We also made a list of all the things we wanted in our new home: a wonderful barn for our horses with a heated tack room and a heated bathroom, a covered place to store our farm equipment, 35 hay growing acres, an arena for exercising the horses, a one-story, ranch-type home, rolling hills with great views, great neighbors (the neighbors in our last home were extremely difficult), no homeowner’s association or an HOA that was not run by controlling people like at our last home, an art room, a rural location but still very near health food stores and other shopping and to be near family.
I was a first time bride at age 44. I woke up one day, at age 43, and decided to manifest my soulmate using everything I had ever learned about psychology, spirituality, and the Law of Attraction. My intentions became crystal clear while I simultaneously cleared out the clutter in my house AND in my heart.
How times did it happen to you to tell yourself that money does not matter, or that it does not bring happiness? Psychologically speaking, this is a way to get along with the idea of not having money.
But conscious creators know that we can have whatever we are willing to learn the vibration of. We don’t have to figure out how or make it happen – all we have to do is offer the vibrational instruction of whatever we want. And then it must become so.
9) Finally, learn to fall in love with yourself fully. The more you learn to fully love and accept yourself, the more you’ll learn to recognize other peoples’ love, too. Begin by loving yourself and accepting yourself just the way you are, with all your quirks and idiosyncrasies (and we all have them). Work on accepting your weaknesses, your strengths, your limitations, your guilt and insecurities as part of your make-up.
It took four years for our home to sell, but it finally did last year. When we went to look for our new home, we were greatly dismayed to discover that there was almost nothing for sale. Apparently, the people in the area we wanted rarely sold their ranches, and the few we saw were falling apart.
Do like I did with Emily when she kept finding bottle caps and smudges. Praise yourself for succeeding at what you’re already manifesting, and then command your senses to adjust to a more abundant part of the spectrum of reality. Be patient with yourself — you’ll get it.
Have a clear intention. Conscious manifestation is all about intention. Intend that your vision happens at your will. Manifestation doesn’t require an effort but being focused on what you want. Intention gives a clear direction to your desire. By being focused, you say to the energy where it should go. Imagine that you’d like to start a yoga studio but your energy and focus would go on being on Facebook and chatting with your friends. While there is nothing inherently bad about that, the thing is that you lack energy that you need to support your dream. Every dream needs a certain amount of energy to manifest in a physical reality. This is where focus and intention play a major role.
Writing your goals will not only help you get clear, but will help you create inspired action steps toward your dreams. Connecting to your “why” means connecting to the feeling that achieving the goal will give you. When we connect to the “why,” we raise our vibration and become magnets for attracting the people, circumstances, etc. that will help us achieve our goal.
You’re also competing with other people’s intentions – both good and bad. So, be aware that if your desire is in direct conflict with someone else’s stronger desire, the universe will respond accordingly. The Law of Attraction does not give you full and total control of your life, it simply states that like will attract like. You can use this to your advantage by being intentional with your desires, but this isn’t magic.
Most people don’t consider using the Law of Attraction to bring better health into their lives, but as you noticed in the results of the aging experiment, it’s actually a great tool for that purpose. Because the Law of Attraction works with thoughts and thoughts affect our physical reality, you may be attracting poor health into your life right now without even realizing it.
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An even stronger vibe is to generate feelings of playfulness and excitement. This is a great vibe for manifesting money. In the next section, I’ll share a story to illustrate how I do this with my daughter.
Besides that, the pressure of life will begin to have its impact on us, and so, we will feel the need to have another person we can talk to, share our problems and worries with, and even conquer the world together.
Lately I’ve been teaching my daughter Emily (age 10) how to manifest coins. I do this by turning it into a game. When we’re out walking together, I challenge her to see if she can find more coins than I can.
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If you think that once you have money, you will become stronger, you’re crazy. Absolutely deluded! More likely — if you actually did manifest money from that kind of vibe — you’d grow even weaker. This would be a bad outcome for you, even though it seems like what you want. You’d be a weak-minded, weak-hearted person with more money, and you’d still see the money as more powerful than you, even while it’s in your possession. You’d then become attached to it and afraid of losing it because you’d still mistakenly see it as a power source. It would become a source of security for you, a constantly vulnerable one. The more money you had, the more paranoid you’d become about losing it. This would really mess you up big time. So be very, very glad that you naturally attract less money when you think of money as a power source. If you invite money into your life from that crazy frame of giving away your power, then money will become your Master, and you will be forever its slave. Don’t even go there!