An even stronger vibe is to generate feelings of playfulness and excitement. This is a great vibe for manifesting money. In the next section, I’ll share a story to illustrate how I do this with my daughter.
If you want to know what it’s like to go throughout your days without hearing the voice of fear or criticism, and have the voice of encouragement and love be the only voice (and attract a wonderful Loving Man) listen in:
6) Use this time to grow in your ability to be more patient, more loving, more giving, more forgiving and more gentle and kind with yourself. Get your ducks in a row, explore new hobbies and interests and keep on growing your current friendships. Continue to work on all your mental and emotional blocks to love and, most importantly, continue to have faith that he or she is out there, and that you can’t miss each other.
7) Enjoy the time that you’re single. One day you’ll look back upon these days and you’ll cherish them. Live it up! Enjoy sleeping alone, the pleasure of doing what you want and when you want it, of spending your money on yourself and, most importantly, being grateful for where you are RIGHT now on your journey.
It’s really important to know how good (or not so good) your levels of self-esteem are. You really need to love yourself in order to attract a relationship that is sustainable. The truth? Otherwise you’ll be attracting someone that will want to fix you or will magnify your need to take care of yourself better. This can be a good thing, but unless you shine light on the need for self-love and self-care then it can turn ugly very fast. So this is why it’s so important to treat yourself well and show yourself the love you think you deserve.
To really work with the Law of Attraction, be intentional with your thoughts, feelings and actions. Intention focuses your brain activity and uses every available resource to help you perform an action. This type of disciplined focus will help you achieve faster and more accurate results when using the Law of Attraction.
Oprah’s conversation with best-selling author Paulo Coelho continues from his home in Switzerland. In Part 2, Paulo shares his unique spiritual journey and how he never lost faith in his personal dream.
This is when we begin to loathe relations. We begin to be skeptical, and sometimes, we may even question ourselves whether there is such a thing as “true love”. Of course, there may be problems that may have led to these failed relationships. They may be issuing from both the world within and the world without.
Have you been looking for the love of your life for years with no result? Are you frustrated and feel like you must be doing something wrong? Even worse, have you begun believing that it’s never going to happen?
Instead of feeling jealous, understand if you are seeing someone else living your dream, your dream is getting closer. So instead of being jealous, celebrate the love you see and bless all the loving relationships you witness. In this way, you are telling the universe to bring you some of that.
If you haven’t yet manifested what you want, it’s likely you are resisting what the universe has to offer. Doubts, pain, procrastination, frustrations, anxiety, fears, regrets and resentments are all forms of resistance.
Get your conscious and subconscious minds on the same page. This step requires that you explore and unearth your underlying beliefs about men and relationships. This isn’t always easy; it’s called the subconscious for a reason. I didn’t know I had a subconscious belief that I was destined to be an old maid like my Aunt Betsey. But as soon as I became conscious of this belief, and that it was sabotaging my relationships, it disappeared. matter how much we might think we want a relationship, if our inner beliefs don’t agree it will keep love away.
It’s fun to think of this vibe-shifting process as shifting dimensions, as if you’re tuning in to a different perceptual frequency spectrum. That other reality was there all along. You just couldn’t see it before because you were tuned in to incompatible perceptual frequencies, frequencies that made the money invisible and undetectable by your senses. Maybe you were stuck on the red part of the spectrum, while the money was hanging out in the blue part.
#5 Trust and believe that it will happen! When we don’t trust and believe in what we can create for ourselves, this is when we tend to experience emotions like worry and anxiety. Try to be mindful and aware whenever these emotions come up. If you feel doubt and, hence, a sense of worry come in then simply be aware of it. Don’t try to ignore it or push it away. Just let it be. Then focus on trusting and believing that it will and can happen for you!
In my experience, there is at least as much work required in treating your fear of success as there is in treating your fear of failure. If your goal is big enough, thinking of yourself in it (having it, doing it, being it) will bring up some pretty challenging feelings. In treating these fears of success, you’ll again be targeting EFT at the negatives.
You might think, how can reading books help you to manifest love? Men and women are smarter and more cautious now, not to go for the most part for looks, and for physical appearance. Of course that appearance counts for something, but its role in attracting love is really of minor importance. Love happens on a spiritual, not on a physical level.