your relationship to the activity of attracting money. How would you describe that relationship? Is it greedy, needy, excited, hopeful, etc?
So many people attach their happiness to outcomes, and in doing so, get overwhelmed by the process. You need to realize that the act of control has a low frequency. When you try to control everything, it doesn’t leave any room for manifestation. Negative thoughts only create barriers for the Universe to do its work.
Manifesting love or a relationship is possible if you are prepared to allow it to happen. In addition to developing positive beliefs about yourself, you should also do the same for love and relationships. If you don’t, you’re putting a block on them coming into your life. Your power of thought should help with showing you signs of manifestation.
Think of it like this. If you want to manifest money, but you believe that money is its own power source, then deep down you’re giving money the power to say no to you. If money has power, then it can refuse to show up.
I like to put this into a spiritual perspective because it really changes the energy feeling that the concept of manifesting money brings you. You know by know that you are a spiritual being having a human experience in a physical reality.
We can easily manifest money into our lives, or anything else for that matter, by expecting it to come to pass. Wishing and hoping doesn’t work. The Law of Attraction is founded on an expectation of a specific outcome. It revolves around the potential positive or negative energy that a given thought takes in your mind. When you expect the worst to happen, it often happens. When you expect the opposite, that often occurs as well.
You’re also competing with other people’s intentions – both good and bad. So, be aware that if your desire is in direct conflict with someone else’s stronger desire, the universe will respond accordingly. The Law of Attraction does not give you full and total control of your life, it simply states that like will attract like. You can use this to your advantage by being intentional with your desires, but this isn’t magic.
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That being said, if you are not completely sure as to what kind of partner you’d like or how you’d want to feel, this simple meditation can certainly do the trick: Close your eyes and take deep breaths. In your mind’s eye visualize your partner or your future partner and yourself. Visualize this person coming from a distance as a bright being of light. As this person comes closer to you, you recognize that you yourself are a strong being of bright light as well. When this person comes close to you you realize that you are both two whole beings. Complete in yourselves and equal to one another. There is a mutual sense of balance, love, and light between the two of you.
There are literally thousands of similar examples. All the people that earned extraordinary amounts of money, people that created incredible companies. All of them believed that they can do it! The question is, how do you increase your faith? How do you make your faith so strong and so powerful, like Jesus and Gandhi did?
The more you do it, the more your images of future possibility will start to feel more real. Not only will they begin to feel more achievable, but they will also start to become the reality by which you run your life.
Having just started to read about the law of attraction, I realized that I was already putting some of the practices to use. I just finished reading the Secret and this book is pretty much the same thing but more focused on love. By reading these books I realized that I originally attracted my love because I was shearing emiting love and radiance. I was in a great place and felt very confident. As the relationship grew, we allowed negativity in and I quickly lost focus on the positive as did he and then poof, it was gone. I was devastated because I know this is my soul mate and even though I have this gut feeling we WILL get back together, I was left with my head spinning. This book really helped put things into perspective and has made me realize, I need to get back to that old me. The woman that was already confident, joyful, loving and radiant. I am confident that I will attract my ideal relationship back, whether with its with my ex or someone better. This is a great book to read to shift the focus back on to YOU.
If you’ve read that book, you’ll know that in the chapter on relationships it explains that in order to attract someone who likes you, first of all you have to like yourself. This is very important, because if you don’t like yourself, you’ll be sending out the wrong kind of vibes (vibrations) to a potential partner.
My name is Randina Marie, I help women who are longing for love, find it and keep it. I am a transformational Life and Success Mentor, I am a Manifestation Mentor, a Relationship coach, a Licensed Master Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner, an Energy Healer, an Author, and have thousands of hours working in depth with women on dating, relationships, and Love. I have studied the Law of Creation, and know and teach the formula for Rapid Manifestation. They don’t call me “The Queen of Rapid Transformation for nothing. I have a 100% success rate and I know I can help ANY woman on the Planet Manifest her SoulMate.
The objective reality of this world is solely produced by the human imagination, in which all things exist. I hope to show you how to subjectively appropriate that which already exists in you, and turn it into an objective fact. Your life is nothing more than the out picturing of your imaginal activity, for your imagination fulfills itself in what your life becomes.
I started with manifesting pennies in the Summer of 2006. Then I graduated to nickels, dimes, and quarters. I focused on quarters for several weeks. Then I progressed to dollars to $100 to $1000 to $10K to $50K. Overall it took less than a year to go from manifesting pennies to manifesting $50K. After that point I become more interested in non-monetary manifesting and had some especially fun times with manifesting in my social life — friends, mentors, and other yumminess. In fact, I honestly feel that manifesting money is a bit boring compared to all the other cool stuff you can manifest. It’s like playing a video game and obsessing over the score. That can be fun for a while, but eventually you want to focus on more interesting aspects of the game world.
How does soulmate love feel to you? What goes on in your brain or your chest or your belly when you see that person? Joyful, excited, relieved, secure, happy, anticipatory or content? Feel the feelings, imagine the conversations you’ll have and fake it till you make it. It’s better to ‘live as if’ rather than focus on the lack of the relationship. “It’s been x months/years and it still hasn’t happened” is living in insufficiency and that’s hardly what you want. Don’t live in the reality of what’s missing, you don’t get love by focusing on the love you don’t have—live as if you’ve already found your soulmate and share the love you have in your soul with everyone!
We had to find a place quickly — you can’t be homeless with two horses and two dogs! Finally, our agent said, “Well, there’s one more home available. It’s more than you wanted to pay, do you want to see it?” We felt we had no choice, so we went to see it. Actually, we had seen it on the Internet but it hadn’t looked appealing. We later found out that their agent had taken terrible photos, which was why it was still on the market.
In the same way, if you are trying to manifest “financial freedom” make sure you know what that means to you. How much money is that a month/a year? What will you spend it on? So take some time to think about it, make a spreadsheet if you need to, come up with a specific number and write it down.
Be specific about what your desire is. It is not necessary to say that I wish that I had more money and money will just manifest before you. You have to know specifically what is it / how much is it that you want. It is very important to know what you want. Therefore, it would be a helpful exercise worth spending some of your time to write down specifically what you want.
Can you imagine telling that to a person thousands of years ago? They would have laughed at you. But that thought took hold and it became a story. It was a story that was told and retold by countless others across hundreds and hundreds of years during modern civilization before it became a self-evident truth.
Finally, make the final decision what this person is like, and decide that from now on, you’ll do everything you can to be with this wonderful soul mate of yours. It all starts without a decision – without it, you’re lost in life and you’ll give up on the first obstacle! But once you make a firm decision that YES, this is what I want and I am going to GET IT, then you set the most powerful forces in the Universe to do your bidding – even though you’re not aware of what actually doing!
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