Then treat yourself for these beliefs by inserting the belief statements into the Setup and also repeating the belief statement at each tapping point. For example, in my case, the statement was something like “Even though if I become rich, I will be less spiritual…”
You must see yourself as if the abundance has already been manifested. You must give thanks for your prosperity despite the physical reality of what you are being presented with. This is the ultimate key to unlocking your desires from the etheric realm.
To motivate yourself, look around and you may find people whom you already know who have manifested and are regularly attracting things they want using law of attraction. They are regularly and actively putting efforts into the process.
We have spent years and years thinking the same thoughts over and over again, based on past circumstances and experiences – and most of them are not even our thoughts! And we have grooved these thoughts so strongly, that when something happens in our life, these thoughts automatically get triggered and then our old patterns play themselves out.
Arielle: In addition to healing your heart from past relationships, you need to create a clear intention. The analogy I like to use it this: When you walk into your favorite coffee hangout what is the first thing you do? Place your order. You confidently tell the barista, “I will have a tall, half-caff, low-fat mocha latte, with a splash of non-sugar vanilla syrup to go.” The barista smiles, writes your order on the side of a cup and takes your money. Within minutes you are walking out the door with the precise, delicious cup of coffee that you ordered. Ordering up a soul mate from the Universe works in a similar way. It’s not always as instantaneous but it can be just as precise. But to have the Universe to deliver your perfect soul mate, you must first clearly place your order. This isn’t quite as easy as it sounds. You must first search your heart for what you really, really desire. By now you know what you don’t want but you need to ask for what you do want. In the Soulmate Kit we explain how to place your order by creating a detailed list and we then provide a variety of rituals to do to release your list to the Universe.
Hi Toni! Tough question! Focus on holding that feeling of love in your heart. (Because it always starts inside of you, not with the other person!) Then keep on striving to become the kind of person you think you’d be if you were still in that relationship. (It’s all about attracting them back, not chasing them down!) But of course, we can only ever control our own energy and vibration (not the other person) so just focus on doing what you can! Good luck! 💜
But, it’s hard to get used to using the right mindset and sending out the right signals. Whether you’re unsure how to get a really clear vision of what you want or you’re struggling to release the fears and doubts that seem to speak louder than you, we’ve come up with a list of exercises to help you.
8. KEEP YOUR VIBRATIONAL ENERGY HIGH. Another very important step. This means keep your spirits high as much as possible. We all go through difficult times, but try to find the humor in the challenges. Take chances. Say YES! Look for the good in everything. Yes, even that mother-in-law you’re dreading seeing at Thanksgiving is a good person who is here to teach you. Find out what that lesson is and be done with it. I said, be done with IT, not HER! Feelings that vibrate low are jealousy, anger, fear, hatred, resentment — you get the point. Bad feelings that make you feel, well, BAD. Check those at the door! LOVE vibrates the highest and will attract all the good stuff to you. You feel GOOD — you attract GOOD. Again, it’s that simple.
Forget, or at least do not think about problems and things that you cannot change, and focus on the love that awaits you and believe that it’s happening. Stay positive and you will be surrounded with positivity, good things will naturally come your way. Make positivity your preferred way of living!
I know that tomorrow is the last day of our coaching session and I wanted to say thank you for your input, honesty, and guidance. I truly enjoyed my time and learning how to manifest the things that I desire and learning how to let go.
The thoughts that you dwell on determine what you will possess or not possess. What you think about is what you will become. Examine all the supposed lacks and scarcities in your life. Then say to yourself, “I created all of this with my thoughts, conditioning, beliefs and actions.”
As an example, I had a strong belief that if I became really rich I would become less spiritual. A single round of tapping on that negative belief statement at an seminar six years ago enabled me to more than double my income in the following year! From that moment on, I began to understand the power this process could unleash if we managed to identify the right beliefs to tap on.