Of course it isn’t possible to make someone fall for you, that would mean you’re controlling them, making them succumb to your wishes. That wouldn’t be right and is certainly not how the universe works. But can you use The Secret to attract a specific person?
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As you do so, you’ll be treating your attachment to a previous reality in which this goal did not exist, and making it easier for yourself to feel comfortable in a new reality that you are consciously bringing into form.
Note that at this point you may not know exactly you are going to achieve your goal. Although planning is important and necessary, it is in no way as important as gaining clarity on what you want and getting in touch with the feeling of how it will really be owning it, doing it, having it, and/or being it!
If you think that once you have money, you will become stronger, you’re crazy. Absolutely deluded! More likely — if you actually did manifest money from that kind of vibe — you’d grow even weaker. This would be a bad outcome for you, even though it seems like what you want. You’d be a weak-minded, weak-hearted person with more money, and you’d still see the money as more powerful than you, even while it’s in your possession. You’d then become attached to it and afraid of losing it because you’d still mistakenly see it as a power source. It would become a source of security for you, a constantly vulnerable one. The more money you had, the more paranoid you’d become about losing it. This would really mess you up big time. So be very, very glad that you naturally attract less money when you think of money as a power source. If you invite money into your life from that crazy frame of giving away your power, then money will become your Master, and you will be forever its slave. Don’t even go there!
Improve your story about money, and start talking about it just as if you had tons. In those moments when you do not feel like talking positively about your financial situation, opt for a neutral phrase: “I do not have to figure this out right now.“
If money has no power, then why manifest it at all? In truth, you don’t need to. But if you wish to manifest money, then do it as a game. Money is a just toy you can play with. Get excited about the experience of manifesting money, but don’t put any attention into what you’d do with the money once you have it. It’s merely a number.
Now, it’s time to live the reality of your desires. You’ve imagined what you want, cleared away your doubts and fears and realized how the law has already worked for you in the past. You practiced this type of imagination exercise in Step 1, but now it’s time to live out that imagination.
To motivate yourself, look around and you may find people whom you already know who have manifested and are regularly attracting things they want using law of attraction. They are regularly and actively putting efforts into the process.
If your current circumstances cause you to emit conflicting vibes, then even as you go through the motions of acting in accordance with a scarcer financial situation than you’d like, keep your vibe focused on that of abundance. The best way to do that is by holding the heartset of gratitude. So even if you buy cheap, low-quality food, hold the vibe that you’re grateful for it and that you appreciate it. Feel appreciative that such food exists and that it’s within your budget. And then look at the high quality stuff, and emotionally invite it into your life. If possible, find one way in which you can splurge for higher quality items, like buying a few organic apples, and feel grateful that you can do that. And when you eat those apples, really enjoy them, and intend to receive more of the same.
These are some of the most exciting applications of EFT, in my opinion, requiring us to break through our old, limiting beliefs of possibility and allowing us to expand and realize more of our true potential.
I was losing hope on the fairy tale and at one point even gave up believing a beautiful love relationship was possible, after all, all of my relationships had been dysfunctiona…l and I was always undervalued.
The most recent amazing thing occurred in this last year. Five years ago, soon after the market crash, we decided to sell our house and move closer to family. At that time, we took a trip to the area where we wanted to live and looked around. On our map book, we highlighted our driving route and circled areas that we liked, and we wrote a few notes to remind us of what we liked.
In the book of Joel, the Lord’s advice is in harmony with this practice: “Let the weak say, ‘I am strong.’” (Joel 3:10). It is truly as simple as these seven words form the Bible advise. You want what follows I am to be congruent with your highest self, which is God. Beginning with your inner dialogue, simply change the words that define your concept of yourself.
For me, what is missing here is the ethical and moral framework. I see this video and I think “greed”. For me, if you manifest wealth, there needs to be a purpose behind it. One that serves you (by providing satisfaction and fulfillment) and serves the world (it makes a difference).